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Anonymous users2024-02-13The most painful things come from feelings, and the happiest things also come from feelings, so you are in pain and happy right now. From your expression, it can be seen that you have a good impression of it, and you still approve of some of your behaviors, which shows that he has occupied a certain position in his mind. He's introverted, he's closed-minded, I wonder if you can analyze the reason.
If, as you say, he has been hurt and does not want to open the floodgates of love for a while, then I think he has not yet discovered true love, or he is also observing and thinking with knowledge, and you may be an important target. If you care about him and are afraid that he will reject you, you may want to talk to her a little (not too much), or find a reason (very well) to deliberately not contact him for a while to see how he behaves. If he cares about you too, then he should find a way to reach out to you.
There is a certain risk in doing so, and you are testing yourself as well as testing him).
But I think love has to stand the test, don't you think? I hope that a lover will eventually become a family.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12You test it and see how he reacts.
If you have feelings for him, it's best to take the initiative to tell him, you don't want to say it, and I can't help it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Like me, I think it would be easier for you to pierce this layer of window paper than it would be for him to climb a few mountains.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10I should like you, but I'm very reluctant to open my mouth, hoping that you can attack him to cater to him, and avoid the pain of rejection. Personally, I think if you like him, use the same method to "pay back", see what he feels, if he doesn't feel it, it means his cowardice and delay, don't do it, if he has something to say, then the love of men and women will eventually become a long-cherished wish, and they should cherish each other.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09I think that person is sincere to you, otherwise how could he look at you so infatuatedly and don't mind drinking your leftover milk Actually, I am an introvert and never confess directly in the face of emotions. I always feel embarrassed and embarrassed like that. Therefore, when I confess to others, I always like to use subtle or hazy words to express my inner feelings.
You might as well listen to the other person's words to see if there is any unspoken meaning or some mannerisms. Of course, if you attach great importance to this relationship, you can also implicitly confess it, [I wish you happiness].
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Psychologically, it refers to a kind of directivity in temperament, and people's speech, thinking and emotions often point to the inward as introversion, indicating that the excitatory process of the nervous system is dominant.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07Introverts are generally reluctant to take the initiative to communicate with others, unwilling to show their joys, sorrows and sorrows to others, and are more passive in doing things.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Truly introverts are reluctant to talk and have few friends around them.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Why the more introverted people are, the more powerful.
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You are a bit like me, I am still confused, I have always been very cheerful until junior high school, but after I got to social work, I feel that there is no direction, I don't plan my goals, because I have no goals, so I slowly become introverted, and I don't go to friends very much, I feel that I become introverted because of money, everything in this world requires money, it takes money to get together with friends, it takes money to go there, I think only money can make people cheerful. In general, introversion makes people less confident, they lose themselves, and they lose more. I think you should check out Napoleon Hill's book, maybe you can find the answer!
Introverts are generally very defensive, so while you take the initiative, you must disarm their defenses, you must be very friendly, let him (her) accept you psychologically, this is the first step to communicate with them; Then you have to obviously convey your attitude towards him (her) or the person you want to continue to communicate with him (her), because the reason why introverts have a defensive psychology is that many times because they don't know what the other party thinks in their hearts, so they don't easily take the initiative to express their hearts, so after removing the defense, after clearly revealing your own attitude, he (she) can reveal his (her) thoughts, and only by showing each other's thoughts is communication, isn't it?
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