How should a woman choose a family or boyfriend?

Let's be honest, after all, men have their own strengths, and there are hidden things you don't know. Dating for a while to see.

First of all, we can infer what kind of person he is from some details in the relationship. Whether they care about you or not, etc.

And then how he treats you and his friends around him.

His income situation, whether there is potential for future development**.

His family background. Analyze whether the two are compatible.

Analyze whether the eight characters are combined or semi-combined.

On some urgent matters, he dealt with either indecisiveness or decisiveness.

His level of humor Is he a favorite playmate or a good friend?

I feel very happy to be with him, and I can last a long time.

Does he like children Does he describe his own unique way of educating after having children in the future!??

His appearance doesn't need to be too good and it doesn't need to be too bad for him, how many girlfriends are you in her life?

How will you and him deal with the problems that may arise in your future life?

Based on the above analysis, I think you should know how to choose.

If it were me, I would choose family, because family is important to everyone.

You can find a boyfriend, and if it's not good, you can change it, but the family is not so easy to change.

It varies from person to person, so weigh the status of the two in your heart, and then try to make a choice that you won't regret, which is something that outsiders can't tell.

Definitely choose a family! Filial piety comes first!

If you're constantly annoyed at home, choose your boyfriend.

If your boyfriend is constantly angry with you, choose a home.

If you're all angry with you, support yourself.

No matter what.

As long as it's what you like.

I can make myself happy.

You should weigh these two.

Whoever can make you happy in the future will be chosen.

What's right for you is the best.

If you ask like this, then you should be a man who is not good enough.

Because the family determines the material foundation, and the relationship supported by a sufficient material foundation is easier to be happy.

In real life, the criteria for choosing a girl's mate are quietly changing. Many girls have begun to pay more attention to the boy's family situation, pay more attention to the boy's economic income, and the material material occupies an increasing proportion in emotional life.

At an age suitable for marriage, most boys are not capable of achieving financial freedom. What I mean by financial freedom is not real financial freedom in the broad sense of the word, but only in terms of having savings in buying a house, buying a car, and having savings.

In the age of twenty years of marriage, most boys have just stepped into the society not long ago, and it is impossible to expect to buy a house and a car and have a deposit, and the vast majority of boys will not be able to make a leap in life in a few years.

Therefore, for boys, at this stage of their love life, they are more willing to talk about love, and they are rarely willing to talk about marriage. Because the cost of marriage is too high for boys to afford.

The boy's family situation determines the basis of a marriage. This is actually the actual situation in real life, girls looking for boys pay more attention to family status, just to create a better platform for the married life they buy.

It doesn't need to be rich, but at least it won't be a burden to the children; The in-laws don't need to be too caring, but at least they can't have an odd temper. The economic conditions of the family and the situation of the person are now a very important criterion for girls to find a partner. This is not to blame the reality of girls, it can only be said that the world is developing too fast, and many people can't keep up with the rhythm.

A love that does not look at the family situation may be extremely hot in love, but when faced with the choice of marriage, too much love has fallen in front of parents and reality.

In true love, perhaps any obstacle will not affect the happiness of love. But our love, after all, still needs life to support.

Work hard and become better is the best way for you to get out of the list.

Because if you look at what the boy's family is like, you will know what kind of person the boy is. And if a girl has a long-term development plan with her boyfriend, the best thing is to look at the boy's family, after all, if two people get married, it is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families.

Because girls will pay more attention to family, they hope that their boyfriends will also pay attention to family, so that family life will be more happy.

Love becomes weak in the face of bread. This is a very real problem, if you marry a poor man, then the happiness of your marriage will slowly disappear with the suppression of life over time.

The influence of the original family on a person is lifelong, and living in a happy family since childhood is not easy to have big defects in character, and it is easy to be happy with such a person.

Because many people now say that the original family has a great influence on children, there will be all kinds of things for mothers and men, so now girls pay special attention to the man's family!

Everything also comes down to the current form of society, which, no matter how much equality between men and women is demanded, is still the case: a male society. In a sense, what kind of person a girl marries has already determined her life status in the second half of her life.

The parents of the girls just want their daughters not to suffer in the future, and the boys think it is good, but it is unknown what the future development will be

Nowadays, girls pay more attention to material life, so when they look for a partner, they will look at each other's family, as well as the environment, and the education received by their parents.

Because the harmony of a family is very important to a person's growth, it is still very important to see the basic characteristics of a person from a family of origin.

If you choose between you and your family, you shouldn't let your girlfriend be embarrassed like this, who is not raised by your parents, how much charm you have to make your girlfriend turn her back on your parents for you, first of all, she shouldn't do this, and secondly, you shouldn't let your girlfriend do this, hurting the parents who raised you, and it's for you, you should adjust this matter, after all, this matter is caused by you. <>

My sister once told me that you can not marry if your parents ask you to marry, and you must not marry if your parents don't let you marry. I think this sentence is particularly reasonable, although we all have our own rebellious period, and generally during the rebellious period, our parents can't listen to what they say, but after this stage, when you think back to what your parents said and did, you will know that your parents are actually for our good. Parents always say that they are from the past and will not look away, we always scoff at these words said by our parents, disdain, always do not listen to or take it to heart, but when we reach a certain age and have experienced some things, we will understand that only our parents in the world will not lie to you, and will always be good to you.

Your girlfriend's parents may not agree with you being together, if there is any misunderstanding then you should take the initiative to solve this problem, if your parents really don't look down on you and don't agree with you being together, then you should ask for the consent of your girlfriend's parents, but there is one thing, what has been said must be done, since you have decided to be with your girlfriend, you must be good to others, you must start from the beginning, you can't be half-hearted, see things differently. Make your girlfriend's parents feel at ease and give your daughter to you!

I think this matter depends on your attitude towards your girlfriend, if you don't particularly like your girlfriend, and then in fact, there will not be much difference in his life, then I think you might as well let him choose his family, and it is indeed possible that your girlfriend's family does not agree with the two of you together, the two of you will face a lot of difficulties later, the most important thing is that you don't particularly like your girlfriend, rather than let him choose between the family and you, it is better for you to take the initiative to let go, Anyway, you can continue to find your own happiness after the breakup, and your girlfriend doesn't have to be embarrassed, it's the best of both worlds, right?

But if you like your girlfriend very much, and then can't let go of your girlfriend, let me think that in fact, it is necessary for you to make your own position clear to your girlfriend, that is, if you don't have a girlfriend, you don't know how to go next, and then you can't do without your girlfriend, I think in fact, as long as you express your opinion, your girlfriend will seriously consider your ideas, and then choose between his family, and I think you can actually make appropriate efforts, Then let your girlfriend's family accept you, and then I think if you can, I hope you can talk to his mom and dad about this and sit down and discuss your life's work.

In fact, I think as long as you and your girlfriend can insist on falling in love, and then have been determined not to break up, I believe that in fact, in the end, your girlfriend's family should give in for your love, I think the most important thing you need to do now is to grab your girlfriend's hand, don't let him give up on you easily, don't let him give up the relationship between you easily, come on.