How big is the gap between the children of the post 90s and the children of the post 80s?

I often see some netizens commenting on the Internet how irresponsible, unpatriotic, ignorant and so on the post-90s youth are, and what makes people even more angry is that they dare to hand over the future of the country to such a group of "children"! This is just a comment on the Internet, of course, there are people around me who are talking about it, and there are not a few. I was born in the '90s, just in time for what is known as the "post-90s" era.

Now that I'm in college, I have a good relationship with my friends, but there are always a few good friends who say to me when I talk to them about something, "The post-90s are the post-90s, and the thinking is immature!" I didn't say anything anymore because I knew that their perspective on the problem was different from mine, and they thought that I was thinking in a more naïve way, and they had experienced more things than me, so of course they were more experienced in these things! But I don't think so, although I haven't experienced as much as they have, but is it really a world of difference if there is only a difference of one or two years?

Posts such as "post-90s cheap girls" appeared on the Internet, and it was really infuriating to read them. But can we generalize and look at all the post-90s generation with a point because of this? Some people say that the post-90s generation does not know how to make money and only knows how to squander their parents' savings, but I have to ask, do the post-80s people guarantee that they can make money to support themselves before the age of eighteen?

Those **or** that appear on the Internet can really guarantee that the post-90s people did it themselves, and no one instructed them? The post-90s youth still have a lot to learn, and they need the guidance and encouragement of society, rather than everyone's sarcasm and rejection! As a post-90s generation, I deeply understand the feeling of being treated as a child by the people around me, and I think I understand that I am no less than others, and I believe that most of the post-90s generation should also have their own ideas and opinions.

Children of 90 either get too much love and become spoiled, or they get too little love. For example, most of the people born in the 70s are overtime freaks, the post-80s refuse to work overtime, and the post-90s refuse to go to work... There is also the fact that most of the children born in the 90s like the non-mainstream, but now the meaning of the non-mainstream has been distorted...

I think what they need most is heart-to-heart communication.

I remember when I was a child, I had a few dollars of "huge money" in my hand, and I went to the commissary to happily choose my favorite snacks, and calculated carefully**, so that a few dollars could exert the greatest energy, which was the enlightenment of financial management when I was a child, and laid a solid foundation for the current money management.

The snack gap between the post-90s and post-00s is also different, how much do you remember the taste of those childhoods?

Let's take a look at the comparison of snacks between the post-90s and post-00s!

Popsicle. Have you ever eaten a popsicle for 1 cent in the 90s? It's the kind that someone on the street sold with a box when I was a child, a big popsicle can be eaten for a long time, very tasty, there is only one, although it is single, but it is the most luxurious snack in childhood.

Bubble gum. The bubble gum of the post-90s generation is bright and smooth, the middle is empty, the outside is striped, a dime a piece, can be chewed for a long time, and at the end of eating, it will be taken out to blow bubbles, and what is even more naughty is that the chewed sugar is stuck to other people's hair, so that in the end only the hair is cut off!

The initial impression of bubble gum in the childhood of the post-00s generation is that it is big bubble gum, and they are especially envious of those children who can blow bubbles, thinking that they are so powerful.

Instant food. When I was a child, the most popular instant food was crispy noodles. 5 cents a bag, open it and put it in the seasoning bag, crush it and eat it dry.

Remember that the barrel of Master Kong costs 5 yuan a bowl, which will be more expensive compared to spicy strips. I often sneak a handful and stuff it into my mouth when the teacher writes with his back to the blackboard in class, and I can be happy for a long time.

Nowadays, there are more and more flavors of instant noodles, as well as instant rice, instant hot pot, instant porridge, etc., and many types are emerging one after another. But sometimes I still think about the crispy noodles that will stick to the flour after eating.

Chocolate. The post-90s generation will definitely know about wine chocolate! This is also the source of happiness for attending adult weddings every time.

When I was a child, I was curious about the taste of alcohol, and this chocolate just satisfied my curiosity at that time. I have the impression that I can smell a relatively heavy smell of alcohol, and I still have the feeling of hanging on my tongue after eating, and when I grow up, I realize that this is the difference between cocoa butter and cocoa butter chocolate.

And I have to mention that Mai Lisu! When I was a child, the "elixir" was a necessary prop when I directed and acted at home, as if I could cultivate the Tao and become an immortal after eating. Pour it into the palm of your hand with the children, share it, and spend the whole afternoon with a small bag.

Drink. The drink that the post-90s generation has to mention is AD calcium milk, which can only be drunk on Children's Day when I was a child. There is also a similar one called Prince Milk, which is rare now.

The post-90s generation is now the youngest generation of parents, and if this generation of parents can educate their children correctly, then our next generation will start a situation of revitalization.

The first is the education of infants and toddlers. Children can be said to be a blank sheet of paper when they are young, and whether they write good words and draw pictures or scribble on this blank paper is all determined by the parents of the post-90s. At this time, do not spoil children, parents should first cultivate children's various life abilities, help children establish a correct view of right and wrong, honor and disgrace and values, cultivate children integrity, integrity, kindness, diligence, bravery, know the quality of change, parents do not because the world is afraid that the child will suffer in the future and carry out bad character education on the child, which will affect the cultivation of the child's good character and affect the child's life.

Secondly, let's talk about how to educate children after they go to school. Parents of the post-90s generation have experienced the baptism of the college entrance examination and know the importance of academic performance, so it is wrong to strengthen the attention of their children's academic performance. Children in primary school, academic performance is secondary, as long as it can achieve excellent (more than 70 points) on the line, at this time should pay attention to the child's learning attitude, especially to see whether the child is serious in writing, reading and homework, if the child is not serious, then quickly cultivate his serious habits, children only study seriously, grow up to do things seriously.

In addition, we should also pay attention to the cultivation of children's noble character.

When the child reaches the middle school stage, the child's grades are becoming more and more important, but do not force it, focus on stimulating the child's interest in learning, as long as the child is interested in learning, then you don't need to urge, he can also learn consciously. At this time, you must pay attention to your child's physical health, and don't exchange your child's physical health for your child's excellent grades.

At this time, you should pay more attention to your child's academic performance, communicate with the school more, let your child learn profound professional knowledge, and lay a solid foundation for future employment.

Cultivate children, pay attention to the cultivation of good qualities in infants, pay attention to the correct learning attitude in primary school, pay attention to the stimulation of children's interest in learning in middle school, and pay attention to academic performance in college, your child will definitely have an excellent life prospect.

Post-80s parents pay more attention to their children's learning ability, as well as the ranking of grades, etc. The post-90s parents pay more attention to their children's physical and mental health to ensure their children's healthy and happy growth.

The first is different in terms of patience, the second is different in terms of responsibility, the third is different in terms of love, the fourth is different in the sense of spending money on children, and the fifth is different in dressing up for children.

Generally speaking, post-80s parents educate their children mainly with sticks, because they were very poor at that time, and under normal circumstances, the family could not afford their children's tuition, so you will definitely urge you to go to school, and post-90s parents generally educate their children based on incentives, that is, what kind of good results you have achieved, you will be rewarded with what you deserve