Mom and Dad are in their 50s, and they suddenly said they wanted to divorce that day, what should I

Your parents' situation is very general, and it is difficult to make a judgment for or against. But I think it's irresponsible to let it develop without interference anyway. At this time, after all, the children are all adults, and the children should jump out of the habitual thinking of the protection of their parents in the past.

Look at this problem from a certain height, and solve it with the attitude of a bystander and leader.

<> first of all, find out the extent and reason for their divorce. To put it bluntly, husband and wife live together together, if decades have passed, it is common to lose love, and it is dangerous to lose family affection. After all, couples who have no feelings and no family affection are in the minority, and most couples, quarreling is a vice or habit they have developed for many years after marriage, which is a sign of immaturity and does not need to be taken too seriously.

But for those who do have emotional rifts and practical problems, if they really get to the point of incompatibility, let them try to separate or divorce is also one of the options. Therefore, it is necessary to analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis.

If there is no third party, it is easy to do. First of all, tell my dad that mom is now in menopause.

Easily irritable, irritable, sensitive, suspicious. Be considerate of your mother, after all, it is not easy to share ups and downs for half a lifetime. When my mother survives menopause, I won't embarrass my father. Man, the measure is a little bigger, and the understanding and understanding will pass.

I went to tell my mother again, after half a lifetime, what else could I not tolerate. Men are careless, but the heart is good. For the sake of the children, it's okay if you don't make noise.

I have time to go shopping and buy my favorite cosmetics and clothes. Go dancing and make yourself happy. There's nothing you can't get by.

Then to my grandmother's house.

Turn around, and the mood will be good.

Every family is trivial, nothing serious. It just needs someone to explain and reconcile to both sides in order to get through this hurdle. I hope that I will succeed immediately, and I can't say that I have not yet reached the step of real departure!

My parents also left around 50, and just two years ago, I chose to support their decision.

It may be different for each family, but I think that as long as the parents can be happy for the rest of their lives, we should support their decisions. They should not be a stumbling block.

I think you should respect your parents, and at the same time you should talk to your parents and ask them why they want to get divorced, and tell them the consequences of divorce, and tell them that they must be careful about this issue.

I believe that this is a decision made by parents after careful consideration, and I think that as a child, it is enough to respect and let them make decisions according to their own ideas.

Parents should be persuaded not to divorce, after all, after being married and in love for so many years, the other party will have a lot of feelings, to take them to recall the good times and moments between them.

Summary. Children should ask their parents why they want a divorce and educate their parents about the reasons. In this way, let your parents change their minds about wanting to divorce.

My parents are 60 years old and want to get a divorce, what should I do?

Children should ask their parents why they want a divorce and enlighten their parents through the Changna reason. In this way, let yourself envy your parents and change their minds about wanting to divorce.

Many couples will go through the way of divorce, so that the relationship between each other can be ended. And it also includes some couples who are nearly 60 years old, who will still choose to insist on divorcing each other for some reasons. When dealing with this situation here, as a Zi Xi quietly withered girl, there will be a lot of pressure in her heart.

Ask the parents why they want a divorce. Lu Han: But I personally think that after encountering this situation, you should first calm yourself down. The second is to ask your parents why they want to divorce, because after reaching the age of almost 60, if it is not for special reasons.

Jibei Town, Zheng Benshang, will choose to stay with each other until he grows old. So I personally think that by asking the reason for the divorce, I can let myself know the reason why my parents who are almost 60 years old want to divorce.

Educate your parents. After asking your parents why they want to divorce, you can enlighten your parents about the reasons for the lack of trouble. After all, after reaching the age of nearly 60, if you choose to divorce the other party.

It will only make Zifu Zhou cover himself in a relatively lonely state, and it is basically impossible to remarry at this age. Therefore, only by enlightening the parents can they change their parents' minds about divorce. So that you can have a relatively complete family.

One is that since they got married, the relationship between the two has been dull and caring, and there are occasional contradictions, but this time there is suddenly an irreconcilable big contradiction, and the two cannot compromise with each other;

Second, since the marriage, there have been constant contradictions due to the disagreement of the three views, and after years of accumulation, it has finally reached the point of intolerability.

If it is the first case, you can intervene, help them analyze the causes, and do what you can to make the conflict between the two sides slowly ease. If it is the second option (given the marital status in China in the sixties and seventies, I guess the second possibility is more likely), the subjects can only wait for their own final decision. For such a thing, anyone will be very depressed or even difficult to accept, so it is a good way for the subject to travel or live in another city for a period of time at this time to relieve his mood.

At the age of 50, if you are in good health, it is actually nothing, and if you want to divorce and start your own life, I think it's completely okay. There is some truth in the society that you should not leave when you are older, and make do with it, but I don't agree with it.

What everyone's life is like, only they know, other people's words may be out of good intentions, but their own suffering is still their own, and no one can replace it. Therefore, you must think clearly for yourself, at this age, you have also experienced the ups and downs of life, and you have deep experience, so you should know how you live.

What to do if your parents quarrel and want a divorce.

