How to get a high school girl who doesn t love to study but wants to study in her heart

Cultivate more interest in learning, such as English, you can listen to English songs and watch English movies. Chinese, you can write ** or you have some interesting pictures in your heart of the short story, write a diary, look at the dictionary to know more words, if you write more fluently, the better the writing, the composition is OK, but also to help you understand the text, you can look at the ancient **, can help you understand some of the basics of classical Chinese. Mathematics, you can use it as a number game, start all the way through, slowly unravel the subject, don't think about those bad things when you encounter learning or things you are not interested in, you can compare it to what you like or a little two-dimensional, I don't like to learn either, but I know that knowledge changes people's fate, although I used to be very disdainful of this, but now I understand a little, since I was kicked from class one to class nine, I feel a little uncomfortable, all of a sudden from the top class praised by everyone into the garbage class that the teacher said, Although my grades are not that bad, hey I am also a little lucky, if I didn't get to Class 9, I wouldn't have realized what I really thought in my heart, I have seen a lot of unfair teachers, and I really hate them ......Forget it, it's far away.

Then pull it back, history, if you are interested in the history of Western countries, you can take a look, don't always remember what you hate, modern Chinese history is indeed boring, but you can check the history of ancient China, like Qin Shi Huang, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and the cruel criminal law for sinners, I personally prefer Qin Shi Huang and Wu Zetian. Politics, now is the era of peace, most of it is the law, respect for others, and the idea that everyone is equal or something, I don't think it matters, just memorize the key points and pass it. Chemistry, I've just learned it now, and I don't know how it is, hehe, I forgot to say it, I'm in the third year of junior high school, senior sister.

You can also cultivate some hobbies, such as singing, painting, participating in extracurricular activities, joining the hobby department or something, that is, the ** department, painting class or something. And try to relax as much as possible, maintain a happy mood, it will make you feel better, I hope it can help you, these are my personal experience, to ensure that it works. ^ω

If you go out to work and look for a job during the summer vacation, you will understand how important it is to study well in high school.

Almost the third year of high school? It's still the second year of high school, and it's not too late, many people in our class didn't start working hard until the third year of high school, although the ranking results can't jump thousands of miles or rise quickly, but if you stick to it seriously, you can make a lot of progress, so don't be too anxious.

I suggest that the child start with the subjects he is most willing to learn (except for physical education, of course), and that he be interested, motivated, patient, and effective, and that he can only devote himself to other subjects if he sees the hope.

There is also a difference in arts and sciences, I used to be a liberal arts student, I can only say about my own situation, comprehensive notes are very important, first of all: I feel a sense of accomplishment when I see the clear notes I have organized, because I am organized by myself, and it is easier to understand and memorize.

Second, the teacher's classes are relatively scattered, and the system will only be integrated until the beginning of the second round of review in the third year of high school.

There are also personal suggestions that it is better to start with multiple-choice questions, the multiple-choice questions are shorter, more clear, the big questions require patience, and they may start to do badly, and the multiple-choice questions cover a wide range of knowledge points, and it is easy to find loopholes.

Parents, in fact, in the early stage, you should moderately remind your child to pay attention to learning, don't force people to star, so that you can still play secretly in a place you can't see, the consequences are very serious, don't be too opposed to playing, can't relax and rest well, learning efficiency is very low, reading a book to doze off (personal experience).

In addition, it is best to take a back seat as long as you are responsible for taking care of the child's daily life, cooking some supper at night, washing some fruit, reminding the child to rest early, and then you will find that the child is getting more and more crazy. Panda eyes are normal (this is after 3 months or so).

In addition, confidence is very important, don't care about the ups and downs of grades, neither harsh nor overly comforting, let students think about what is going on, and give the child confidence moderately (after a certain Mu failed the monthly exam, a teacher sent a short message to Mu and said words of encouragement to me, I always remember it, next month's monthly exam was quite good, because the student will have a mentality to give back to those who believe in her).

