What should I do if there is a problem with the marriage examination?

Netizen Miss Lin: Some time ago, my neighbor Xiao Wang got pregnant after getting married, but when she gave birth, she gave birth to a deformed child, I don't know what the reason is, but I am also very worried now, I don't know if I will give birth to a deformed child after I get pregnant, so I think about whether to do a premarital examination, but I am worried about what if something goes wrong during the marriage examination? It will have some impact on our relationship, and I am also hesitant to check it out.

The expert replied: If you are worried about finding out that you are sick and do not do a marriage examination, "it is better not to know that you are sick", this is just a fluke psychology, and it is also a kind of self-deception, which is harmful to either of you.

It is undeniable that once you find out that the other person's health is in trouble, you will have to go through a mental struggle, and your relationship will also be tested. This point must be fully taken into account when you decide to get married and decide on the marriage examination, and both parties must be mentally prepared, which must be faced.

In fact, it is not terrible that there is a problem, but the terrible thing is that you don't know each other at all, and once there is a problem due to health or marriage and childbirth after marriage, it will bring a shadow to your future life, or even an irreparable impact. The union of a man and a woman should be based on mutual trust, respect and understanding, so that when faced with unexpected problems, they can be dealt with calmly. In fact, the feelings that have been tempered are the most perfect.

I hope that you will calmly go for the marriage examination, which is also a sign of mutual respect and honesty between the two parties, and will deepen your relationship.

1. The marital examination is mainly for routine examination and screening of some diseases. If the marriage examination detects the disease, the marriage can be postponed first, and the disease can be actively promoted. Wait for the illness** or be relieved before getting married.

2. If a contagious disease is detected in the marriage examination, one of the sick parties informs the other party before deciding whether to get married. If you choose to get married, the other partner can also take preventive measures to reduce the chance of infection.

3. Because many of the diseases related to marriage screening are affected by fertility, you should carefully consider whether to choose fertility after marriage. If you have a baby, you need to inform your doctor, pay close attention, do a good examination, and try to ensure the health of the fetus and the safety of the mother.

4. If there is a problem in the marriage examination, it should be treated rationally. Marriage is a lifelong affair for both parties, and concealment and deception will break down even after marriage. And if you can know before marriage, you can also test the feelings of both parties to see if it is really suitable for marriage.

5. The main screening diseases of marriage examination: 1. Severe hereditary diseases in Luluxing. 2. Sitan designated infectious diseases and some sexually transmitted diseases.

3. Mental illness. 4. Other diseases: refers to diseases of important organs such as heart, liver, lungs, kidneys, and reproductive system development disorders or malformations that affect marriage and childbirth.

Can the marriage examination find out the problem and still get married?Whether you want to get married or not depends on how you choose.

A premarital check-up is a health check-up for both men and women before they register for a license, giving both parties a certain amount of health assurance. If one of the parties has a problem during the marriage inspection, how to choose this need to be made by themselves. If the problem is not serious, it can be good, and then get the certificate after it is good; If it is a disease that cannot be cured, you still need to be cautious and choose carefully.

What to consider when there is a problem with the marriage testIf there is a problem with the marriage inspection, it does not mean that marriage will not be considered, this mainly depends on what the problem is, and the other half and his family can conceal the consequences of this problem, and the main aspects that need to be considered are:

1. Fertility problems.

It mainly depends on whether you want to have children or not, if you want stove socks and can cure each other and love each other, you might as well give it a try, if you can't cure it, forget it, really don't drag each other down. If this is your own fault, you have to inform the other party and let the other party choose carefully.

2. Infectious diseases.

Let's not talk about the hepatitis ones, if it can be cured, it can be cured, and then get married, and if it can't be cured, don't drag each other down.

3. Non-contagious.

But if it affects the quality of life and the length of life, it's better not to be too strict, otherwise forget it.

Why many people are reluctant to do a marriage test1. Many people feel that the marriage examination has no effect, especially if they feel that their body is already good, so there is no need for the marriage examination.

2. Many places will arrange employees to do regular inspections every year, so I don't think there is any need to spend time and money on marriage inspections.

3. Some people feel embarrassed about some items in the marriage examination, especially when women do ** examinations, they will feel embarrassed.

4. When doing a marriage examination, it is inevitable that the privacy of two people will be touched, such as what genetic diseases there are, they are worried that their privacy will be exposed, and they are also afraid that the other party will know their privacy and will leave them.

5. Many people feel that they do not trust each other when doing a marriage examination, even if they do not have a marriage examination, the other party will confess to themselves.

Divorce should be decisive. If it is found that the other party is sick after marriage, and this disease is very serious, the family is likely to be unable to support it financially in the future, and it is impossible to have children, which should be deliberately concealed before marriage. It is very unkind to conceal such a serious illness before marriage, and it can also be said to be a cheating marriage, because if you knew that he had such a serious illness, you should not marry him.

This shows that there is something wrong with this person and this family, or at least dishonest. In this case, you can sue for divorce and the law will support you. Don't be told what she would do if she was in your situation.

For young people, his disease is not necessarily in your relationship, it may be a lesion after you get married. That's not good to say. Therefore, since you are married to him, you should treat him well.

No matter what illness he has. You will. Very well taken care of.

Min's inseparability is reflected here. It can also be said that this kind of perseverance is also a national virtue. It's also everything you should do as a couple.

This is a very common social problem, and before marriage registration, a routine marriage inspection was required before, but it was very superficial, and it has been relaxed in recent years, and Qiao Zhi can register marriage as long as the household registration book. Therefore, it is often not known whether the other party is healthy or not.

But don't be afraid, in fact, at this time, I know, it is the time to test the feelings of both parties, and we should treat it correctly, husband and wife are the same forest birds, and we must share weal and worn, and we will accompany you to reign in the world and share wealth with regret.

Go to a large hospital for diagnosis and treatment in time, believe in science, just get married, and young, it shouldn't be a big problem, timely **, it's no problem.