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As soon as his wife is wronged, he cries and makes trouble, which is a manifestation of his grievances, so you have to ask what is the reason? Heckle, ask him what is the reason? What's going on?
Well, how to fix it? Help come up with ideas, blindly reprimand the feelings of the two people will fade, but also help him solve some things, well, let him stop making trouble, give him a reason, it's okay to vent, but don't mess around, you must ask the reason to live? It's just that there is a problem to solve the problem and coax her to be happy, this is a little advice I gave, think about it yourself, is there a problem?
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The reason why your wife is crying, of course, is because she feels that she has been wronged a lot, and the main reason is that you have not communicated well, and the minds of both parties have been misinterpreted, so you can't understand the other party's intentions, so you should communicate effectively.
So let's take a look at how couples communicate effectively.
1) Learn to listen.
The relationship between anyone lies in communication, but the partner of communication is listening, and only by listening carefully can we know each other's thoughts and understand each other better.
If couples can't even listen to each other, how can they have the desire to communicate with each other? When the other party is talking, please put down the busyness in your hands, listen carefully to the other party's demands, and increase the happiness of life!
2) Learn to respond.
Communication requires you to shout back and forth, which is called communication, rather than one person talking about his thoughts with great interest, while the other person is unwilling to respond.
This practice will discourage communication, and over time, you will be reluctant to share your own affairs, and your marital status will plummet.
When the other person is talking to you, don't rush to interrupt the other person, listen first, then understand, and finally give your opinion. In this way, you can make the other person feel that you are serious and valued. Chi He.
Doing so will enhance the enthusiasm of the other party to communicate with you, and the more you talk, the more you will understand each other, and then you will understand each other's thoughts when there is a conflict.
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Landlord, Envy, is it because you are still too young? I estimate that your wife is still young, and she has not yet broken up to be a wife and prepare to be a daughter-in-law. If you love each other, I suggest you go out on a date, play the Sakura family, untie this knot well, she cries and she makes trouble, you are also sad, you calm brother and Bu Jingqi to talk about it, find the root of the problem I have a sister, 21 married, her husband and family are super good to her, but she always cries at the beginning, and goes back to her parents' house for a month and a half, but her husband is as good to her as always, now she has been married for two years, the child is one year old, she is still very homesick, and often goes back to her parents' house, But she doesn't make trouble, their family is very happy, maybe your wife and my sister are in the same situation, what she thinks, you try to satisfy her, be a little patient with her, since she said she loves you, that is true, you are all married, one day husband and wife, don't divorce easily, it's not good for you to wish you happiness.
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Because the quarrel made my wife cry, you need to take the initiative to apologize to your wife, don't have a cold war, otherwise it will affect your relationship.
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First of all, apologize sincerely, cook her a delicious meal, pull her out for a walk, and then write her a letter of guarantee, promising not to bully her again in the future, and that's it.
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No matter which party is wrong, first quickly admit the mistake to your wife, coax her to be happy, give her what she likes, and turn the page first.
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In order to express your apology, you can buy some things she likes more on ** and give them to her, and I believe that your wife will forgive you.
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Have a good rest and comfort the beautiful and kind girl, thank you.
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Hurry up and apologize, it's not terrible to quarrel, what is terrible is that you know it's wrong and don't change it, it's your fault if your wife cries.
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Because after seeing you, I finally feel like I have met my loved ones.
I must have been thinking about where you were when I was fighting with others.
Definitely getting more and more aggrieved.
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Husband, I'm so sorry for saying that last night. If both of us have this attitude, then we must be very sad to be cautious.
I have always been very careful about our marriage, and I know that you are a person with strong self-esteem and a very sensitive heart. I've always been very careful about making friends, for fear of upsetting you. Since I met you, I have had no contact with almost all my friends.
I think you know that.
Honestly, I love you so much. Now it's not just about love, it's more about family affection and responsibility. I know that you care about me a lot, and you are afraid that I will leave you, so you will be very sensitive, and I feel very happy at first, and I know that because you care about me, it will be like this.
As time goes on, not only do you lose trust in me, but you get worse. I really can't accept that I am your wife, and I am the person who wants to be with you for the rest of my life. How can you do this to me, do you know what I think in my heart?
I want to lock myself up and live for you and our daughter wholeheartedly, but our conditions do not allow it, and I must lighten your burden. Share the responsibilities of the family with you.
I don't have high requirements, I just want to have a warm home, I don't want to turn my home into a powder field. You are dissatisfied with me, the demands on me are increasing day by day, I feel so tired, no matter how strong I am, I am still a woman.
Until now, you haven't really gotten to know me. I'm just strong on the outside, but I'm really fragile on the inside. I need love, I need your attention, but not your demands and constraints.
There are some things that I really want to say to you, but I am afraid that you will be unhappy, so I hold it in Liang File's heart, and over time I feel that there is no common language, I think this, you should know this very well.
If the husband and wife don't have trust as the foundation, then what else dare I say? I really want to share with you how cute and capable your wife is, but I am poured cold water on you every time. If the two of us don't stand in the perspective of mutual appreciation, how long will our marriage last?
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Coax him to be fine after a while.
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