When choosing a love partner, how should a woman avoid those scumbags?

It depends on whether this boy speaks, but he doesn't fulfill it and often breaks his promise. Scumbags often give a lot of promises, but they don't keep them.

When dating, it is necessary to look at the moral character of the man, and see if the man is kind-hearted, a person with excellent character and learning, and a beautiful person in the depths of his soul, under any circumstances, will not become a scumbag.

How could it be avoided? It's not like you're going to be able to see through everything a person has at the beginning. To look at people is to understand each other and not to agree to anything easily.

See if the other party is consistent. You can do what you say. Whether it is selfish or not.

Understanding character is more important than getting along.

When choosing a love partner, a woman should be calm and at the same time not in a hurry. You should first carefully observe the other person and get along with him for a while, and then slowly understand his life before you can start your own relationship. In love, many women are very impulsive, but they will also meet a lot of scumbags, maybe you follow the above advice, you may not meet scumbags, and you will avoid those scumbags.

Be a human being, and be a little reserved about others. For in love, how to prevent unladylike encounters. This can be done in several ways:

First: If someone is chasing you, and you also have a feeling for him, and you think that you can continue to dating, then it is very good. Get along for a while, go out to eat, have you introduced you to your relatives and friends, have you told you about your thoughts on the future, have you taken you to meet your parents, have you usually put you in their minds, these "have" to test them for half a year.

After all, a long-term relationship is the happiest.

Second: Do a good job of making friends, and introduce the people you are in love with, the best relatives and friends, so that even if you are a scumbag, you will understand clearly, because the scumbag people, your relatives and friends will definitely not introduce you to you. This is the so-called prevention of microaggressions.

Actually, this so-called netizen. Netizens, there are good and bad. But I believe most of it is good. The love between netizens will be tested by time. The longer it takes, the more you can see if a person is genuine about you.

Third: a romantic relationship with a colleague. There are also scumbags in this kind of way. Because you only know each other at work, and when you leave work, you may be nothing, and you need to be tested by time.

Summary: Whether a person is a scumbag or not, as long as the person is honest and good to you. When a person lies to you once, it means that there is something wrong with the person's character, no matter what the excuse is.

When a person treats you badly and ignores your existence, it is just when you are an accessory.

Therefore, as long as a person is honest enough with you, good enough to you, talking about you among relatives and friends, mentioning you among your parents, and having you in the circle of friends, then such a person must be a good person and will not cheat you in the relationship. Otherwise, don't get in touch with him to avoid harm.

We first have to analyze what are the characteristics of women with slag sucking physique!

1. Outstanding and special women are easy to attract good hands among flowers! A beautiful and talented woman must be the first target of jungle seekers. This stems from the desire to conquer stimulated by male hormones, the more excellent and outstanding women are, the easier it is to attract men, not to mention the flower thieves who have been wandering among the flowers for a long time!

Especially this kind of outstanding and cutting-edge woman, she is the target of scum and fallen.

Second, women who are materialistic and have no moral bottom line have the characteristics of slag-sucking physique! This type of girl is a scum herself! Slag gathers like like, that's the truth.

The same trench, occasionally in tandem, is also a common thing for this group of people! Among the flowers, it is not only the male ......

3. Women who have no bottom line who are too soft-hearted, soft-eared, and kind-hearted often fall into scumbags. Women are inherently easy to be weak, soft, and kind......and so on. However, if a woman is so kind that she has no bottom line, is soft-hearted and soft-eared, then she will often provoke some scumbags who have no ability to pick soft persimmons!

Moreover, this type of woman doesn't know how to refuse and is obedient, so she will encounter scum many times, and if she doesn't change herself, she will always be remembered by scumbags!

Fourth, women who are overflowing with motherhood in front of the opposite sex are easy to arouse the interest of many scumbags! There is a group of people with a complex - the "Oedipus complex", that is, the mother-love complex! Or like a state of mind that is older than your own age.

However, there are some people in this group who take hunting for women older than themselves as their greatest interest. If a woman is prone to motherhood in front of the opposite sex, then when she encounters these people, she will inevitably be scum!

5. Women with low self-esteem and lack of love, and their characteristics of slag-sucking physique! Women, if they are not confident, often fall into the bitterness of low self-esteem, and lack love due to their original family or acquired life experience. This type of woman is easy to be noticed by color hunters.

All you need to do is show their care and encouragement, and the city will soon fall! Since then, it has fallen into the ranks of scum!

If, excluding the above points, there is no winning bid! Congratulations, the probability of slag sucking will be very low!

If a girl doesn't want to meet a scumbag, she must be calm, don't be moved by a person who is kind to herself, and learn to screen other people's favorability and purpose.

If you don't want to meet a scumbag, then you should be strict with yourself, and we must not lower our requirements for the opposite sex, we must stick to our own standards.

When you fall in love, you must first understand this person, know this person's character, know this person's habits, and know this person's character.

When looking for a partner, you need to pay attention to the following three aspects to avoid falling in love with an inappropriate man by mistake. 1. Don't always cultivate feelings online, we didn't have a mobile phone before we had a mobile phone**, so we could only rely on the format of the letter to care about the other party and express our thoughts. Nowadays, everyone seems to be inseparable from their mobile phones, even if they meet someone they like, they just want to push ambiguous information content on their mobile phones, and carry out a virtual lover relationship.

But the object of this method is nothing more than a hidden emotional relationship. Due to the stage of love, men are aware of hiding themselves, and everyone can talk flatteringly and conspire. But whether he is really committed to your future is often uncertain.

