How to deal with the relationship between classmates I beg you to give me a lot of advice, even if i

As for this question, I think you don't understand whether you want to have a basic relationship with your classmates or make friends with your classmates!

I have a lot of experience on the issue of making friends Making friends is not expecting you to be good to him (her) and point him to be nice to you. Rather, it is necessary to take into account the virtue of the person. It is not necessary to make a person of high moral character, but to decide whether this person is worthy of you!

The reason you say that you are sincere with others and you are always deceived is because you do not know your friends. So don't be too nice to someone before making friends, but get to know him through the small details of your daily life. Make a friend worthy of your teaching and treat him sincerely, and you will also reap his sincerity!

Here I suggest that you find a like-minded friend, such a friendship is stronger and greater, and I wish you to find such a friend.

In addition, I also want to tell you that it is equally important to deal with the interpersonal relationships of the students around you. A word to you:

If you don't think I'm Lu Su, I'm giving you a piece of advice to read more famous books, and there are people in the original form of interpersonal communication! Look at how Zhuge Liang has a good relationship with Guan Zhang, look at how Wang Xifeng manages Daguanyuan, Ping'er, and Tanchunyou.

Art is from life and higher than life!

You are very frank, and the answer you ask for is how to socialize with strangers.

There is a process from strangers to dating, and then upgrading to friends, or only becoming acquaintances, and this process is fast and slow depending on the object: one of the two parties is "self-acquainted" and only takes a few minutes to get acquainted, but if they are not very cheerful and reserved, they are just acquaintances at a time, and there will be a gradual deepening process of formal communication.

In short, learning to socialize with people of all personalities and enriching your ability to deal with the world (even if it has been calculated by others) is beneficial to the path you want to take in life.

Let's start with the first impression. Interpersonal relationships are usually from the face to gradually understand a person, give others a smile or a look I think is enough, in the future interactions, to help others, is the main thing, but don't pick up everything, so there will be a lot of trouble, and then gradually choose the friends you can get along, can help you these things.

Make a good impression on others and turn yourself into your ideal friend.

Watch more, listen to others' reflections. Do what you want. There must be a common language.

This kind of thing should go with the flow, what do you want to say, if you don't want the other party to lose face, or a similar situation, then you go and talk to him, you must believe in yourself.

Gather like things, do what they like, regardless of gains and losses, be good at patience, and treat others with a smile.

If you can do that, I promise you'll make good friends.

If you can't even figure out four words, don't talk about friends.

I was in a class when others talked to me, so I told him, no one paid attention to me, I stayed by myself, no need to rush to know, it was difficult to say if I didn't know after a long time.

Their feelings need to be taken into account in all aspects

Be moved with your heart!

Communicate with everyone more.

Get along with each other.

I believe that there will be good popularity soon.

Respect respect or respect, take a good experience. Hehe.

Man dies for money, and birds die for food. If a man is not for himself, the heavens and the earth will perish. It's right to be selfish.

Go with the flow. Don't be nervous.

It is best to choose the time of our life as a high school life. We are working and studying without fatigue. We worked very hard, but we were not allowed to regret graduating.

Spend in our research, of course, not forgetting the teachersTheir selfless dedication. First, there have been some long-term misunderstandings and frictions.

Establish friendship at this time, and people will never forget. In the time we did something meaningful for us to graduate from class. We can do it in the final cleaning for lessons.

Cherish this fate, friends are valuable, and friendship is very valuable.

In fact, I think that as long as a person does things with his heart, others will feel your sincerity, don't deliberately please ......Stick to what you like.

Last night, one of my buddies in the dormitory, Tian and Xiaohuai, who were about to go to bed, had some unpleasant things happen in the dormitory, and everyone was very unhappy

Yesterday, the neighbor to our bedroom to return things, and Tian had some conflicts, at first I thought it was a joke, but then it was out of control, and when I saw it, I tried to pull them away, but the consequences were still quite serious (the kettle hit one, this is secondary, the main thing is that the relationship between the dormitories will become very ginger, which is very bad, at least I think so!) ）

The complexity of this matter also lies in the fact that Xiaohuai lives in a dormitory with our classmates (he is on the Internet), and we usually contact each other, so that there are few people to help him when Tian goes over there to find him (even if it is his own class, I didn't understand this matter at first, but then I knew), and when I pulled the frame, our class actually helped pull the bias frame (help Xiaohuai), and it was in the case of not asking clearly, I felt quite unmotivated

I can't say much about the specific situation

Don't often make unreasonable demands on your classmates, and if you really have something to do, make reasonable requests and leave some leeway for others.

Don't seem petty, universities are all dormitories nowadays, and you have to take care of each other when you live together, and you can't be too stingy (that makes it difficult for people to get in touch with you).

Whether you are close or not lies in the usual things, a small thing you don't take to heart, others may remember it, pay attention to the details of life.

If you have nothing to do, you should often deal with your classmates, keep in touch more, and find a common language, so that the relationship can be long and close.

In your daily life, you should observe the habits of your classmates, etc., and try not to do anything that makes them angry (depending on the situation without harming yourself).

Don't always look so domineering in front of others, so that others will feel very unhappy (with the exception of the shameless one).

Usually to cultivate some extracurricular interests, try to find some classmates together, this can also alleviate some of the problems of rigid relationship with classmates, from now on, I can only see these for the time being, if there is anything to add, please give me advice.

This requires an understanding of your usual behavior, and what kind of attitude do you usually get along with your classmates?

First of all, if you want others to like you, you have to make a good impression on others, help your classmates more, chat with them more, and don't do things that annoy your classmates.

You also need to have good achievements, and it turns out that people will like you and communicate with you only if you have great abilities.

When you encounter some things, you must take the initiative to take responsibility, speak softly, and don't let others think that you are troublesome.

If you really can't handle the relationship well, forget it, just do your only relationship well, anyway, the important thing is to be yourself!