Of course, some of them need to be created by the class school, for example, when everyone else is learning, everyone will have a sense of crisis, and they will let themselves learn better.

There is also an internal one, such as finding a goal, or the student himself realizes that he wants to write a plan or something, by the way, there is a college entrance examination song on the Internet, although it is a bit funny, but the content is very realistic, you might as well let the students see, for the third year of high school, for the college entrance examination, for their future studies have a bottom.

All the best.

by Shangmu Shadow.

Speaking of loving learning ... Few people really enjoy studying, especially in high school, where you have to do a lot of exercises.

Set goals for yourself and you'll be motivated.

It's late... Now there's only one and that's the ideal! See if he has any ideals ...

Find some inspirational films to watch, watch some inspirational stories, and when you go online, you can search for them by the way.

For inspirational stories, take a look at the Harvard students.

Inspirational films can be watched "God of Learning" and the like, there are a lot of them, go search for them.

It's really useful, but you have to make sure that your current environment must be positive, don't play with friends who smoke and drink, or anything like that, otherwise even your character will be worn out.

Oh, that's clear. It depends on whether I want to learn it or not. I don't like to learn, how can others do it?

I'm in a similar situation to you, I decided to start school and struggle, for my dreams, so that I don't have to endure hardships in the future, and now I will endure hardships, let's work together and think more about the future.

There is no way, there is no interest in learning、、、 only hard work 、、、

A child's lack of learning is not necessarily due to poor intelligence. Parents' incorrect attitude towards their children's learning, improper guidance of their children's learning, and bad learning attitudes and habits developed in the early years of the children themselves are all reasons. Among them, parents' incorrect attitudes towards their children's learning include expecting too much from them, not providing a proper learning environment, focusing only on test scores, wavy care, or even letting it go.

The bad learning attitudes and habits that children develop in their early years have the greatest impact on children's learning, because this will directly affect their acquired learning attitudes. Generally speaking, friction, dependence, luck and lack of perseverance are bad habits that parents should pay attention to to prevent their children from becoming addicted to these bad habits.

Other than that. An important reason why children do not like to study is because of poor grades, which makes them lose their confidence and interest in learning. To this end, the first task for parents is to find ways to motivate their children to learn. Motivation is need, and in the process of learning, children will have 3 needs, including interest, fulfillment and appreciation. When children have or even have their needs satisfied, they will develop a good feeling about learning and then gradually fall in love with learning.

When facing children who do not like to learn, parents should not take hasty methods, such as scolding, whipping, etc., so as not to be self-defeating and increase the child's aversion to learning. When faced with the problem that children do not like to learn, many parents always blame or scold their children first, without thinking about why their children are in such a situation, or to help them develop their interest in learning, which is a pity, because many children who can be cultivated the day after tomorrow have become a group of unmotivated people in such a situation.

Parents should give encouragement and rewards to their children from time to time. Children have three needs: interest, fulfillment and appreciation. When children have or even have their needs satisfied, they will develop a good feeling about learning and then gradually fall in love with learning.

Reward and punish clearly for children to understand and correct their mistakes. It should be emphasized that when children do not study well and do not like to learn, parents should not only grasp the scores, but also grasp the awareness, find the cause from the root, one person and one lock, and try to solve the child's problems. Exams are just an assessment of a child's level of learning, so don't be overly nervous even if it's not ideal.

Girls don't like to study, and the current social environment cannot be sentenced to death by life, and there are many social factors that can save them.

1Is this girl's family rich? If there are several mines in the family, if her parents are comparable to Ma Yun, then she does not have to worry about it in this life, and she should have no worries about food and clothing. can still find a man with both talents and looks as a husband, because now money can really make ghosts grind.

2Is this girl pretty? If you are born as beautiful as a fairy, even if the family has no money, it is possible to marry a good husband. Now it's not a saying that circulates :

It is better to learn well than to grow up, and it is better to marry well. Her talent is to grow up well, and it is possible to marry well. Even if you don't like to study, you can be rich and prosperous for a lifetime.

