Why is the wife crying? 250, Why is the wife crying?

Judging from the things you posted, the first time you cry may be because you are reluctant to give up on some things (such as family, friends or the environment in which you live), of course, it may also be that you feel that you have not done a good job. The second cry is most likely sad. I thought that being your wife would be able to enter your heart, but after so many years, there has been no change.

I want to intervene in your life, but you have formed a habitual thinking about her and don't give her a chance. Then I thought about it again, and found that my life was not as I wanted, and I also found that I was useless, as if I didn't know anything except the practice, and now you don't feel good about cooking, and I'm even more hit, in summary, she is full of disappointment in life.

Since you didn't explain why you didn't like the two of you getting married, here's my guess:

1. If the marriage between the two of you is her opinion. There will be a development from now on, she will work harder to do what she should do as a wife, if she still can't get your affirmation and is disgusted and complained by you, she will most likely choose to divorce, and she will not be able to think about it.

2. If both of you are passive, then she has no other way, and she can't get your affirmation, after such a period of time, if there are similar things (being disgusted and complaining by you, etc.), she will probably not be able to think about it.

So you have to be cautious, because the marriage relationship is maintained by two people. Any choice you make will have an impact on your significant other.

The reason why your wife is crying, of course, is because she feels that she has been wronged a lot, and the main reason is that you have not communicated well, and the minds of both parties have been misinterpreted, so you can't understand the other party's intentions, so you should communicate effectively.

So let's take a look at how couples communicate effectively.

1) Learn to listen.

The relationship between anyone lies in communication, but the partner of communication is listening, and only by listening carefully can we know each other's thoughts and understand each other better.

If couples can't even listen to each other, how can they have the desire to communicate with each other? When the other party is talking, please put down the busyness in your hands, listen carefully to the other party's demands, and increase the happiness of life!

2) Learn to respond.

Communication requires you to shout back and forth, which is called communication, rather than one person talking about his thoughts with great interest, while the other person is unwilling to respond.

This practice will discourage communication, and over time, you will be reluctant to share your own affairs, and your marital status will plummet.

When the other person is talking to you, don't rush to interrupt the other person, listen first, then understand, and finally give your opinion. In this way, you can make the other person feel that you are serious and valued. Chi He.

Doing so will enhance the enthusiasm of the other party to communicate with you, and the more you talk, the more you will understand each other, and then you will understand each other's thoughts when there is a conflict.