Boyfriend said to get back after graduation after breaking up?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If he tells you this, then I can tell you very responsibly that the two of you are basically cold, he just finds a reason, and then separates, knowing that you may not be happy, or that he doesn't want to be this evil person, so he keeps procrastinating, and this matter will be dragged on.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can trust him for the sake of his past dedication and peace of mind. If you don't believe him, can't you worry about things that may not be certain in the future every day?

    Believing in Him is your self-affirmation of what you have already done. To deny him is to deny oneself. Even if you pretend to believe him, you can watch it as you go.

    The road of life is very long, and it is the norm to gather and disperse. Look to the future Grasp the present, live each day well, and make every day meaningful. You'll be more and more attractive and better off.

    Feelings are two-way, it's a matter of two people. Let it be, I believe that your future will be better.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If your boyfriend isn't looking for a new partner, it may be that falling in love is too much of a delay in his current studies, or that you are sticking to him too tightly, making him feel disgusted and tired.

    Give him a little time, he wants to focus on his studies now, this is not a bad thing, if you are not very far from graduation, wait until you graduate and then go to him, maybe there is still room for redemption.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In the learning phase, the most important thing is to learn, not to deal with objects. How can there be no phoenix in the plane tree? As long as you are good enough, it is easy to find a good boyfriend.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think your boyfriend is a pretext, as long as you break up, you have no relationship, and it is impossible to say that you will get along again after graduation. He has made up his mind to break up with you, thinking that maybe you are not happy together, or that he has a better choice. I think you should break up decisively in the face of such a boyfriend, otherwise you will not be happy in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    may reconcile again, because there will indeed be a lot of pressure before graduation, depending on his personal adjustment state.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the future, this relationship should overcome difficulties by carefully planning for the future, empathy, and strengthening communication, so that the relationship can still be stable after graduation.

    As long as the relationship between the two is stable, graduation is not enough to be a reason to break up. Graduation is just a starting point, although there will be many changes after graduation, such as location, job, and future choices may be different, and these are all tests, all feelings need to go through a series of tests, and after passing the tests, the future feelings will be more precious and will have a good result.

    How to talk about a love without breaking up?

    First of all, we must know that feelings are not child's play. When starting a relationship, it is necessary to think carefully, take into account both rationality and emotion, and avoid ignoring practical problems as soon as the mind is hot. Good emotions are based on the inner psychological connection between two sexes with mature psychology and sound personality, and responsible feelings can go longer and further.

    Second, do a good job of planning for the future of the two people. Economy is the foundation of love preservation, most of the students will be independent after leaving the college campus, both parties have to find a suitable job to obtain economic independence, to support and support their love, the city of work, the type of work, the income of the work, are to be discussed and decided by two people, and these need to be considered clearly in advance by two people in the junior year, and then they can quietly move forward towards the common leak when they graduate.

    Again, learn to compromise and give in. When it comes to a mature relationship, both parties need to be motivated and compromised for the love to be perfect. For example, after graduation, the two parties need to discuss slowly to find a way to solve the problem that is acceptable to both of you, and the necessary compromise and abandonment are the only way to love.

    Finally, self-improvement and love preservation. A good relationship state is when two people are moving forward, and the relationship between one person struggling forward and the other person stopping and lying flat is destined to not last long.

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Of course not, if you have wronged the other party, and at this time the other party broke up when she was angry, and you pulled back the other party directly, then you can see that you still don't care too much about this relationship, so for a relationship, if two people want to be together when they encounter contradictions, try to communicate and solve them, no matter who is wrong, then at this time you must apologize to the other party, which is a responsibility for the feelings of two people.