Therefore, in any case, if you are always looking for a partner, don't limit yourself to getting to know each other online, but infiltrate the actual operation and live with each other. It's only after you've lived together in real life that you can truly understand what kind of person each other is, because most of the small details are discovered by real touch. And in real life, his attitude towards you usually reflects what he will look like in the future.

2. Don't easily believe the verbal promise There is a man who said: "I will not easily say the service commitment, because I think that if you can't do it, don't agree to it, and the service commitment that can't be done is not a mess, but an irresponsible reflection." Indeed, the speaker has no intention, but the listener has the intention.

If you make a promise casually, it is very likely that women will easily believe it, and wait for you to fulfill it. Unexpectedly, you forgot. If he really loves you, you Qingxu will not casually say service commitments, and he will not give blank checks at will.

Because she knows very well that if you can't do it, you will be very disappointed, and you will be very uncomfortable, even if he treats you as a partner, then he will have to bear responsibility for their actions. At all times, you must make it clear that during the period of falling in love, don't listen to what the man says, but look at what you have done for him. It's easiest to run the train with your mouth full, but it takes to pay, and often not all men will end up in it.

3. Men who can't take care of themselves Some men are overly spoiled by their mothers in the environment they grew up in, and it may be difficult for them to be alone when they grow up. This type of people, whether in interpersonal communication or emotional relationships, many do not know how to correct themselves, and lack self-motivation. If you are with such a person, you can't have a future.

Don't be a little, don't be with immature men, so these men can't even take care of themselves, this person has no way to make you love. In the end, what I want to say is that as a woman, you don't have to start a relationship because you are bored, and you need to think twice before you talk about someone at any time. The vast majority of chills are due to the impulsive choices of Hao Burning Young.

Because scumbags always talk about love, and they also know how to be romantic, and they also know what kind of love girls like the most, so girls will always miscalculate in love.

Because scumbags are usually good-looking and can speak sweet words, this has a good first impression in women's hearts.

In fact, it's not that they want to find a scumbag, but because there are more scumbag routines, it is easy for ordinary girls to fall.

Girls must be cautious when looking for a partner! Use your ingenuity to avoid scumbags. Usually the three most basic characteristics of a scumbag: 1. Flickering.

Talking is awesome, running the train with a mouthful, and there are very few words on the ground. One set in front of you, one set behind your back.

2. Excessive dedication.

Nothing to be courteous, either a traitor or a thief!

At first, I was very good at pretending, but slowly it will become more and more wrong. "From slave to general" was his goal.

3. Borrow money from you.

Any man who borrows money from a girl, no matter how much he borrows, cannot ask for such a man. Because in this "borrowing" he has a calculation. All he uses is your trust. Beware, he will stab you in this trusting "heart".

Finding a good boy with whom you will spend your life must have three characteristics:

1. Loyalty. No matter how big or small, just test him with loyalty.

Second, the mood is stable, and the three views are consistent.

Only when you have the same three views can you communicate well.

Falling in love is to get along with a person's strengths, and after marriage is to get along with a person's shortcomings.

So the girl needs to find someone who is emotionally stable and can communicate well. At least he can do it after marriage.

Third, it must depend on what kind of people the other parent's parents are.

This is important! This is important! This is important!

Say the important words three times! Because usually his parents are the future of his relationship with you. He treats you what his dad does to mom.

His dad doesn't respect women, he must be a machismo. No matter how low he is in front of you now.

Girls must keep their eyes open before marriage and look at men well!

Do you think I'm right?

When girls fall in love, they must have a sense of self-protection, in terms of personal protection, they must be mentally prepared, and at the same time, they should be positive in their feelings in terms of spirit, and they should fall in love with positive energy, which can prevent the handling of this situation.

Do your own love yourself, and everyone stops the love that doesn't matter, sometimes the real authorities are obsessed with bystanders.

It's still important to stay risk-aware when you fall in love! Don't always think that you have found the true love of your life and you will burn yourself all at once. You must know that in ancient times, a bunch of etiquette steps for marrying were to protect women. Therefore, love should also be gradual!

Self-esteem, self-love, do not be confused by the words and deeds of boys, look at their words and deeds, and analyze their hearts.

First of all, you must be clean and self-conscious, often say that others are scumbags, they may be scumbags, so it is generally not easy to be alone with the opposite sex, boyfriends must have a certain understanding to be boyfriends, not online chatting, or an encounter at a friend's party to be a boyfriend, at least understand that you must meet with each other's parents before you are sure to be with him, and the boy will definitely take you to meet your parents if he is sincere to you, otherwise it is a precursor to a scumbag. Finally send you, girls will not lack boyfriends now, open your psychological world, participate in more friends' gatherings, you will naturally meet confidants, girls are generally more emotional, only rational girls will be happy in the end. Look at the boy who is good to you more rationally, so that the scumbag will stay away from you and happiness will belong to you.

First of all, look at your eyes, the other party can't do whatever he wants when he has emotions, seeing through the essence of a person is the most basic thing in love, a person who will only care about his own venting and ignore the feelings of others and even his loved ones, even if he is very accidentally exposed once, he can't choose as a partner, because life can't be smooth sailing, maybe one day he will be affected by the outside world and hurt you. There is also to give you enough trust, not to doubt you at every turn, and not to be too unexpected. When you are with him, you can have a tacit understanding of the same heart, instead of always wronging yourself to fulfill him, so that he will be spoiled sooner or later in the long run, and you don't have to be strict about words and deeds at all times, there will never be two identical leaves in the world.

The happiness of the two parties can last for a long time.

Understand clearly with the other party who he is as a person, and don't trust others easily, so as to prevent being scummed.

Girls fall in love by themselves to prevent being scum, and they should give the most important thing to self-love, and the person who can make you happy for a lifetime does not believe each other's words lightly.