The unrewarded effort makes me feel so tired!

I really hope you can get out of it! Get out of your own! Just like me!

I liked a boy for three years, and I was worse off than you at the time! I always feel that he is so sacred, so high-minded, and feels that I am not worthy of him, (in fact, I don't deserve him at all, but I think like this in my heart, this is obsession) So, even if he looks at me, or says a word to me first when he is online, I am so happy to death In fact, this is also a temporary attachment, and it is an immature attachment! If you fall in love with him, it may only be that one aspect of him happens to be what you are after, so you only see this aspect of him, and you can't see anything else, even if he is a heinous person, you will fall in love with him!

Obsessed with him! This is irrational!

I really advise you, hurry up and open your eyes and get out of yourself! This is your own curse on yourself!

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Don't abuse your feelings, find someone who loves you, you are much happier than this, get out of this situation, and abandon those things that confuse you, such as vague feelings, irrepressible impulses, warm and ambiguous happiness, and silly watch.

Alas! Why is there a stupid woman like us in the world? I've had this experience too, and it's almost like you.

I understand your feelings and pain very well, he is my first love and the person I fell in love with for the first time, I can give up anything for him and I don't care that he has a wife, my request is very simple just to be with him, I don't want to destroy his family. But he didn't even agree to this little request, and he chose to run away from me. I was really miserable at the time, even now.

At that time, I thought about dying, but then I thought that if I did, he wouldn't feel bad, but my parents would. Isn't it worth it for me to do this? Then I chose to leave that sad place, to leave that person.

Now, although I haven't completely forgotten about him, I'm not as miserable as I used to be. I believe that time is the best medicine for the pain, I know it is not easy to do, but don't wait hard for him to turn back, don't throw your self-esteem to him to trample on, raise your head, shake your head and leave. This is the best way to do it.

You're young, pretty, and working, and how undesirable it is for you to fall in love with a man you can't trust for life. Change your job, change your mood, change your lover, God is destined to belong to your other half has not met you, don't take some kind of worship as love. I wish you a speedy ride out of the clouds!

You're a stupid girl. Aren't you stupid knowing that he is such a person and still have hope for him? Get out of him quickly, or you'll be in even more pain. Find the love that really belongs to you. I'm sure you'll find your other half. Wishing you happiness!

Keep your distance from him and make your life a little more fulfilling It's really not worth it for this kind of person Find a suitable one to be together well Don't ask for luxury if you know it's impossible It's useless if it's not you to grab It's yours and you can't run Why make yourself unhappy There is no regret medicine in the world to buy.

You will definitely be better off than he is, I wish you happiness.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future. This statement is based on the law of cause and effect, which believes that as long as there is pay, there will be income; As long as you do good deeds, you will surely bear good fruits; Only by planting melons can you get melons, and if you plant beans, you will get beans. But we must understand that we must pay attention to the direction and pay attention to the same amount.

On the basis of reciprocity, how you treat others, others will basically treat you. There is no once and for all, don't always think about throwing bricks and stones, don't always think about taking a small loss to get a big bargain, from a certain point of view, the world is basically an equation, and inequality is premised on the equation. Although it is said that it is a melon to get a melon, but the ability is different because of the size and the way and method, and the fruit will definitely not be the same.

Although the fruit is fruitful, if the defense ability is too poor, the actual income may have to be discounted somewhat. As for whether someone did it or not, there was no need to ask. People all over the world are working hard to move forward.

The so-called different paths mean that people can only follow their own path because of their different abilities and limitations. The same end is to strive to be the best version of yourself, and strive for the greatest and best expectations. As people often say, everything is done early, but the result is not the same.

Although the interpretation is simple, from the current situation, your real confusion is not limited to this, but if I do something and there is no return, then what is the point of my efforts?

You must remember that there is not always a reward for what you give. But if you don't pay, there must be no return. It is impossible for people to get something for nothing. Be sure to work harder. Sooner or later, it will be successful.

When I gave half of it, I didn't react much when I saw that the other party didn't react much. Don't reciprocate your own equal likes. Then, stop moving forward (and keep giving your time or money).

This is called a timely stop loss. In love, observe each other more carefully. Blindly and alone, the other person fully enjoys your care and liking him.

He will withdraw from this boring relationship at any time. He won't cherish this true affection. Wait, he's up to you.

He went from naivety to maturity). It's a pity that even if he grows up for a few years, he is still the same. He is selfish and can't think of your efforts.

Nawei resolutely left him. It's better not to pay half a point.

Although it is giving, it is asking for something in return. Even if the parents' dedication to their children, although it is great love and selflessness, they also ask their children to reciprocate, otherwise there will be no "raising children to prevent old age.""That's it. It seems that you belong to the second type.

If so, you can express your true intentions, just as a parent takes an unfilial child to court. Don't dwell on that. If it's just feelings or nothingness, the reduced giving, such as asking God to make a wish, and not getting it in return, is too natural, you can only digest it yourself, and let time solve it!

If your efforts are not rewarded. This may be because of your lack of effort If you don't pay for it, if it is not for these reasons, then it may really not be suitable for you, and you should choose another direction again.

Giving and giving are never equal, and you have to remember that a point of hard work is not equal to a point of gain.

But if you don't even work hard, there will definitely be no harvest, and only by cultivating can you have a chance to harvest.

So you have to adjust your mentality.

In the world, not there will be a return if you pay, but there must be no return if you don't pay, since there is no return, you have to face the reality, find out the reason, and continue to work hard.

If you love someone and give nothing in return, you don't want to do it again, do something meaningful and useful to yourself.

If you feel that there must be a reward for your efforts, then you don't have to pay! Save yourself from being unbalanced!

If there is no return on the pay, stop the loss in time, and stop paying stupidly.

Pay does not necessarily have a return, it depends on what it is, and some things have to be said after they are paid.

Giving may not be rewarded immediately, and it is not good to think too heavily about utilitarianism.

But if you don't give, you don't get 100% in return, it's a matter of probability.

It depends on the specifics. It all depends on your subjective will. There is no need for this payment.

Giving and giving back don't always match.

We need to accept unfairness.

There is also the need to accept imperfections.

That's just the way it is.