My boyfriend and I love each other very much, but we don t have the same personality and always quar

Updated on psychology 2024-07-11
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You treat him, and you don't see him when he makes trouble again, it may take several times, and it is not good to be impulsive and lose his temper, if he doesn't change, even if this is his nature, he will not be happy with you and others. If you can't cure it, it's never too late.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Divide it, otherwise everyone will be unhappy, I have 2 pairs of friends like you by my side, 1 pair has already broken up, and the other 1 pair may be soon, they have been playing for 5 years, hey,,, it's not pouring cold water on you, really, long pain is better than short pain, and the pain now will be better in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Long and long is not as good as short pain, give up, give up maybe it will be more exciting!! Don't let the tragedy of not talking to strangers happen again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is also the case with my boyfriend, which also needs to be a rivalry, and it is a run-in stage.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    My boyfriend and I are the same, it's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, since you're fine when you don't quarrel, then you can communicate with him when you're not arguing, and talk about your problems.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This kind of love will come to an end one day.

    He can say the most hurtful things every day when he is impulsive, even if you are married, maybe he even feels like he wants to kill you when he is impulsive.

    Hehe. There is indeed such a fact.

    Being like him is irrational, and he can't control his emotions well.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Divide it tired and the type that will hit you will appear later.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I think that if you encounter this situation, then you should still think from the other party's perspective as much as possible, and you can't always have conflicts because of small things.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the face of such a situation, you should communicate well with the other party, and you should also let the other party understand what you mean, and you should also let the other party understand your mind. It is also necessary to carry out a certain amount of persuasion, so that the other party understands their attitude and position, and also learn to take a step back.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should give the right guidance, you should communicate with your boyfriend correctly, you should negotiate a solution together, and you should have the right interaction with the other person. The other party should also be given a step down.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can have a good talk with your boyfriend, you can tell your boyfriend about the grievances in your heart, and ask your boyfriend to tolerate you more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It should be possible to break up, and it is right for two people to quarrel, but every time the boyfriend is unwilling to tolerate himself, it proves that the boyfriend doesn't like him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. Dear, it's not appropriate, first of all, if you quarrel all the time, it will definitely affect the relationship, and if you quarrel once in a while, it will enhance the relationship, and what about personal advice, communicate more, because boys are single-celled creatures, so if you are unhappy, you can just tell him

    Is it inappropriate to quarrel with your boyfriend all the time?

    I think he will definitely say that he is wrong, as long as he tells her in a calm tone that he is unhappy

    I always think that he sees everything more than me, that I'm more sensitive, and that I'm very insecure.

    And a lot of times the opinions are different, I don't want him to do things, he just wants to do them, and he gets impatient and loses his temper when he talks too much.

    I know we're the same people, so let's say she doesn't give me a seat, and you ask her why she doesn't give me a seat, and she calmly says that the reason why you're fighting is because you're getting angry again and again, and he doesn't know anything

    This is the reason for the individual's temper, can you communicate with different opinions? If you can't communicate, it's a big problem

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Quarrels between couples, I think it's a normal thing, if the relationship is still there, there is no need to break up, in the continuous running-in, the personality can be changed, if two people are still in love, it is possible to be willing to make changes for each other.

    One, how to face the quarrel of two people? When two people refuse to make concessions, it will evolve into a quarrel, if it can be made clear that quarreling is a scourge that hurts the feelings of two people, they will definitely be able to control their emotions, and they will never quarrel.

    Self-righteousness, self-esteem is the root of quarrels, if you always look at the problem from the other party's point of view, always put the interests of the other party first, and always regard the health of the other party as more precious than your own life, then when the problem is **, even if there is a disagreement, you will make concessions accordingly, and you will not quarrel.

    On the basis of feelings, if two people are willing to change themselves for love, and when they have different opinions, they can give each other tolerance and understanding and even humility, and they will not quarrel.

    Ask yourself if you love each other or not? If you love, try to change yourself, touch the other person with love, give up if you don't love, don't hurt the person who loves you, or learn to respect and tolerate.

    Second, how to deal with quarrels? Actually, it doesn't matter if two people don't have compatible personalities. As long as one person laughs, the other makes trouble.

    One advances, one retreats. It's not a big problem for two people to tolerate each other. The key is to know how to be patient.

    To say forbearance does not mean that you can forgive him and accommodate him. But it's not that I'm succumbing to him and leaving him at his mercy. There must be a scale, two people have feelings but often quarrel, I think this kind of thing must be there...

    In other words, both people are optimistic about their personalities, but their personalities are complementary.

    Many people ask whether their parents' marriage is better or if it is better for similar people to be together, and I think it is the same person. There are fewer quarrels together, and because they are the same people, it is easy to understand. It is different, people are easy to quarrel and have conflicts when they get together, but because they are different, there will be attractive things, and a husband and wife with complementary families will develop more rapidly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Quarrels are inevitable, and so will my girlfriend and I.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's easy to break up.

    In love, if the number of quarrels increases. In the end, most of them ended up breaking up. Because both of them are very tired. If you feel too tired, you won't feel the urge to continue the relationship.

    So a breakup is a matter of time. Because these two people have incompatible personalities, it is also a very painful thing to be together. It's better to let go and find your own happiness.

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