How to choose between falling in love with him, and what should I do if I fall in love with him?

I feel that you are really helpless, I feel that you really can't go on like this, you will collapse if you continue like this, I personally think that you will either ask him to break up with his wife now, or you will break up with him, the long pain is better than the short pain, I personally think that in fact, this man is not very reliable, you want to even her daughter can't love with your heart, can you guarantee that his love for you will last long? If he really loves you, I believe he will choose to break up with his wife, if he keeps delaying, it means that the love for you is watery I suggest that you take a long vacation to go out alone and think about it mentally, after all, it is not good for you to go on like this, and I sincerely hope that you can get rid of the current predicament as soon as possible.

None of us know what the road ahead will be, but we can choose our own destiny, even if it is wrong. Your boyfriend is very kind to you and loves you, which is very important to you, and this is the biggest reason why you are tortured, there is a saying: I can't see my friend's heart, but I can see how my friend treats others.

No matter how much your boyfriend loves you. He loves you, but he can't even love his own children. How terrible it is to be able to give up!

What if one day, he loses his feelings for you as well? Leave him, and save your soul, and save another innocent woman and poor child! The road ahead of you is wide, and it leads to light!

You will have happiness that truly belongs to you! Take care!

Leaving is the best option. Make a good memory for each other. If he can easily let go of his wife and daughter at this time, he may let go of you one day in the future.

If he can't let go of his wife and daughter, what's the use of you keeping him. Take a step forward and maybe there will be even more beautiful skies.

Don't be sad, everything is decided by yourself, you have to be much happier than me, women will become very stupid when they encounter love. I fell in love with him, knowing that he had a wife and a son, and he loved me, but he wouldn't get a divorce, so I followed him like this, we had no future, no results.

I'm not going to destroy his family, because I know that family needs him, and she and the children need him.

Since you have chosen, go on, even if a person suffers to death, you must love what you love.

Break up, long pain is better than short pain, time tells us that forgetting someone is much simpler than we think.

To divide or not to divide is only between your thoughts, you think clearly, but you don't do extreme things, remember that tomorrow will be better

Choose one of two topics.

You leave. She left.

Take your pick

The most important thing is not to degrade you because of this.

Let him decide: you or her?

Maybe he really doesn't know how he feels about you, or maybe he really doesn't know what he wants.

But I think you know what you want.

For a confused person, I guess it's better to forget it.

Feelings must be clear and understandable.

Then let him fall in love with you too.

You can only love Him in your heart because He doesn't have a feeling of love for you yet.

Chase desperately, ask him if he likes you.

Cherish what is in front of you.

If you think about it from the other person's point of view, a lot of things will be well solved.

It is important for two people to be tolerant and understand each other.

Girls can be a little reserved!

This gives you the initiative!

In fact, he is also in a very happy state now! Maybe he thought, since you promised her to go to the movies next week, then wait until then to behave! He's preparing!

He doesn't want to ruin the current state! So he doesn't know what to do until next week! He's afraid that if he does too much, he will do something wrong! So I'll have to wait until next week!

Don't worry! Everything is not as you think!

Maybe he'll surprise you when we meet next week!

Wait patiently! 、

If he doesn't ask you, it's just like before.

He wants you to contact him, and he wants to make you anxious....

After all, he has a family, so you might as well give up.

There is a kind of love as long as it is in the heart.

This kind of relationship is too complicated, I advise you to stop the precipice and think about his wife and children.

You can't be too selfish. Hope you can be happy and happy. Find your own happiness.

Landlord What about our netizens here They won't be the masters of others, and they can't be the masters, right, many of the people who come to ask questions are indecisive and constantly decisive, so they won't make decisions for others.

For example, like your question, our answer can only be to give up or go to the junior, two choices, but you seem to say, "I should be married", investigate it first, and then decide whether to give up or be a junior, understand?? You make the decision first and we will advise you.

It's a question that you can't even be sure about, how can we know for sure.

I advise you to give up on the things that come with opinions, there are a lot of reasons.

I advise you to be a junior, it's also for love, it doesn't matter, and so on.

Anyway, it's not too late for you to make sure he's married or not, and then ask the question.