1. Absolute neutrality.

At this time, it is necessary to remain neutral, wait for the parents to quarrel, and then do ideological work, first affirm their respective right, and then say the wrong party, so that the parents know the truth that a slap does not make a sound, so that there may not be a divorce.

2. Don't pull the bias frame.

Don't keep impulsively pulling the shelf, this will only add fuel to the fire, and it may be that your intentional favoritism will make the parents' war out of the original track and become out of control.

3. Be coquettish.

If you are still relatively young, you can use coquettishness to extinguish the fire, tell your parents that you are afraid of quarreling, so that your parents will consider your feelings and slowly become calm, but you must have enough coquettish and cute talents to pretend to be pitiful.

Discuss the advantages and disadvantages of being separated or not separated with your mother, protect your mother, and protect your mother's home. It's important to figure out why they're divorcing, to determine whether they really want to leave or to scare each other. Also, the attitude of the children is also very important, this kind of thing depends on what you value, in short, it is very complicated, the relationship between housework and people is the most complicated, no one can know how to do it most correctly.

But it's really important to make sure that the quality of life doesn't deteriorate.

At this time, it is best for you to let your parents and both of them calm and calm. It is also possible to allow them to live temporarily apart for a period of time without getting divorced. Watch them wait until after a while, if it does. If the relationship cannot be eased, then it is best to support them for divorce and respect their decision.

Alas, you have to find a way to make your parents' relationship better.

Quarrels are a common thing in the life of husband and wife, but can not be ignored, once two people quarrel to a certain extent must be out of control, this matter is not trivial, you have to talk to them, first talk to one by one, do not blame either party casually, but to explain their advantages and disadvantages clearly, so that they can correctly understand themselves. Tell them that you can't do without you, and if you get divorced, then you may be separated, what should I do? This is a family, why should it be divided into two families, you have to do more work, at this time, the parents and children's words are more effective than anyone else.

Of course, the divorce of parents, we can't explain the reason in one or two sentences, but as children, first of all: we don't mix too much in it, if the parents are still verbally divorced, if the two still have an emotional foundation, the essence of the two is still very good, try to promote their good union; Secondly, if the divorce is irretrievable, then go with the flow, understand more about the hardships of the party you follow, strive to mature yourself, assume your obligations in the family, and at the same time, we must study harder, so that in the future in this separated family out of a road of self-improvement, self-confidence, and self-reliance!

Find some memories of that time and talk to your mom alone.

Legal analysis: In the case of the husband and wife at the time of divorce, the husband and wife negotiate and voluntarily register the divorce; If one party does not agree to the divorce, then the divorce can be obtained through litigation. Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted. In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person; (2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members; (3) Having gambling, drug abuse, or other vices that have been repeatedly taught; (4) They have been separated for two years due to emotional discord; (5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Both parents are in their 50s, and the divorce at this time should have been deliberated by them. So at this time, you'd better let your parents both calm down. It is also possible to allow them to live temporarily apart for a period of time without getting divorced.

Watch them wait until after a while, if it does. If the relationship cannot be eased, then it is best to support them for divorce and respect their decision.

The parents are in their 50s, and the divorce at this time should be skillful and deliberate, so at this time, hello, let your parents calm and calm, and you can also let them temporarily separate.

Judging from what you said about your parents, whoever pushes such a man is unlucky, your mother has always been so diligent, and your father is so lazy, their marriage can last so long is reluctant, and now they want to divorce, let them leave, just let them live happily in the second half of their lives.

When you're older, let's make trouble.

Just pretend you don't know!

You can't control the divorce of your parents, it's all your own business. It's okay to deal with it. Parents are not children after all, they have their own way of thinking.

Summary. By your textual description, you should also be an adult.

By your textual description, you should also be an adult.

You're an adult, so there's no custody issue.

So did the two of them tell you what the reason was?

I want to ask, I am an adult, my parents are divorced, I live with my mother, but my father has always had a low income, and even can't support his own expenses, he asked me for money before he lost his ability to work in the first line, should I bring fire?

My dad doesn't make money and has a big temper, and he plays tricks on my mom every day.

You have to give it, because legally, you have to take on the obligation to support your parents.

But you can also not give.

Is there an age limit for the obligation to support his parents, or should I also pay for him if he has the ability to work?

Because you are cautious that your father still has the ability to work, and you are about to face the heavy responsibility of getting married and starting a family with filial piety, you need more money, and your father can't support it, so don't put pressure on your children anymore.

What does it mean to be a dependent parent in law?

There is no age limit, as long as the conditions allow, you can provide maintenance obligations whenever and wherever you want, but Chunqing and are you not facing the heavy responsibility of getting married now? That can be used as a reason to excuse it.

As long as it is your biological parents, as long as the two of them want money, you have to provide all the financial support unconditionally.

I'm an only child, so I have to prepare about how much money I have to prepare for marriage.

Your father is not yet 50 and has not yet reached retirement age, so you can directly refuse his request for money.

Uh-huh, okay. Of course, it is better to prepare, as your dowry, it will make you more face-saving in your in-law's family, and it can also improve your status in choosing a future partner.