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Don't be impulsive.
Although he loves money very much, he is still your uncle.
Besides, it is impossible for you to change him, he has lived in this world for so long, has his own mode of thinking, and it is not easy to be changed, but in any case, you are also family, this is a fact that cannot be changed. Contact is contacted, what are you afraid of, it's not that you did anything to be sorry for him, it's that he did something wrong, and you're afraid of embarrassment? Even if there is embarrassment, it should be that he is embarrassed.
You can't be too upset, you have to persuade your mother. If your mother doesn't want to see him, you can do it all right.
Don't take him too seriously, there are many people you hate in the world, and you have to fight hard to get out of your own world, regardless of the possibility that you may always be worried about them. Come on! You don't have to feel sad or embarrassed in front of him, because it was his mistake, so why should you let yourself bear the fault of others?
Persuade your mother, don't worry about him, it's not her fault to tell her, why make yourself so sad.
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This can't be helped, it seems that every family really has a difficult scripture to read, it's really not a good thing to live too close sometimes, people like your uncle should treat him with hatred, otherwise he doesn't know the severity.
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Belch! Friend! We met again, the so-called encounter is fate, I will give you some advice here, I hope to help you and open your heart for your mother!
First of all, you have to care more about your mother, enlighten her more, and tell your mother that it's not worth it to be angry with that kind of person, and it's not necessary, it's not that you are uncomfortable when you are angry! Besides, he did that just to show off to you and show off his superiority, if you are angry, doesn't that make him even more complacent and self-righteous, in the face of him, we choose to ignore him, he has the money and capital to let him show off, we don't still live a very nourishing and happy life! As for the advice of my friend upstairs, I don't agree, if you really want to cure it, it's the best way to ignore it, no matter how he is, I still enjoy myself, wouldn't it be happy!
You tell me! To add, as juniors, we have to be more generous, generous, don't worry about him, do our part, do what we have to do, as long as we are worthy of our conscience! As an uncle, he has to have a little conscience, I think he will understand the disadvantages of his own approach! And arguing and preaching with him will not help at all!
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Seeing if there is anyone else in the family, try not to let your mother participate or not contact in dealing with the problems of your uncle's family, of course, it would be better if you could do a good job of psychological work for your mother, and tell her to deal with people like your uncle, ignoring his existence is the most advantageous counterattack.
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Don't get in touch, even if you have to meet, just like a passerby.
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Legal analysis: First, negotiate and settle, if a dispute occurs during the decoration process, the two parties should first communicate and negotiate. Second, refusal to pay for the renovation or stop the construction.
Third, file a complaint with a consumer association or other administrative department. Fourth, they can solve the problem through legal channels, go to the court to sue, and protect their rights and interests in accordance with the provisions of relevant laws.
Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China
Article 186:Where the personal rights and interests or property rights and interests of the other party are harmed due to a party's breach of contract, the injured party has the right to choose to request that it bear liability for breach of contract or tort liability.
Article 577:Where one of the parties fails to perform its contractual obligations or its performance does not conform to the agreement, it shall bear liability for breach of contract such as continuing to perform, taking remedial measures, or compensating for losses.
Article 583: Where one of the parties fails to perform its contractual obligations or the performance of its contractual obligations does not conform to the agreement, and the other party has other losses after performing the obligations or taking remedial measures, it shall compensate for the losses.
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Solve family house decoration disputes: 1. Negotiate with the operator to settle it; 2. The consumer requests the consumer association for mediation; 3. Appeal to the relevant administrative departments; 4. Submit to an arbitration institution for arbitration in accordance with the arbitration agreement reached with the operator; 5. File a lawsuit with the people's court. [Legal basis] "Residential Interior Decoration Management Measures" Article 34, decorators due to residential interior decoration activities encroach on public space, causing damage to public parts and facilities, by the urban real estate administrative departments to order corrections, caused losses, bear the liability for compensation in accordance with the law.
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Every year, there are countless reports of disputes about decoration, and cases that go to court and the news are not uncommon, but they are time-consuming and a waste of time! Face to faceRenovation disputesHow to deal with the side fierceness? How can owners protect their legitimate rights and interests?
See what we have to say!
1. Understand the dispute and find the legal basis.
1. Qualification requirements are different.
The qualification requirements for the decoration contractor are different between the contract and the construction contract. In general, the laws and regulations of the contract do not have qualification requirements for the contractor; However, the construction contract has mandatory requirements for the contractor's qualifications, and whether the contractor is qualified or not is related to the validity of the contract.
2. Accept the decoration results without acceptance.
The relevant contracting laws and regulations do not stipulate the consequences of accepting decoration and decoration results without acceptance; However, the judicial interpretation presumes that the consequences of accepting decoration and decoration results without acceptance are that they are qualified for acceptance.
3. The completion date is disputed.
The law does not have special provisions on the handling of disputes over the completion date of the contract; The construction contract shall be handled in accordance with Article 14 of the Judicial Interpretation.
4. The conditions for terminating the contract are different.
According to the law, the contractor of the contract has the right to terminate the contract and can terminate the contract at any time; However, in a construction contract, it is not allowed to terminate the contract at will unless there are conditions for termination as agreed by both parties or by law.
2. Take precautions to avoid disputes.
1. Choose a regular decoration company with a good reputation.
Before choosing a renovation company, you must do your homework, and you may wish to investigate which companies have a good reputation on the Internet. Generally speaking, choosing a formal renovation company with qualifications and reputation will reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble for the homeowner.
2. The area calculation should be accurate.
Before signing the contract, the area calculation must be accurate to prevent over-measurement or under-reporting. Otherwise, the statement of "subject to actual measurement" in the contract can give the decoration company a lot of room to play.
3. Read the budget carefully.
For the project ** or budget list provided by the renovation company, the consumer must carefully review it and attach it as an attachment to the contract. In addition, it is better to over-report than under-report projects. Because some items can be subtracted if they are not done, but if you suddenly add items, it will inevitably increase the overhead.
4. The payment method should be less payment and more installments as much as possible.
When signing the decoration contract, consumers should try to agree that the first payment is less and the balance is more, and it is best to pay as much as possible, so as not to fall into passivity when their rights and interests are infringed.
5. Don't change the established plan at will.
Consumers must fully communicate with the designer in the early stage of design, and do not change the established plan at will during the decoration process, because each change may mean paying an extra fee.
6. The text of the contract should be standardized.
Be sure to choose a standardized contract text, and be sure to write the **, engineering change, design, acceptance, warranty and preferential terms promised by the decoration company into the contract, so as to facilitate the protection of rights after the fact.
We will introduce so much about the relevant knowledge of decoration disputes, and hope that the introduction can help friends who are imaginary, and can also remind friends who are about to decorate to avoid these troubles.
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