What does it mean when my husband says divorce and says that he will not leave first?

If your husband has made it clear that he wants to divorce you, but he says that he will not leave for a while, he is likely to reconsider the relationship between you, I think since this is the case, if possible, you should try to fight for it, and try not to divorce. Because the damage to the children after the divorce is too great.

This is because he regretted it, deliberately scared you, and now he doesn't want to leave, so he will say slow down, he doesn't really want to leave you, if he leaves you, he won't say that.

First of all, let's see what financial losses the man has, bride price and the like. Give him back if you can. He doesn't suffer any more money, and he will talk about anything else.

Now mobile phone audio and video recording are very convenient, and it is better to record if the man threatens. It can be used as some kind of evidence.

If the man really kills someone, then he himself will be sentenced to death, and his parents will have no one to support him. So, you can find a way to listen to his recordings to his parents and family. He never lied to his family.

If he was just scaring people, then his family might not be so anxious. If he were to come for real, then his parents' family would probably be as scared as the woman's family.

After all, after the man killed someone, the man's parents raised him for nothing. Let them stop him, better.

In addition, unless the woman is in a hurry to marry someone else, the divorce can be postponed, that is, the divorce is not mentioned, just separated. I don't live with this man, but my husband and wife status is still there. In this way, men will not be so impulsive if they feel that there is no divorce and that they are just awkward.

In separation, it is best for the woman to go to a place where the man cannot find her for a while. People's impulsiveness and anger cannot last, and dealing with things slowly and delaying time, half a year to a year, is also a way to dilute the man's emotions.

Threatened to kill someone, but this policeman didn't care. ** Doesn't protect you 24 hours a day. So, finding a way not to anger the man and gradually fading it may be a solution to the problem.

After a certain period of separation, the court will rule that the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down. Let's talk about it when the time comes.

may feel that they can still consider each other, and the decision to divorce does take a certain amount of time, and they can understand the reason for his divorce, maybe they want to make up for it.

If the two parties are not at fault because of the breakdown of the relationship, but just have a conflict, they can still discuss it.

The meaning is very clear, that is, he himself has not thought about it, maybe he is not sure whether he still loves you, or it may be that the child's affairs have not been thought through, or whether the family can be separated.