How can I love him with a disability? Should I insist on falling in love with a disabled man?

You should let him know the truth, now your white lies have plunged you into the abyss of pain, if he loves you, he will not dislike you, although you are unlucky, there are more unfortunate people in this world than you. They all have an optimistic attitude, live happily, for themselves, for their families, and have their own careers, and have done things that normal people can't do. You don't think that you are not worthy of him like this, you must learn to love yourself, don't look down on yourself, you are still you, if he gives up on you because of this, then he is not worthy of you at all.

If he truly loves you, he will be more kind to you, cherish you, and love you. Give yourself a chance, give each other a chance, give each other an explanation, and good luck

In this way, you must first have a sense of self-reliance, and then love, but also so that if you lose, it will not hurt you again, on the basis of self-reliance.

Let him see you as you are, as a test for him. Perhaps, when he sees you like this, he takes the initiative to retreat, so that he will not hurt him, and you can also gain peace of mind.

I think you can not meet directly, just tell him and let him think about it for himself before making a decision.

To love him is to believe that he will not give up on you This is a test, a test of true love.

I don't know how to ask this question, because if it were me, I would also be very embarrassed, I understand you very well I don't want to bear it and don't dare to tell him After all, you love him Alas!

Do you want to stick with it yourself? What is his thoughts, have you communicated? If you both love each other deeply and want to persevere, then be mentally prepared to try to persevere for a long time (such as doing your own parents' work, pleasing each other's parents, etc.), after all, this is not a good road.

If you can't ignore your parents' feelings, then it's time to break up early, and the longer it goes, the harder it will be to break the relationship...

Love knows no age or gender, to be honest, I'm a rotten girl, I support you! You can talk to your parents, now your parents' thinking is relatively old, and it is certain that they can't accept it, give them some time.

The path of your choice. Walk on your knees!

I read your problem, I am also very annoyed, I support you to continue, don't let him be hit, negotiate with your parents seriously, communicate well! I'm sure this will be taken care of!

Everyone is equal in front of love, but the premise is that you have to constantly take the initiative to participate in all the activities of takeout at home, so that you have a great chance of knowing someone who is destined for you.

The reasons why the family disagrees are none other than the following.

1.He is disabled and will not be able to share household chores, taking care of children, etc.

2.Pension matters, the three elderly people will be under great pressure to provide for the elderly in the future, and we can't take care of it if they get sick at the same time.

3.If there is too much gossip, the family will feel faceless.

This is the main and fundamental reason, that is, I am afraid of losing face.

4.I can't accept the accusations of outsiders, and I'm afraid that I won't be happy in the future, so I blame them for not reminding <>

This is similar to the third point, but the third point is external pressure, which is an internal hidden danger.

If you really love him or her, you will be able to tolerate him (all), and even if there are shortcomings, it will not affect the relationship between you.

Love is the right of two people and has nothing to do with the family, even if the family does not agree with you, you should not be afraid, you should communicate with the family patiently, let the family know that although the person you love is disabled, the old eggplant is excellent, and the best way to solve the problem is to communicate.

In the end, if the family really disagrees, they will have a showdown, saying that they must be together, because that is your happiness, no one can interfere, and if you give up, you will regret it for a lifetime.

Hello landlord!

In response to your question, I would like to say that everyone has their own shortcomings, and we should face up to our shortcomings and overcome them.

Disability is divided into several situations: 1. Physical disability, which may be caused by some special reasons2Hereditary disability because of something that the previous generation produced that is different from normal people3

It is a psychological disability, which can also be said to be a hidden disability, which is the psychological state of some psychological unhealth that harms others, or self-abandonment, not caring for oneself and hurting oneself and others.

But I think the landlord you naturally thought of this problem, so it proves that you are a very thoughtful, very considerate of others a gentle and kind girl, since you have mentioned whether he has the consent of his parents, it means that you and your boyfriend are truly in love, the most important thing for a person is morality, only with a true, kind and beautiful heart, there will be a harmonious family. Believe in yourself and believe in him, as long as you work together and use your love to influence the parents who gave birth to him and raised him, I believe that you will have a better future.

Does he love you and is he mentally prepared? Falling in love and getting married are both two people's business, parents can give us advice but can't decide what we do, the decision is up to us.

If there is love between you, then why should you care if you have a disability or not? As long as you can accept him, what others say is superfluous! Love is sacred, even if you have a physical disability, it does not affect the pursuit of a better life!