How to deal with the relationship between high school and classmates.

When I had an argument with my classmates in high school, I chose to take the initiative to prevent the development of the conflict as much as possible, chose to use words to solve the problem as much as possible, and chose to take the initiative to solve the problem as much as possible.

1. Prevent the development of contradictions.

Studying is a very stressful thing for high school students, and it is best to spend students' time on studying, rather than fighting each other in their daily time. If there is some conflict between high school students, it is best for both parties to choose to stop the conflict, and if there are some quarrels between you right now, it is best to choose to take the initiative to shut up and walk away. If your problem is not solved, then pay attention to your emotions, don't let the problem worsen too much, and figure out what you want to gain from the problem.

2. Use words to solve problems as much as possible.

No matter what kind of contradiction occurs, whether it is a quarrel or a relatively serious problem, we must try our best to solve the problem with words. Because high school students are close to an adult in terms of physical development, if violence is used to solve the problem at this time, it will deepen the misunderstanding between each other, and will also cause some damage to each other's bodies, which will also bring certain obstacles to the academic career of high school students, which is not conducive to the physical and mental health development of high school students. Therefore, if there is a conflict, try to solve the problem in words as much as possible, and explain clearly what you need and why you are angry.

3. Take the initiative to solve problems.

When a conflict occurs, one of the more commendable things is that one of the parties chooses to calm down and communicate, or chooses to walk away temporarily, so that both parties' emotions can be calmed down, and then communicate. When solving things, the party that can take the initiative to solve the problem is relatively strong, and the problem should not be subjective or emotional, only in this way can the contradiction be successfully resolved. Once the contradiction is resolved, don't leave it in your heart overnight, some people will think about this contradiction repeatedly, causing themselves to fall into internal friction, which is an extremely bad thing.

This is very normal because people have the same personality, and you have conflicts with your classmates in high school. Because in the real environment, people are in this state, so I think it's very normal. There are contradictions in this matter, and it is not terrible, you should be ordinary and the contradictions are exposed.

Actually, I don't think it's anything, everyone is also fate to go to high school for three years together. It's possible that something is up, and I think you should be in good shape. If you think the other party is a very good person, then if you think he is a garbage, you don't have to get along with him anymore, that is, this matter is actually a relationship between people, not a mutual relationship, relatively speaking, it is also a relationship of continuous cognition, continuous understanding, this is the case, in fact, I think it is normal in high school or in junior high school, elementary school and classmates, you don't expect everyone to be able to say it.

So the personality of people is like this, everyone's personality is different, you are an extrovert, you expect you to be friends with an introvert. Maybe you have different interests and hobbies with him, how can you expect to be friends with him? So don't think that everyone can be friends, and every classmate can be friends.

It's impossible, but if there is a real conflict, it should be dealt with properly. You have to see what is the cause of this contradiction? Is it personal, or is it because of something in the class?

Actually, this is not a problem. Because these things are very small things in high school, compared to when you go out into society. So I think you should look at this objectively.

First of all, you should first formalize this problem, first of all, this problem exists, it depends on how you solve it, you want to leave this thing like this all the time. Ignore him or say that you want to make friends with him again, that's the kind of thing, in fact, I don't think there is a relationship between people, sometimes it's such a thing, if you think the other party is a very important person, then you can continue to make friends with him. If you think he's a piece of trash, you don't need to make friends with him, and you will say goodbye after graduation, which is such a thing, in fact, it is such a simple thing.

You must adjust your mentality, never conflict with others, and sometimes find problems from yourself.

You have to learn to help others, and then you have to take the initiative to resolve conflicts, you can talk to your classmates about everything, and you have to face each other sincerely.

You can take the initiative to be friends with each other, you can also take the initiative to invite each other to go out to watch movies and eat together, and you can go out shopping with each other to chat more with each other during breaks.