Do you think beggars should be given money and why?

Kindness is not a mandatory obligation, but a personal choice. Doing good is not a matter of whether you should or should not do it, but only whether I am happy or not. In life, I have always been kind and helpful to others

You can enjoy it only if I am willing to give it to you; If I don't want to give, you're not in a position to force it. There is a famous chicken soup about beggars, saying that one day a beggar came to the door, and the owner of the house did not give him money directly, but asked the beggar to help him mow the lawn, and only after he was done did the house owner give him the money, and at the same time said: "I know that I have the ability to earn money, and I don't need to beg for money."

As a result, the beggar suddenly became enlightened, and a few years later the beggar became a big boss by his own efforts, and gave the owner of the house at that time a house in return. In real life, it is often that before you can speak, the young man standing in front of the door immediately tied a red rope to your hand, and then took out a sign that said that he was deaf and dumb, and now he was helping the deaf and dumb ** to raise funds, and the rope just now charged you ten yuan. You give him the rope back and he doesn't take it, and he only points to the sign in his hand as a reply to whatever you say.

You don't dare to be too rude to him, because you see several "deaf and dumb people" wandering around the streets "fundraising" from house to house, and once there is too much movement, seven or eight people will immediately appear in front of your door, and some people who don't want to cause trouble and are afraid of trouble will just give money. Obviously the most obvious extortion, put on the cloak of "vulnerable groups", how can it become justified. A while ago, I was having dinner with my friends at a food stall, during which a so-called beggar, a man in his thirties and forties, with sound limbs and a wooden stick in his hand, walked to the door of the store and began to knock, and there were words in his mouth, which made the customers upset.

It was obviously not the first time that the shopkeeper had encountered such a person, so he immediately said "stop knocking" and gave him a piece of change. The beggar didn't seem satisfied, and stood in front of the customers who were eating, and told them to do well. When I finally came to my table, I ignored it and continued to eat, he also watched me eat and refused to leave, and finally my friend had no choice but to give him a piece to let him go.

At this time, I looked up at his eyes when he left, ** what thanks, obviously saying: "I've been standing here for so long, how can you two give so little a dollar, it's really shabby." Instantly, I felt the urge to go up and kick him.

In my eyes, many of the so-called beggars nowadays are, to put it bluntly, parasites of society, with sound limbs but not wanting to sell their labor to work, but choosing beggars as their "job". During the day, people who pretend to be deaf and mute, disabled people, and outsiders who have lost their wallets will come forward to entangle and cheat money, and at night they can change their clothes and go back to Internet cafes, KTV, and restaurants to continue to squander.

Shuangjing is a relatively concentrated place for beggars and performers in Beijing, and you can meet it once in two times when you go out for a shopping or a fitness meal. The gym came out in July this year, although it was already 11 o'clock, there were actually a lot of people on the road. I came directly from work, so the bag was more formal and more business-like.

At this time, two women were standing at the crossroads, looking at me, and then they came up to me. They didn't think there was anything else to do, but the two of them actually had a head-shaking motion, and I probably knew what they were going to do. Many friends say that giving money is to make themselves feel at ease, even if they are cheated.

The profession of beggar or asking for money will not be like large-scale Internet fraud, financial fraud, and pyramid schemes, and it is really not worth using a lot of resources to investigate. But what I want to say is that among beggars, as long as they are cheating, their purpose is no different from the form of fraud mentioned above.

I remember that it was the train station where I went to the scene to confirm the entrance examination, and I saw a gray-haired grandmother, selling melon seeds there, really, the hair was so white that it floated in the cold wind like silver threads, I didn't want to buy melon seeds, but I saw her standing and selling melon seeds in the weather of about minus 20 degrees, it was really distressing, and then I asked how much it was a catty, and she said ten yuan, I said I had five yuan in my pocket, and you weighed me five yuan, she grabbed a handful, and I said that's all, She said that it was one or two dollars, I said that I couldn't eat enough more, I saw that she still had to weigh some and I grabbed it, she quickly said that the young man this is definitely not enough to decorate for you, I left in a hurry (she kept thanking), I kept looking back at this old woman when I left. I don't know what is the situation of this grandmother's family, what is the situation of the children, such an old age is still selling melon seeds on such a cold day (I really hope to go home early to be warm and warm), but I know that this grandmother must be a sage who does not eat the food that comes to her, such a person you give her five yuan, she will not want it and feel that you are insulting her, at that moment I understand that in fact, many beggars in life are capable and even healthier than this grandmother, they just lose their dignity, they would rather be lazy and eat and wait for food when they die, I don't do any work that supports me.

