She always avoided my topic of love, and I struggled to ask for help

Updated on amusement 2024-07-10
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There must be many stories behind introverted girls, so don't worry, brother. Since she is not in a relationship either, your chance is still reserved. Maybe you can start by understanding her inner story, if it's family factors or emotional trauma, it's hard to say.

    Learn to be a psychiatrist, right? If I really say it, you can help her untie the knot, and she is destined to be your wife in this life. Ha ha.

    Go for it. Happiness has to be earned by yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think she likes you, and if she doesn't like you, she'll say something more indifferent than that, maybe she thinks the time is not yet ripe, so she'll reject you first.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    To chase a woman is to be thick-skinned - Anyway, I remember a story, I have been confessing 99 times, Didn't the girl not agree, the 100th time to agree, to have perseverance,

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    He may not feel much for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is not difficult to see from the materials given by the landlord that the girl should not have any love experience and is a cold girl and a hot girl, for this kind of introverted and passive girl, Derpy feels that if the landlord wants to become a lover with the girl, he should take the initiative to express (empty talk is useless, you should put the expression in action, try to say as little as possible to avoid the woman's disgust), use the initiative to impress her, care about her and love her. As for the right time to confess to Derpy, I feel that it is inopportune, because the girl now only treats the landlord as a blue face, and the boy who is not a good impression now confesses that Derpy feels that it will only bring about another failure. To sum it up:

    1: It is recommended that the landlord confess in the future. 2:

    It is recommended that the landlord show the landlord's love in action. 3: Keep a proper distance, increase your own mystery, any girl with a strong sense of curiosity, only she will like people she is curious.

    I hope these can help the landlord, here Derpy wishes the landlord a lover to eventually become a family

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Uh......The landlord's situation is very similar to mine (ps: I'm the woman's one)、I'm a good friend from high school.、Now we're sophomores.、Still in the same class.、Tell you why I don't accept him.。

    First of all, he's not my type. He really can't give me what I want! Feel like your first love, always want to find one you like, have feelings,

    Then、It's normal to be happy to receive your gift、Girls、It's always nice to receive a gift。

    Again, the landlord chatted with her about ** (and I really want to think) problems, in a strange city, in a strange crowd, it is always good to have a friend of your own to chat with.

    Finally, if the landlord really likes ta, I suggest that the landlord continue to insist, girls are always easy to be moved, the landlord changes some of his personality, habits, etc., like ta's requirements to get closer!

    Finally, I wish the owner of the building a natural success and a successful attack!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I've seen this happen to others as well. But you have to remember that the desire for speed is not enough, in fact, every girl can't stand the boy's kindness to him at first, because they don't know if they are going to be for life, or they don't want to be with you ...... at allI think it's still necessary to follow the procedure... Good luck at the end...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Continue to be nice to her and play a little hooligan.

    She should be picking the better boys around her now, if you are very good, she will definitely choose you to make you her habit, and she can't get rid of it.

    But you also have to think about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It may be that there is something she can't say, you can ask her, ask her why she can't accept you, and if you can't be together, just give up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you meet her and ask her a few questions, you will understand what to do in the future.1 Have you ever been tempted by me?

    2 Do you want to love me or do you want to love?

    If the sister gently bites her lower lip and hesitates when answering this, it means that she doesn't dislike you, there may be other reasons, but before that, I hope you don't make a sudden confession, and play with her for a few days,。。

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think: you should confess so that you can know whether he likes you or not.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then try again and good luck.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Meeting and developing relationships is king.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Boiled frogs in warm water, if you really love someone, you must not be afraid of these, always accompany her, and speak out bravely.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Women shy away.

    Didn't call a spade a spade.

    There is a chance. Women are reserved.

    Men want to get away with it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Baby, I'm also that type of girl, if she rejects you, it means that she really doesn't want to talk, if you confess again, I think you really can't even be friends You know, generally such girls are very shy, you confessed for the second time, you didn't promise that you will always avoid you in the future, and even you are strangers from now on, even if you are still friends, there is no natural talk like now, she will unconsciously dodge you, find excuses to ignore you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think a girl has been rejecting you, proving that she has no heart for you, she has no love feelings for you at all, she has always maintained contact with you, maybe she is used to your existence, or used to relying on you, used to having a boy behind her back, in fact, I think the relationship should be direct, if she is really unwilling to accept you, the relationship can not be forced, then you can let it go generously. Of course, it is not excluded that she just wants to put up a frame for you to chase her, or that you have always been too good to her, and she is used to your existence and takes it for granted, then you can try to leave and continue to work hard.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It was almost the same as mine, but I didn't confess it to her, and later her sister told me that she had always liked me. Now I've missed it, and there's no way to get it back. With my experience, it should not be difficult for you to choose, I hope you can succeed, bless you!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Good luck, brother! She should have an inexplicable feeling for you! But after three years and so long, they haven't been together, and she also knows that you have been chasing her, which shows that there is no such feeling of calling between you! That's why I say good luck brothers!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Brother, don't get entangled, you still have to make a romantic confession directly, whether you succeed or not, at least you will feel much more comfortable after that.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let's confess once, this time to confess in person, let's be romantic, if you don't confess, you won't succeed, and if you confess, you may be able to succeed.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since you want to go to her and confess in person, then I don't have anything to suggest, but you should be mentally prepared to be rejected. Her previous attitude was already very clear, she just wanted to be a friend, then I don't think there was any need to get an answer, whether she likes you or not is her own thing, we can't speculate, loving her doesn't have to have her, of course, you have the courage and psychological preparation to confess bravely! I support you, but I failed, and I smiled indifferently and continued to be friends! Come on!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Set the relationship first--

    Be good friends.

