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Anonymous users2024-02-12Who should take care of the child? Who should take care of the child? This is one.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11What will be the final result for those rural areas who go to the big cities in the 80s and 90s, parents who help their children take care of their children, and the elderly who do not take children?
Now many old people say that you bring your own children, and it has been very hard for us to raise you, and we are not obliged to help you take care of the children. Besides, we will help you raise your children, and the children will not be close to us in the future. But why do other elderly people ask to take the initiative to help their children take care of them?
In today's social environment, there must be a special person responsible for taking care of children, and if parents don't help bring them, there must be sons or daughters-in-law who resign and take care of the baby at home. The time when young people can really earn money is only ten years, 30 to 40 years old, and if you miss it, there will be no more.
Unless the husband is particularly able to earn money, and the money earned by one person is enough for the expenses of the whole family, the daughter-in-law can take care of the baby wholeheartedly. But most families in China are ordinary people, and the husband's salary is just enough to cover the family's expenses, and he can't save money all year round. Many can't even afford to raise themselves, let alone raise a family.
The post-80s and post-90s generation happened to encounter the high housing prices, and many families seemed to have taken root in the city. But it was already very difficult for my parents to go to college, and I had just worked for a few years, so I couldn't save much money, and the down payment on many houses was borrowed. In the future, you have to pay off the money for the down payment, as well as a bank loan.
Even if my parents help me buy a house and a car, I have to repay the mortgage every month, like our monthly mortgage is 3500, my parents did not help with the baby, I am even pregnant and have been at home full-time for 3 years, and the child's expenses are also a big expense, and it will cost thousands of dollars a month to go to kindergarten in the future, and our pressure can be imagined.
Therefore, it is not necessary for parents to help, but practical needs. The hospital is the most warm and cold place to witness people, you go to see it, many old people are sick and hospitalized, and some children and even grandchildren and grandchildren come back to the hospital to take care of the elderly for a few days, this must be when the old people are doing their best to take care of the children, and the children must know how to be grateful when they grow up. This is the exchange of hearts for hearts.
Those elderly people who do not have children, when they get sick and are hospitalized in the future, the family will earn money alone, and if they want money, they will have no money. The daughter-in-law did not help take care of the children during the difficult period, and the grandchildren did not have much affection for the elderly, so they would not take the initiative to help. The old man is lonely, but there are more clever ones.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Because I am too busy at work, I have a job to be qualified to raise children and support my parents.
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