The daughter in law marries two suites, why can t she give the brother in law a set to get married,

With the advent of the female era, the social status of women was revealed, and Xiaofang fell in love countless times, but often failed to end. When she came out of the shadows, she worked hard for her career, and finally got her own good love, and then soon entered the palace of marriage, but Xiaofang has a lot of income over the years, and has two houses under her name, after getting married, her mother-in-law has been careful about her daughter-in-law's house, and her mother-in-law persuaded her bitterly, but Xiaofang returned to her mother-in-law, why don't you buy a house by yourself, that is Xiaofang's house, but the good times don't last long, mother-in-law and his husband asked her for a house together, A quarrel ensued, and then they divorced. Although her mother-in-law persuaded her not to divorce many times, Xiaofang insisted on divorce and got rid of such a money-oriented family.

The daughter-in-law has two suites for marriage, why can't you give the brother-in-law a set to marry, a woman: the brother-in-law has hands and feet, and he is not my son, why should I give him a suite.

Because these two houses are the daughter-in-law's dowry, even after marriage, they belong to the daughter-in-law's personal property, and it is normal not to give them to the brother-in-law.

The woman said that I married only one person, not 2 people, and I have no obligation to give my brother-in-law a suite, and that my brother-in-law should be self-reliant

This woman said that this was given by her parents, and there was no reason for her brother-in-law to use it, and that her brother-in-law could earn money to buy it when she got married, so why should she use the house brought by her daughter-in-law, it was unreasonable.

I think this statement is wrong, because the daughter-in-law is not obliged to give her own house to the brother-in-law to marry, and the brother-in-law should obtain the property through her own efforts when she gets married.

You can borrow it, but it depends on whether the other party will pay it back, and it is best to sign an agreement to avoid tearing up when you get it. If it is lent out, the uncle has to take responsibility for maintaining the house and must be a good tenant.

It can be considered that the mother-in-law does not have much money on hand for the time being, and she can't afford to buy a new house, and the brother-in-law is also facing major life events, so you can consider temporarily lending it to the brother-in-law to live in it, and the relatives will help more.

In fact, such a mother-in-law should just want to be cheap, and she also takes a fancy to your property.

Look at the friendship, if the uncle has a very good relationship with your family, you don't need others to say that you are happy to give it away, but if it's just because your in-laws want to, then don't.

You shouldn't agree, the dowry house is your own property, say it's a family, but the house is not necessarily, and if your husband is biased towards you, it won't let you fall into a difficult situation, after all, this is the joint property of your husband and wife, if there is any contradiction after sending it out, it will be difficult to get it back.

Of course, you shouldn't agree, the house is not like clothes, you can give it away casually, many families can become a house slave for a lifetime because of buying a house, if you send it so easily, maybe people will not cherish it.

I don't have to agree, but if you sell it to your brother-in-law for a certain amount of money, I think it's more appropriate to do so, and he should take your favor, not for nothing. I don't think giving it for free will warm people's hearts, it will only make others lose their self-esteem and self-reliance.

Personally, I don't think you should agree, you shouldn't encourage this kind of behavior, your house is yours, your parents gave it to you, you shouldn't give it to your brother-in-law.

In this world, there is no parent who does not love their child. Wang Meng has felt since he was a child that his parents are very partial to his younger brother, in this family, if there is anything delicious and fun, his parents think of his younger brother first, even if his younger brother makes a mistake, his parents will still speak for his younger brother. Although Wang Meng has opinions about her parents, as a daughter and sister, she can only tolerate it.

Wang Meng thought that she would be very happy after getting married, but she felt that her mother-in-law was very partial to her sister-in-law. Wang Meng can only persuade himself that parents love their children. Before Wang Meng and her husband got married, her mother wanted a gift of 90,000 yuan, but her mother-in-law was unwilling to take so much, in fact, Wang Meng knew very well in her heart that her mother wanted to give this money to her younger brother.