Really love a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, look at the person you love happy you will also be happy, see him (her) troubled you will also follow the troubles, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, real love a person will want to grow old with him (her), love with him is not expressed in words, it is from the heart, falling in love with someone your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), for him (her). Worried, I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, really (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.

Why can't you stay with him? In your case, the so-called love should be a little more emotional, but if you analyze it rationally, you find that you can't be together, right? So, the conflict arises, and you get depressed.

The solution is that if you find that it is really difficult for you to be together, even if you work hard, the possibility is not great, then you should let go early, and the long pain cannot be short. The other is that if you have a lot of courage, and the actual situation is not completely hopeless, then you can insist on being with him and solve the difficulties together. Hope it inspires you.

Didn't love.

It's easy to get confused by veterans.

I think so.

Forget about getting married

Age is not an issue, though

But everyone has the right to love

I wish you happiness

It's useless to ask anyone in life, if you have the answer, do it, don't regret it.

Don't be a person who can love and dare not say love, in your conversation with him, you should experience whether your enthusiasm is love or ordinary care for a patient's family, don't bring yourself like an abyss, if it is love, then continue, if you are willing, then you give up, wishful thinking has no good results, and it is you who are hurt

If he has a home and he is still enthusiastic about you, such a man is no better. At least he's like this to you, and if he changes to another woman, maybe he will be so enthusiastic.

Men are eating in the bowl and looking at the pot Sometimes they will tell other women how unhappy their marriage is, but in fact his daughter-in-law may be good to him to death.

Real men will grasp themselves, and irresponsible men will discharge indiscriminately.

There are at least four social attributes in the world: self, children, husband or wife and parents, these four roles are what you must play sooner or later, if each of us can take these four responsibilities and do perfectly, then you have realized your own personal value and indirectly contributed to this society.

Most people can only do one or two of these things well, and some people can't do even one of them. When he looks back, he will not regret that he wasted his time, and he will not be ashamed of his inaction, so that when he dies, he can say that my whole life and all my energy are meaningful and valuable.

Responsibility means sacrifice, there is no ease without hardship, there is no joy without pain, happiness and misfortune are contrasted.

Love is a very beautiful thing, not so much a form of getting along with two people, but a feeling in our hearts.

Whether you are in love, unrequited love, or falling out of love, although the results are very different, we all experience the taste of love, sweetness, sadness, pain, which is the form of love we enjoy.

Why make love so unbearable because you can't be satisfied, that's not love, it's possession, most people's love stays in the possession stage, very rudimentary, so there will be so many entanglements, resentment, and even mutual harm, when the purpose of love is no longer possession, love is no longer related to the person who loves. In any form you can enjoy love, this is the legendary My Love has nothing to do with you.

If he's not married, let's take a look.

If it's over, you have to leave immediately

Ask if he is married.

If you get married, stay away from him, there are so many men in the world, there is no need to hang yourself from a tree.

If not, move on ...

Well, if he still loves you, you must tell him! Otherwise, I will really regret it! After all, it's really hard to be in love! Cherish Be Brave!

How do you look a little bit like the taste of **.

Be tolerant of each other's shortcomings.

The longer you love.

You will find more and more shortcomings on both sides.

And to go on for a long time, we must tolerate each other's shortcomings.

It's not uncommon to get bored.

I think you should sit down and think about what made you fall in love with him at the time.

Then you might as well love me too.

I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.

In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?

How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?

Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

Have fun!

Horoscopes don't mean anything.

I don't believe in horoscopes.

Since we walk together like a couple, you have to strive to be a real couple.

You take the initiative to ask him. Don't let your feelings stay over there, it will waste your youth.

Come on!! My situation is the same as yours.,I wanted to give up.,But I really can't let it go.,So now we're still very good friends.,There should be a possibility of development.。。 Until now, he and I don't want to give up.

So you must work hard to kill invincible opponents all over the world.

If you haven't tried something, you'll never know what the result will be.

So believe in horoscopes?

Your own path is walked by yourself, and it is useless for others to say anything. Let's be friends and get started!

Do you believe in horoscopes so much? ～～

If you like it, work hard!

Go your own way!

The heart goes with love

Just tell him that you like him, and if he doesn't say it, you're still friends! What's the benefit of dragging it out like this?