How do I adjust myself to someone I had a crush on?

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Love should be fought for, and opportunities are prepared for those who are prepared

The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, but in the end, the bell must be tied to the bell, and now everything needs to be faced and solved by yourself! Blindly escaping can only forever be deeply confused, and there will be no peace forever, not only hurting yourself but also hurting the people who love you...

can only say that he didn't know how to cherish it before, isn't it normal for men to chase women? Why do girls have to say that boys will say, if you really like your current boyfriend, then get rid of him completely, and be with your boyfriend, if you don't really like your current boyfriend, then divide it, as for whether you can be with the previous man It's up to you, but think about it for the future, don't regret it because of impulse!

You're struggling with whether he ever loved you, but even if you know the answer, it won't work for the status quo! Do you have the courage to give up your current boyfriend and go for a gamble? Do you really know him?

Is he really the right fit for you? You're sure to have results? Can you completely let go of your current boyfriend?

Cherish the people in front of you!

Forget the past, forget his shadow, cherish your present boyfriend, and don't deceive yourself.

Going to college in the same school, there is no intersection anymore, but occasionally I will chat a few words on QQ.

When I was in the first year of junior high school, I was placed in a good class, and the author behind me was a boy who had left a grade, he was very cheerful, and gradually became warm, and he told me a lot of things, such as the teachers at school were friendly, for example, he was sick at the end of the semester and didn't go to school for a long time, so he had to stay for a year.

His grades were good, and as an upper-average student in my class, it was only natural for me to compete with him. Although we are competitors, the gap between me and him is not that big.

In the usual contact, I found that he is a very cheerful person, very smiling, and the laughter is very low, the most common thing to do is to play with the girl sitting behind him, at that time I still don't like him, every day watching him and that girl feel quite funny.

Maybe it's because he always pays attention to him, so he slowly has a different kind of feelings, such as liking. The homeroom teacher made a change to our seats, he moved from the back of me to the other group, and we were no longer at the front and back tables, because I was very bored, so this adjustment meant that we would not have any other crossings.

Later, after class, I was in a daze in my seat, and he was standing there laughing with his classmates, and I saw that his eyes were very good-looking, and as a senior face control, I fell like this. Maybe I would have liked him even without those eyes, after all, it wasn't a heartbeat for him anymore.

Later, there was news in the class that he liked other girls in the class, and I resolutely chose to confess when I knew that he would not like me. Rightfully he rejected me, and it took me a long time to let him go. Then he started his first love, and I started my first love, and we didn't cross paths.

Later, we went to a high school, I didn't know he was there, and I also had an occasional chance to see him, out of competition, I would go to see his results after every monthly exam, of course, not only him, but also other junior high school classmates who were with me in this school.

The gap between me and him is sometimes big, sometimes small, because I don't like him anymore, so I don't pay much attention to it, I just remember that his grades got better and better.

After graduating, I went to choose a university that was not very far from home, and one day on the way to class, I saw a very familiar figure, and I hurried to the front of that figure, yes, it was him, the person I used to have a crush on, he was in the same school as me.

I said hello to him, and he was surprised to see me. Later he added me and I agreed, and we rarely chatted. The last time I met him at school, he didn't recognize me, and I didn't go up to say hello.

I already have other people I like, and I've been with them for a long time.

My first crush was probably him, very ordinary, but he made me like it very much. For me, it was a long time to have a crush, but I can't remember exactly how long.

At that time, I had just transferred to a new city to study in elementary school, and he seemed to be in high school, and I don't know why, but I just liked this little brother very much. He lives next door to me and is kind of a neighbor. Although he is very ordinary, in my eyes, everything about him attracts me.

He was tall and thin, walked slowly, and spoke slowly. He didn't say anything when he saw me, but he would say hello to my mom and dad. Inexplicably, I was so young that I liked the little brother next door for no reason.

After a long time, we moved, and naturally we never saw this little brother again.

The person who used to have a crush is no longer in touch, and I don't know how it is now.

I don't know what happened to him in the end, it seems that he is already married, and he has a daughter, so he should be happy.