The two families discussed for a long time, and finally the in-laws paid 60,000 yuan. The reason why Wang Meng felt that her mother-in-law was partial was because her mother-in-law bought a car for her sister-in-law, which was still very expensive. Wang Meng's husband was also uncomfortable, and he also felt that Wang Meng's mother-in-law was biased.

In the end, the two didn't want to live with their mother-in-law.

Before the two got married, Wang Meng's husband planned to buy a house, and his parents should have paid for it, but her mother-in-law did not agree, and said that it was better to live together, take care of each other, and help with housework. Wang Meng and her husband were very angry, they didn't have money to buy them a house, but they had money to buy a car for their sister-in-law. The mother-in-law knew that the two of them wanted to move out, but they still didn't want to.

But Wang Meng and her husband would rather pay rent than move out. However, she still did not move out because her mother-in-law said that she was not in good health and that she did not know what to do if there were no young people in the family. It didn't take long for the mother-in-law to take out 150,000 yuan, saying that she wanted to decorate the house, Wang Meng and her husband couldn't believe it, the mother-in-law was willing to spend money to decorate the house, but this house belonged to the mother-in-law, and she would decorate it if she was willing to decorate.

The mother-in-law also said that if she was gone, this house would definitely belong to Wang Meng and her husband, and she wanted the two of them to pay 100,000 yuan, because she had a son. Wang Meng disagreed at first, after all, it was not as suitable as buying a house, but her mother-in-law kept saying that she still took out 100,000 yuan.

Later, the sister-in-law was about to get married, and the mother-in-law wanted to give this house to the sister-in-law as a dowry. Wang Meng and her husband were very surprised, they didn't expect their mother-in-law to be so partial. The mother-in-law said that the sister-in-law was old and finally found a mother-in-law's house, but the two had no place to live.

Wang Meng and her husband refused Mother-in-law's request, because when this house was renovated, they also paid for it, how could they give it to their sister-in-law, such a mother-in-law was too greedy, which made Wang Meng feel incredible. Everyone is patriarchal, and this mother-in-law is patriarchal.

In life, the harmony of the family is inseparable from everyone's efforts, parents should be basically fair, Wang Meng's mother-in-law is too partial. She doesn't have the best things that a mother should do, which will cause family conflicts. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should respect each other when they get along, which is the most basic thing.

Besides, Wang Meng and her husband also paid for the decoration, why should they let the house out, so Wang Meng's approach is not wrong.

Before getting married, the relationship with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law was still very good. Although they are not so close, they are at peace with each other and there is no big contradiction. When my husband and I got married, my mother-in-law specially gave me a bride price of 100,000 yuan.

So since then, I have secretly vowed to treat my mother-in-law wholeheartedly in the future, even if I can't be a real mother, I will give him full respect to prevent the old man from catching a cold. So after getting married, I often buy things for my mother-in-law.

Daughter-in-law, sister-in-law has no place to live after divorce, give you 50,000 yuan, and give her a dowry room. "Personally, I think it's so rare to meet someone who loves each other and a reasonable mother-in-law. Probably a blessing from the previous life.

Later, my sister-in-law got married, and my mother-in-law lived with us. At first, my family was very happy, but after a long time, I found that my mother-in-law was a little verbose and very picky, but for the sake of harmony, I left with one eye open and one eye closed. It wasn't until a year later that my sister-in-law divorced, and then I learned that no matter how good my daughter-in-law was, she was still inferior to my daughter.

Because of domestic violence, my sister-in-law, who had just been married for one year, divorced in a fit of anger. The house is the man's pre-marital property. She had to leave the house cleanly.

Seeing that she was so pitiful, I took her in. At that time, my mother-in-law also came to me to talk about it, and I encouraged her to take it easy. My family is my sister-in-law's maiden family, and I can stay as long as I want.

This residence for half a year. For this, my mother-in-law and sister-in-law are very grateful to me and often give me fruits. Until one day, my mother-in-law suddenly came to me to discuss:

My daughter-in-law and my sister-in-law are divorced, and they are all in decline. She didn't have much of a deposit. It's not a way to put people on the fence all the time.

