When a girl falls in love, she is afraid of meeting a scumbag, so what can she do not meet a scumbag

When a girl falls in love, she is afraid of meeting a scumbag, so what can she do not meet a scumbag? The best way to avoid improving your self-control, you can't see love at first sight, love is like a little flower, we must always learn to protect ourselves, the scumbag is the kind of girl, he will say, girls must have their own bottom line. It's actually about getting to know people.

Look at the essence of the other side. If you meet each other, the kind of person who casually plays with girls.

No matter how good his other conditions are, you must stay away from him. This is the wisdom of the people. I've learned that recognizing people is also a kind of learning.

Really like your boy is never hot or cold and will make you passionate about you, because of the Standard Chartered man, the girl must always be vigilant and pay attention to details, and if he is willing to open your relationship among relatives and friends means that he is sincere and sincere to you. So how do we avoid encountering Standard Chartered people? The most important point to avoid Standard Hit ball.

When you are not married, you must not do this, because on the other side, you will lose yourself, the unmarried will must not do this, the girl must be cleaned up, otherwise, if one day, you don't think that you are not suitable to be together, you want to break up, and the hurt will always be a girl.

A Standard Chartered man likes to cheat money, if he lends you money and sees if he really has an emergency, don't agree right away because you are not married, he should not open you up, just lend money to you, you are generally a Standard Chartered and it will never give you money. In the third point, the Standard Chartered man only wants to ask and never give up.

During your love, you have to observe to see if he is willing to spend money for you and is willing to help you. We only love the one who is really right, and our love will not live. I want all the kind and lovely girls in the world to have a good boy who treats you sincerely.

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Keep yourself, don't be overly accommodating, etc., keep yourself not lost in love to stay sober, and don't be too accommodating so that men won't gain an inch.

First of all, don't be tempted first, you can have a good impression of him, but don't pay wholeheartedly, you should see how much the other party can pay for you, so that you can see the other party's personality, don't blindly lose yourself.

If a girl wants to avoid meeting a scumbag, she must learn to observe more, when she is not really giving her feelings and becoming a relationship, observe whether the boy is willing to spend money for you, help you when you need help, whether he will accompany you when you are in need, and his attitude towards you is the same as always.

Because these boys have never wanted to marry girls, and they have a lot of routines when they fall in love. In the end, there will be no results.

When a girl is in love, if she meets a scumbag, she is still hurt.

1. Girls with anxious attachment styles.

2. When choosing a boy to get off the single and enter a relationship, the market value of the marriage partner is high or low.

3. Girls with low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.

4 is still a baby = giant baby who has not grown up, is too closely entangled with the parents' original family, and is spoiled or lacks love.

5 I don't know how to love myself + I don't have the ability to love, and I have poor and weak emotional intelligence, gender thinking, emotionality, impulsivity, emotional management and conflict management skills.

6. For men and romantic relationships, there is no sense of security and trust.

7. Pessimistic and negative interpretation style + pessimistic and negative emotions + cognition + behavior.

8 do not know how to distinguish between long and short choices, do not know how to distinguish between good men and bad men (scumbags) There is a saying in psychology called "self-fulfilling prophecy".

Psychologist Robert. Morton makes this point, referring to:

A person's experience at a certain stage will unconsciously shape his conscious thinking, which in turn will lead his life to develop towards what he thinks.

Self-realization, on the other hand, can be divided into positive self-realization and negative self-realization.

What kind of girls look good to chase? There are a lot of girls who wonder why I always meet scumbags? In fact, it's just because you look very good to chase this issue** must be finished reading and bumping to accompany there are surprises Oh love and laughter to accompany the stupid problem, remember to consult Lao Bai Mo Da

We first have to analyze what are the characteristics of women with slag sucking physique!

1. Outstanding and special women are easy to attract good hands among flowers! A beautiful and talented woman must be the first target of jungle seekers. This stems from the desire to conquer stimulated by male hormones, the more excellent and outstanding women are, the easier it is to attract men, not to mention the flower thieves who have been wandering among the flowers for a long time!

Especially this kind of outstanding and cutting-edge woman, she is the target of scum and fallen.

Second, women who are materialistic and have no moral bottom line have the characteristics of slag-sucking physique! This type of girl is a scum herself! Slag gathers like like, that's the truth.

The same trench, occasionally in tandem, is also a common thing for this group of people! Among the flowers, it is not only the male ......

3. Women who have no bottom line who are too soft-hearted, soft-eared, and kind-hearted often fall into scumbags. Women are inherently easy to be weak, soft, and kind......and so on. However, if a woman is so kind that she has no bottom line, is soft-hearted and soft-eared, then she will often provoke some scumbags who have no ability to pick soft persimmons!

Moreover, this type of woman doesn't know how to refuse and is obedient, so she will encounter scum many times, and if she doesn't change herself, she will always be remembered by scumbags!

Fourth, women who are overflowing with motherhood in front of the opposite sex are easy to arouse the interest of many scumbags! There is a group of people with a complex - the "Oedipus complex", that is, the mother-love complex! Or like a state of mind that is older than your own age.

However, there are some people in this group who take hunting for women older than themselves as their greatest interest. If a woman is prone to motherhood in front of the opposite sex, then when she encounters these people, she will inevitably be scum!

5. Women with low self-esteem and lack of love, and their characteristics of slag-sucking physique! Women, if they are not confident, often fall into the bitterness of low self-esteem, and lack love due to their original family or acquired life experience. This type of woman is easy to be noticed by color hunters.

All you need to do is show their care and encouragement, and the city will soon fall! Since then, it has fallen into the ranks of scum!

If, excluding the above points, there is no winning bid! Congratulations, the probability of slag sucking will be very low!

If a girl doesn't want to meet a scumbag, she must be calm, don't be moved by a person who is kind to herself, and learn to screen other people's favorability and purpose.

If you don't want to meet a scumbag, then you should be strict with yourself, and we must not lower our requirements for the opposite sex, we must stick to our own standards.

When you fall in love, you must first understand this person, know this person's character, know this person's habits, and know this person's character.

The performance of the scumbag is habitual, selfish, doesn't seem to care about your feelings, and always shirks responsibility when you do something wrong. Disappear at every turn, and resolve the contradictions between you with cold violence. When a girl regrets falling in love, she must not be in a hurry, and first patiently observe whether he is someone you are worthy of trusting.

And if you think he's a scumbag, you must stay away from him.

I like other girls, eat the ruler in the pot and look pure in the bowl, and have an affair with some girls. When we find a scumbag trait in pure reputation, we must break up in time.

When you are in love, you must observe more details to see if he knows how to take care of you, whether he will take action to show his cautious love, and whether he will help you when you are in trouble and filial piety.

The performance of scumbags is generally very sweet talking, and they will be very tactful and thoughtful in doing things. It will make you feel very moved in the early stage, but after Zhima falls in love, his true nature will be revealed. If you want to identify a scumbag in love, you have to see whether the other party is responsible for what you have said, whether the other party is sincere to you, and whether the other party really likes you from the other party's behavior.