    The rest is easy to say.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Screw on the wrong 3,000, and don't let go of one.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    What is Love? In fact, there is a person who you can say anything to him, you can let him see your ugliest appearance, you feel safe in front of him, feel that you can do anything, then this will be your favorite and closest person!

    If you love him, you still have to think about what to say or not, then naturally it is not really love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's better to think clearly before you speak, what will happen after you finish speaking, and if he cares about your past, then you can't say it, and if you care about his past, then don't ask.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Previous relationship history, personal matters, the shortcomings of the other party, I hope it will help you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There's nothing you can't say, and there's nothing you can just say.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you're serious, then don't cheat, that is, either don't talk, or tell the truth, and don't let the other person grab the pigtails later, which will affect your future path.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    。。。That's a good question... = =

    Shift your attention and focus on your studies, your work, your parents, your sisters (or brothers) keep your brain busy enough and don't have time to think about what you don't have

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't be tempted by anyone

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Don't pay too much attention to one person of the opposite sex.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why do you want to hide when you come, that's the way it is, in fact, in the process of finding true love, there will always be a lot of pain, don't be confused or retreat because of this, if it's really hurt, when your true love appears, it will help you heal, believe in yourself, work hard to love, and don't give yourself a chance to regret it, I wish you to find the favorite in your heart as soon as possible!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Don't deliberately dodge, just let it be.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Love, how to dodge. It should be faced. Choose happiness

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Let's face it, don't hide from anything.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Let me like you, but you have to start to regret I am not the person you think I am insignificant among others When every day you give me more love The more I am in pain You don't have the courage to face me You really don't want to hurt me Now what else can you say but say sorry Can you really love you my baby Sobbing myself Like a fool Why do you hate bright sunshine so much People who like the dark are insecure? I hate the sun and I am used to hiding in a dark place I will not tell anyone if someone recognizes me and asks me why I am sad and crying I will not tell him I hate this kind of life I hate such a lost self I am used to avoiding the sun like this I try desperately to run But there is always no place to hide I really want to forget you soon But no matter how hard I try In the end, it still doesn't help Reminiscing about the past Your smile The hands that once touched my face Tired of missing Thinking about you again When I am tired of talking and laughing in the crowd I want to forget you But the tears slipped but fell silently I want to avoid the sun's rays I ran desperately But why is the sun always on you and me I really want to forget you all But you can't be erased in my heart Friends think I've forgotten you But I'm about to break down myself I want to forget you I want to erase my memories But I can't do it I want to plunge deep into the flesh A needle A prick A prick The pain of sprinkling salt on the wound numbs yourself But your shadow will still linger Remembering dead love It's like still being together If tears can talk about you, then I'd rather cry like this all the time, even if the tears merge into the sea, I will choose to forget and continue to live well.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Don't dodge, words speak for themselves, it's better than two people getting hurt.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Maybe your subconscious thinks that you shouldn't or aren't fit for a relationship or have resistance.

    Love is a very natural and comfortable feeling.

    True love. Not a burden.

    So you don't have to worry.

    Maybe the love that belongs to you hasn't really come yet.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Psychological reasons You have to calm down and dissect your state of mind.

    College If you're in love once, it's really a waste.

    When you go out, you can't find the simplicity and sincerity of campus love.

    Don't leave your college life with regrets.

    But remember to choose a good person, you should know that after college, don't pay too much attention to a person's appearance, more should look at his cultivation and connotation.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Hehe, that's the person you really like hasn't shown up yet

    When you meet someone who makes your heart flutter, don't miss it Also... Well... I would still suggest you go and look at your orientation ... This one is also a problem.

    It's normal, it's normal in any orientation.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The saddest hurdle for people is their own hurdle, you have to open your heart, live a happy life, live a wonderful life, you can communicate more with classmates and friends, do some meaningful activities, you can also study more, and study what you like.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    A person's character, will is important! Practice your character and will! Live every day seriously!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I'm the same way, I'm 25 now, and I haven't had a boyfriend.

    It's definitely the kind of person who doesn't believe that he hasn't had a boyfriend.

    But character is avoidance.

    My own analysis of the reason may be related to the divorce of my parents in elementary school, and the psychology of people is really amazing.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Family problems, is it a family education problem, is it a potential impact.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Try to let go of yourself and regulate yourself. Don't be afraid of anything, trust your instincts.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    No. Maybe your parents put pressure on you, or maybe you don't care about this kind of problem because you focus on studying. Hehe.

    Don't get cranky!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It means that you haven't met someone you really like, or you haven't met someone you don't know, but this is less likely

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You can boldly love once, as long as you take this step, there will be no shadow in the future

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I'm like that too, there's nothing bad about it, I just like what I like.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Engrave a card on the back: Brother doesn't fall in love or Sister doesn't fall in love.

    Second: junior high school students are about 13-16 years old teenagers that is, adolescence During this time, they will be curious about the opposite sex and want to contact or understand the opposite sex and then slowly turn into love The so-called first love is about this age If you want to avoid it, first establish a concept that I am a student According to the current point of view, love is not good for each other, it affects academics, only disadvantages and no benefits, and secondly, there is no result, because you are still psychologically young and do not know how to fall in love The so-called love between each other does not last long.

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