Your dowry is still empty. I have 50,000 here. Take it and transfer the house to him.

I was stunned. I thought my mother-in-law was joking, but she told me to take out the key with a serious face. She also said that my sister-in-law would live in my dowry room, so that she would not have to crowd into a small house, and she would have the confidence to marry again in the future.

I'm not stupid. My house is located in the heart of the city. It's not too big, but my parents bought it for me with all their savings.

It's worth millions anyway. It is definitely necessary for children to go to school in the future. My mother-in-law actually took 50,000 yuan to buy my school district house, which was really whimsical, so I rejected her:

My family is my sister-in-law's maiden family, and she can live as long as she wants, but I don't agree to the home visit and transfer. That's what I left for my son. "What do you think this time?

At this time, you should communicate and communicate with your husband in a timely manner. I hope that my husband can communicate with my mother-in-law. I hope my mother-in-law can understand herself.

No, because this is what you and your object are concealed, and the scum and property are not shared, if you are a dowry for your sister-in-law, then your common property such as Li does not belong to you, but to someone else.

In the face of such a mother-in-law, it is necessary to refuse the mother-in-law's request to refuse, and only by learning to refuse can you live a better life, especially in the face of a difficult mother-in-law.

I think my daughter-in-law must not listen to those old people at this time, and she must resist and not let her interests be damaged.

I think that if you belong to Fu Ming, don't let it go to others, otherwise she will bully you even more in the future, and the hall should sometimes show her own tough attitude.

The daughter-in-law should not give the 200,000 yuan from the dowry to the brother-in-law to buy a house. What does the brother-in-law have to do with his daughter-in-law buying a house?

Personally, I don't think that because this marriage is the joint property of your husband and wife, not your mother-in-law to your brother-in-law, your property has the right to dispose of it.

I think of course you shouldn't give money to your brother-in-law to buy a house, because the money from your daughter-in-law's dowry has nothing to do with your family.

No, and the daughter-in-law does not have any obligation to buy a house for the brother-in-law, and this will also increase the burden of life on the son and daughter-in-law, and it will also affect the harmony of the family.

If it's borrowed, that's fine. But if you want to send it, it depends on the relationship with the uncle. It is the duty of not sending you away, and you cannot morally kidnap others.

No. The brother-in-law has his own mother, and he doesn't need the sister-in-law to think about his real world, and he still depends on his family to buy a house.

No, the daughter-in-law's dowry was given to her by her parents, it is her personal property, and no one has the right to deprive it, and the brother-in-law has nothing to do with the daughter-in-law, so he should not buy a house.

I think it's okay, but this is not to give but to lend to the brother-in-law to buy a house, because the brother-in-law is also older, if he doesn't get married, it may be difficult to find a daughter-in-law in the future, at this time, if the family is rich, he can lend him money to buy a house, but be sure to play an IOU so that it is best to have a certificate.

No, the daughter-in-law has no obligation to help the brother-in-law, so she must not compromise, otherwise she will be wronged a lot.

I don't think so, since it's for you to dowry, I hope you take the money to start a new family, and those who have been married should focus on their own families, and you can help but not give them all, unless you really have too much money.

I think you should discuss it with your husband, and you should communicate with your mother-in-law, and tell your mother-in-law that this house is your property, and you are not willing to give this house to your brother-in-law.

In such a situation, first of all, she explained that she was not sold, and that the dowry was a guarantee for her parents' future.

Then you have to explain the reason to your mother-in-law, after all, if you want something, you have to get it through an effective way, and it's not right to do so.

said to the shameless mother-in-law, that's your son, not my son, do you want your eldest son to divorce? You're welcome to such a greedy mother-in-law

If you don't agree, you should make it clear that if you don't have the ability, you don't want to marry a daughter-in-law, and if you have the ability, you can buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law who said this kind of thing was directly looking for a draw.

How can it be a family?