I m always unsure if I love him or not. What should I do

I read a story when I was young.

A girl asks her dad, dad, I like a boy in the class, what should I do?

Dad said, are you sure you really like it?

The girl was still young and said she didn't know.

Dad said, "Well, what is your favorite thing right now?"

The girl said that it was a cute gift from her father on her birthday.

Dad said, would you like to give it to him?

The girl liked the gift so much that she hesitated for a moment, not to give it, such a precious gift.

Dad said, that's it, if you love someone and are willing to give everything for him, let alone a gift? Do you think you still like him?

Probably such a story. You may also be able to ask your heart like this, and you will know whether you love it or not. There are many things that only you know, and you may know it if you think about it calmly.

Men are like that, and when you get married, you don't have time to think about it.

You'll find out after a few days away from him.

If ......If you leave him, you will miss him; Always glance at your phone or ** from time to time, hoping to have his voice and greetings; would wonder what he's doing; Always want to ask him what to do, and it will be extremely happy to meet even the slightest request from him; You will be happy when he is happy, and you will be anxious when he is down, and you will be anxious ...... when he is downAnd so on and so forth, if you think about it, your heart will tell you whether you love him or not.

If you love, manage this relationship with your heart I wish Tanabata sweetness! ~

Maybe he doesn't lie to you, but it's like a bet.

As a netizen, our attitude is to persuade and not to dissuade, I hope you can understand each other more. He does have a lot of bad things, but you have to be good at finding good things about him. Trust Him and believe that He loves you.

It is necessary to talk to him about the conflicts in life, and if he can share some of the housework for you, these grievances can be resolved.

He is lazy at home, and he may be more tired than you, so give him soft words first and reach an agreement.

It's a bit of a pity not to be blessed in marriage, although I hope you can prove to your parents how happy you are. But you have to be prepared to face an ordinary life after marriage. No one knows about the fact that he won't listen to you after he gets married, but do you regret marrying him?

That's what matters, can you accept each other's ordinary lives? This is more important.

If you are not happy and unhappy now, then your parents will be more opposed to you being together, because they want their children to be well, but in fact you are not like that. The dull and repetitive life makes you begin to doubt your future, indicating that you are not fully prepared in your heart. Since you're together, prove it to your parents, you've chosen the right one.

I remembered a news I saw, a girl for the man she loved, regardless of the opposition of her parents, gave up her studies and family affection, and resolutely followed the man she loved to marry and have children, and finally because of various family conflicts, it finally led to divorce, at this time the girl thought of her parents and wanted to go home, with a memory, hoping that the reporter would help her parents understand, but she had broken her parents' hearts, no matter how the reporter helped her explain, her parents still refused her to go home, having said so much, I want to express that love is important, But without the blessing of his family, he is destined to be unhappy!