What are the baby s bad problems that can only be done in front of the closest people?

Many mothers have such an experience, when they take the baby alone, the baby is particularly unwell-behaved, but if the mother has something to go out, temporarily hand over the baby to other family members or outsiders to take care of, and then the answer after the mother comes back is: your baby can be well-behaved and sensible. Some mothers even wonder if their families are comforting themselves, after all, the little ones are in front of them, and the performance is indescribable.

Actually, it's really the mothers who misunderstood. It is precisely because of who the baby is close to that they will show some of their "bad problems" in front of this person, and in front of those family members or outsiders who are not sure of themselves, they will behave well, because the baby is also a little clever ghost, and they are also worried that they will not be liked if they do not perform well.

Whoever the baby is close to in his heart will be all kinds of fragility in front of the baby, and who will they show all kinds of fragility in front of this person. One moment I cried because of such a trivial matter, and the next I felt uncomfortable because of such a trivial matter. In short, what you thought was nothing was a problem, but when the baby was in front of someone he felt close to, it was a problem.

Just like some babies fall, if the mother is not there, he will get up by himself and it is fine, but if the mother is there, the baby will be sad and wronged, and the mother must be hugged and coaxed.

And when the mother (or other people the baby feels close to) is there, the little baby will be particularly disobedient, and it is precisely because he knows that there is his dearest person in front of him, it doesn't matter how he makes trouble, he has a sufficient sense of security, and there is no worries, so it will be so. So novice moms don't get it wrong.

If you find that the baby is particularly willful in front of you, and loves to make trouble, and will cry at all, then you can know that this does not mean that the baby is not sensible, but the baby feels close to you, so it will "toss" you. It is the same reason that all the baby's little fragility is easier to show in front of people close to you, the baby has a sufficient sense of security in front of you, so it will be so, so don't misunderstand, say how the baby is in front of you "willful troublemaker".

Whoever is closer will love to "bully" this person more "Mom, I want to eat apples, no, you have to get it for me", "Mom, you take me out to play", "Mom, the baby wants to drink water" and so on, similar to this kind of thing, if you find that the baby will ask you to do everything. Don't be too troublesome, no way, who makes the baby feel your dearest in the depths of his heart.

The baby feels that he is close to whom, and one of the "bad problems" is that he loves to "bully" this person more. The specific manifestation is that everything will be done with this person. Therefore, when the baby loves to trouble you with everything, you should also be glad, at least to show that the baby is close to you.

Babies are small, but deep down they know everything. Some new mothers may also misunderstand some of their baby's behaviors because they are not aware of their baby's growth. Just like the "bad problems" mentioned above, they are actually the manifestations of the baby's heart being closer to someone.

Probably this is the "sweet burden".

Crying, because the child is scolded by other people's side, even if he is wronged, he will not cry, and once he is in front of someone close to him, he will release his emotions.

The baby is in front of you, especially willful, noisy, and will cry when something happens. It's not that the baby is ignorant, but that the baby feels close to you and the person who is close to the baby's heart will show all kinds of vulnerability in front of this person. Whoever is closer will love to "bully" the person who the baby's heart feels.