3 If this girl is not very wealthy, and her appearance is average, and she does not like to study, she should be able to get married, after all, it is now a situation where there are more wolves and less meat, and there is no woman who can't marry, only a man who can't marry a wife.

But girls who don't like to study will have a kind of regret, whether they are rich or poor, whether they are beautiful or ugly, they will not live their own lives, and life will not be too exciting.

Psychologists tell you what to do if your child doesn't like to learn?

Hello, there are cases of boredom in school, most of them are poor grades and lose interest in learning. Or the communication with classmates and the relationship with the teacher do not get along well, I don't know if this is the reason for you. Students are a process that everyone has to go through, an important stage of accumulating knowledge, and a necessary process for the future to go to society and work.

Knowledge can change fate, and knowledge is mainly obtained from school. Hopefully, you can find the root cause of your boredom. If your academic performance is poor, you must work hard to improve your academic performance, and you will naturally want to continue your education.

Girls can learn:

Major in urban rail, with a wide range of employment prospects.

Preschool education major, market demand is large.

Early childhood major, stable salary.

Major in Automotive Marketing.

High-paying industries for future employment.

Car Detailing Major.

Western food belongs to the technical industry, and China is now short of technical talents.

Learning to be a chef has always been good, and it doesn't matter if you have no foundation.

The key is that Western chef is still a high-paying profession, whether you want to find a job or open your own restaurant, learning Western food is very suitable, and there is no age limit for learning to be a chef.

Just convince your parents from the point of view that they are worried.

How to learn is also a question? It's better to learn to**! You can investigate it yourself first, generally it is better to go to school than to be an apprentice, because apprentices are mainly work-oriented, the master has little time to teach you, and you have little time to learn, so it is recommended that it is best to go to school.

Junior high school graduates and Western food enthusiasts who want to have attainments in the Western food industry, it is recommended to choose two years to study, Western food knowledge is more solid and broader, in youth, you should rely on your own hands to create your own world, can integrate and operate a Western restaurant level, with high entrepreneurial and management ability as the goal, graduates recommend employment.

Girls can learn pastries and the like if they don't study, and pastries are still very suitable for the present, easy to learn and easy to use.

It's better than going out to work.

You should find out why you don't like to study. For example, if you don't want to learn something because it is too difficult to keep up, if so, you should take it step by step and seek help from a teacher. Whether it's because you don't get along well with a certain teacher, or you feel that studying is useless, or you have other things that you can't stop, or because of physical reasons, etc., only by figuring out the most fundamental reasons and prescribing the right medicine can you solve the problem.

It's probably mobile phones and games that cause procrastination!

Girls are learning to do a good job now. Pastry division is an emerging and popular profession that has only emerged in recent years, and there are still relatively few domestic talents, and there are more positions. Moreover, pastry chefs are a profession dominated by female students, mainly for female students.

The work is also simple, generally designing cakes, staying in an air-conditioned room all day, exquisite and smoke-free, very suitable for girls to learn technology.

Combine work and rest.

High school children's thinking has been formed, it is very difficult to change, as parents now in addition to doing a good job of logistics, try to create a good learning environment for children, one or two exams can not explain the problem, parents do not worry, the test must be praised, try not to criticize, in praise of the child at the same time, you can point out the child's shortcomings and the direction of efforts, parents are the best teacher for the child, you can read some books together, the child has no place or place to pull the class, must find the teacher to make up for the class. Don't be biased. It is best to control the child's evening learning time at about 12 o'clock, in addition to completing the homework, be sure to review the course learned during the day, you can also preview tomorrow's course in advance, in fact, parents do not ask how tall the child is, as long as the child works hard, try his best to learn, it is enough, it is gold must always shine, 1, the habit of careful preview.

2. The habit of listening attentively.

3. The habit of timely review.

4. The habit of completing homework independently.

5. The habit of reflection after practice.

6. The habit of taking exams actively.