Hesitating between two girls, it is difficult to choose between two girls

Updated on society 2024-07-23
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's not good to pedal two boats.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This kind of question should also be asked? You can choose whoever you feel is more inclined to in your heart!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't ask for both. Go look for the third.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I understand your contradictions, but if I had to choose now, I would not hesitate to choose the second one. Maybe now you feel that you are different and can take that vigorous love as the most important condition for a good life, but after all, you will face firewood, rice, oil and salt in your future life, and slowly you will find that the traditional you are talking about is really able to live with you. Of course, I'm just suggesting that the final decision is up to you.

    Don't let yourself be too tired because of your wife, knowing that you care about you will help your career, and if your career is successful, you can better care about your lover's ......

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm a girl, I think you like that, chase that If the first girl likes you, but finds out that you're involved with another girl, he'll feel that you're half-hearted and unreliable, if it's me, the two girls I like o( o

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it's better to choose the first one. Because if she treats you well, you have no feelings for her, and feelings can be cultivated slowly, and they are not absolutely impossible to establish; And the second one feels very capable, but if you always think that you are not doing well after getting married, it will not be done well, and it will easily cause divorce. There is an old Chinese saying:

    Women are stronger than men, and husbands and wives are not long!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first one, if you live together and still be good to you, then know how to work hard; The second is assertive, which means that there is a lot of experience, and it is too much; I think that since we are both living together, responsibility is still very important

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ideas? I want to scold you, your uncle's slut. Pedal on two boats.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This should be handled carefully, this is a matter that determines the lifelong partner, for the girl who has been chatted on QQ, you can propose to meet and talk at the appropriate time and place, of course, after obtaining the consent of the parents, if you are in love, you can decide that it is her, if it is not right, you can get along with the girl introduced by the neighbor, it depends on your decision.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In fact, you still tend to treat A as your girlfriend in your heart, and for B, you can only say that although you don't want to admit it, you actually just regard her as a very good "confidant". Why? Because you and my husband are in a bit of a similar situation (though not exactly), I was my husband's A at the time, and he also had a female friend who was similar to B.

    My husband also has some scruples when he talks to me when he is with me, and like you, he won't tell me about work pressure or anything, but will talk to B. That's what I saw later in his chat history. I once asked him what it was like to be with B, and he paused and said something similar to what you said:

    I feel very free to be with B, there is no emotional burden, and I can talk about anything. However, my husband added it later, and there may be something you can learn from. He told me that he was happy with me and that he would be annoyed by my words and actions (which could also be an indirect indication that he cared about me); As for B, he will only go to B when he is irritable, stressed, uncomfortable, and not easy to tell me (the scruples mentioned earlier) (this is the law of finding B that he discovered himself). , so he's pretty sure he still loves me, and maybe he just has a good impression of B and treats B as a bosom sister. I'm not sure if my husband's situation can point you to any clear path, but I want to say that you can try to think about the state in which most people want to contact B. If something happens to both A and B, who do you worry more about, and who do you care more about?

    The difference between liking and love is that liking is "zero burden", while love is responsible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There are a lot of such situations now, you must sort out your feelings, otherwise three people will be injured. Ask your own heart, whether you like the new and hate the old, what kind of person you are, what kind of person you want to be, what you need, what you can give to each other, who you want to live with most in the rest of your life, what you can endure, and so on. If you have devoted six years of your affection and are not at fault, then it is your fault that you are splitting your legs, which is undeniable.

    If it is not a fundamental conflict of three views, it is not recommended that you break up with A, you must know that you will meet many good people in the future, you can't see one and love the other. B is a good girl who is more sensible and measured, if it is true love, it may be that fate played a joke to make you meet too late, and there is no foundation in feelings. If you don't love B and explicitly reject her, it's best not to contact her, don't give her any chance to fantasize, if you choose A but break off the connection with B, whether as a friend or confidant, let B "be a junior" and delay others, then it's your sin again.

    In short, if you are a decent and responsible man, I hope you choose to deal with it carefully and do a good job of dealing with the aftermath. Either way, stepping on two boats is always the worst option, as it's easy to fall into the river.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    (We can't judge that the girl is better or more suitable for you based on your simple description) No matter how deep the love will be changed from love to family affection due to the relationship of time, this is the sublimation of love, and it is also the best result, during which there will be large and small frictions, and the other half's choice can not be separated from the fiery love alone, on the contrary, find a reason for yourself to start another relationship, and also take into account the feelings of friends and relatives around you, which is also the standard for measuring a person's character. Think carefully, whether you choose A or B, give up the connection with the other girl and cherish the person in front of you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Feelings are to be loyal to their hearts, it should be said that you are a hesitant man, you will hurt two women like this, in fact, I think you should be friendly to B, you are nostalgic for what he paid to you! There must be a solution, otherwise you will collapse if you continue to suffer like this.

    Men should be decisive, you can't have both fish and bear's paws, and you can only get if you give up.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, you don't love either of them, you can understand that it's just sex, not love, for A, I feel that you should have a habit, because you have been together for 6 years, and you will definitely know each other very well, so you will have some scruples in front of A, and men still have to think about their feelings, otherwise they will definitely miss the two girls.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A vision of the perfect partner: attracting, appreciating, respecting, communicating, understanding, accepting, inclusive, loyal, giving, sacrificing, happy, physically and mentally synchronized, matching each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    As a woman, I look down on you, but I still remind you to see your heart clearly, it is important to be happy together, and common topics are also important...

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You don't know how to love at all, and you don't really love anyone. I should be embarrassed to talk about love here.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're a man, irresponsible, indecisive, hurry up and deal with the relationship between the three of you, it's good for everyone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I hate you very much, it's over, it's been a long time, after all, it will fade But please think about it clearly, who walked through the storm with you and got through the difficulties together I believe that you may promise your girlfriend to cherish her for the rest of your life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The consequence of self-indulgence is that you are doomed to bear the debt of conscience and wait to be hated for the rest of your life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't ask, what you love the most is yourself!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Don't be like this, you have all chosen, please leave.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first one is pretty good, but your body doesn't seem to hold up. The second one doesn't seem a bit old-fashioned.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's very ugly, it is recommended not to wear it, don't buy it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Obviously, he may have a crush on both girls, one of the reasons is that he wants a girl who loves him, and the other reason is that he has made a good choice, but he is afraid of hurting her, and if he doesn't love him, it will hurt less.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    He had to determine which one really loved him, and the other was to satisfy his vanity.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    He's not sure, don't give up if you like him, let him know your sincerity.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Very simple! Like to be together, break up if you don't like it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Dizzy, what should you do if you ask others about this, you don't know who you like?

    This is a major event of a lifetime, be careful!

    If you prefer the first one, then confess to her, and then make it clear to the second one,] so as not to delay others!

    Maybe there are three bottoms that are more suitable for you|!

    Don't just listen to others, it's your own business!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Just pick the first one, it seems that you have a crush on the first one. Don't let yourself regret it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Find the right person to find someone she likes you, so that you will become more and more affectionate, find someone you like and you will regret it, there is no contradiction between husband and wife, and she will say that you chase her if she has no self-cultivation.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Your attitude is very important, I've met it, but I'm one of the women, the one who pursues,,, and then the two of the men can't get either.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Find someone who likes you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    How to choose what you think, I personally propose to choose what you like.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, make a decision immediately, choose the latter, and live happily.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Inseparable, like flesh and blood (you know so much...)

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