I almost never give money to beggars, and I don't think that's something I can worry about, and I won't change their lives and change the whole society because of my five or ten dollars today.

Let's talk about a few cases of beggars:

The first type is young and healthy, with complete hands and feet. This kind of sitting and waiting for death, is more carefree than me, and I give him money, which is too self-exalted. There are so many employment opportunities in modern society, educated people can manage enterprises, teach and educate people, do some research, in short, there are many things that can be done, uneducated, at least have hands and feet, take-out express delivery, security and cleaning, which is 10,000 times stronger than eating and drinking for nothing and waiting for relief.

The second type is the elderly and disabled. This kind of indistinguishable from the true from the false, and the fake is naturally spurned by others. If you are really abandoned by your child's family, or if you are really disabled and cannot work, then you should seek help from the appropriate agency.

Go to a resettlement home, receive assistance, or arrange employment. Our meager efforts can only provide relief for a while, but cannot completely solve the problem. At the same time, this gratuitous bailout is likely to nurture the habit of getting something for nothing.

The third type, children. There is only one option in this situation, call the police! This is common sense and the most effective and powerful way to combat child trafficking!

At a time when the whole society did not make such a popularization and appeal, I once met a child who was very pitiful and begged with my legs, saying that she was very hungry. I'm a person who sticks to my principles, I didn't give her money, but out of sympathy, I took a box of cookies from my bag and gave it to her. As a result, she immediately shook off her hand and ran away.

When you look 20 meters away, you can see her running towards a middle-aged woman in tattered clothes with a mobile phone.

The author thinks that this should depend on the situation, and you can't give money when you see a beggar. <>

In recent years, we have often seen news events about professional beggars, and the understanding of beggar behavior is no longer the original reason for having to beg for various unfortunate reasons.

When we see real beggars, (not the kind of beggars who can survive with their hands), we should lend a helping hand and give them some money appropriately.

What I hate the most is that people who can survive with their own hands choose to be professional beggars. They are taking advantage of our compassion for the vulnerable to scam money in a legal form. Therefore, for such a professional beggar, no money should be given. <>

I have been in college for more than three years now, and every time I go to the train station to take a train, I always see a few beggars, who are not very old and able-bodied, but they have to be professional beggars to survive. And the behavior of these professional beggars also makes us wary of real beggars.

Some children are forced to become beggars after being abducted, while others are rendered physically ill. In the face of such beggar children, it should be given, and if they can't get money, they will be starved, and even beaten and scolded by the people who control them. If possible, investigate clearly, rescue these poor children, and punish the bad guys.

1. Some beggars are fake, which consumes people's sympathy. 2. Some people are very rich, but they make money by pretending to be beggars.

Because there are many beggars who have hands and feet, they are unwilling to create their own wealth value through their own hands, and there are many beggars who are richer than ordinary people, and giving them money is a waste of their love and enthusiasm.

They all think that the current beggars themselves are obviously capable of working but are not motivated, and only rely on others to collect money. Very angry.

They think that beggars are all pretending, but they are actually very rich, after all, there are endless things about beggars being rich nowadays.

It is an act motivated by compassion, kindness, and generosity, which may manifest as a desire for care and help from others, or out of feelings of gratitude, respect, or appreciation.

This behavior may also stem from the influence of certain personal factors such as values, beliefs, and moral principles, such as the concept that "giving is more blessed than receiving" and "doing good deeds to accumulate virtue".

However, when choosing to reward and contribute your hard-earned money, you need to consider your financial ability and living needs to avoid unnecessary financial pressure and burden.