How on earth can I settle the relationship

Actually, you don't have to worry who says it first! Whoever confesses first will do nothing! Let me ask you first, do you love him?

If you really love him, why should you care about it? What age is it? If you wait like this, you don't know how long it will be, if he doesn't say it all the time, then you won't be finished, will you be willing?

You'll regret it! I regret why I lost such a good relationship for the sake of these irrelevant thoughts! Lost a loved one!

You have to work hard for your own happiness, you should not wait, you have to take the initiative and give everything for your beloved, including such a small and insignificant self-esteem. Go for it! I'm sticking with you!

True love is to be earned by yourself, not by others, remember!

I think your heart is clear that you want to talk to him. Don't waste time, it's a text message anyway, so it should be a lot better without saying it face-to-face. My situation is similar to yours, but I'm more greedy, I want to be his girlfriend but I'm afraid that after confessing, he won't mean it, and he won't even be able to be a friend.

So I don't know what to do.

First of all, you have to find out whether he has feelings for you, and then you ask him to travel 3,, heh, so that you don't need to say that you will definitely get it You say your QQ,,I'll add you to chat,,Say it slowly,,I'm also in the same situation as you,,I'm a woman。

Don't be in a hurry! Maybe he has a certain arrangement in your heart! He's going to have some ideas and plans! Pay attention to the answer!

Falling in love is not a person's business, it involves the feelings of two people, for two people who have just confirmed their relationship, how to communicate correctly is very important, so how should two people interact after confirming the relationship?

The first point: the sense of ritual in love.

Boyfriends and girlfriends who have just confirmed their relationship can do something more ritualistic to deepen their bond with each other.

Like doing something at a fixed time. Some common behaviors usually include opening a couple's space, saying good night and good morning every day, and calling each other a ** every day, not too long, five minutes and ten minutes. Of course, you can also kiss each other's foreheads every time they meet, hug each other before parting, and so on.

The second point: the sense of complicity in love.

It's a great idea to give each other a unique nickname and to come up with a unique name that only the two of you know.

Such a corresponding title can be "big guy, small guy", or it can be a joke "big pig's trotters, small pig's trotters..."These nicknames may seem insignificant, but they are a good lubricant and bond for both parties, which will give the two people a sense of complicity with each other.

The third point: the sense of dependence in love.

The key to cultivating a sense of interdependence is to share each other's feelings. If you encounter any fun and funny things in life, you can share them with each other.

Now that the relationship has been determined, two people together should communicate sincerely, to communicate your love, follow your feelings, run in with each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, take a look at the following love talk 1, no matter how good a friend will become, time is the winner.

Talk about hypocritical friendships.

2. Sometimes it's just unwilling to tear up the hypocritical mask of friendship.

3. Friendship is not long-lasting.

4. Friendship is just someone who can play with you when you are young and go crazy with you.

5. Why friendship is thinner than spring ice.

6. The drama of friendship is over. You can roll.

7. If there is a problem with friendship, people will become very depressed!

8. A little friend's sincerity test revealed how many hypocritical friendships around me were.

9. Maybe one day our friendship will be turned into memories by time.

10. Hypocrisy and sincerity, a kind of ironic friendship set off by sincerity.

11. Hypocritical friendship is like your shadow; When you're in the sun, he'll follow closely, but as soon as you cross the shadows, it will leave you immediately.

12. The hypocrisy of them makes me feel no friendship at all.

13. Trust? Camaraderie? Help? Betray? The world is very ironic.

14. Now I know, the so-called friendship turned out to be such hypocrisy.

15. I thought our relationship would always be so good!

16. I also have a friend who I think is the best relationship with me.

17. I thank you for your contempt. Thank you very much.

18. I've thought too much about it, but I'm always reluctant.

19. I'd rather have your cruel indifference than that false promise.

20. I have fed the dog with sincerity.

21, I just don't have the life that people fall in love with at a glance.

22. I treat him as a friend, but he treats me as a duck egg!

23. The so-called friendship is just two boring people passing the time.

24. If you don't have any use value, who will be your friend, right?

25. Anyone who has been hurt by friendship is qualified to satirize the word friendship.

26. Deceitful friendship is a painful wound, and hypocritical sympathy is a sharp poisoned arrow.

27. A friend will only look for you when he needs you.

28. Friends are not forever, only interests are forever.

29. Friendship mixed with condiments. What a hypocrisy.

30. I don't want to wait, and I am reluctant to leave.

If you don't know how to get along after confessing, the sudden change in the relationship between two people will bring some embarrassment to each other, so how should you get along after the relationship is just confirmed?

1.Adapting to relationships.

From friends to lovers, this is a relationship change, of course, if you meet or introduce on a blind date, there may be no friendship period, so it is still a more technical thing to adapt to each other's relationship with each other, at this time, you need to have more contact with each other, chat to slowly get to know each other, and slowly let this relationship really determine.

2.Praise each other.

Of course, praise is an excellent habit of a person, so when getting along, you should often praise each other inadvertently, so that each other can recognize each other and appreciate each other.

3.Separate space.

Although they are in love when they are just together and have a sense of freshness with each other, they must not neglect to give each other some small personal space, so that each other can have their own space and respect each other.

If the two of you have now established a relationship, then the next mode of getting along is to often take him out to play, and then go to eat more with him, watch more movies and so on.

After the relationship is determined. Then just treat it with sincerity. People give to each other. Just cherish it.

Two people in love, after determining the relationship, should tolerate each other, because this is a matter of two people, tolerate each other, understand each other, support each other, and leave some space for each other.

When you have time, you have to be together. Understand and care for each other. to get along forever.

Lovers think about it, and they have to save some face for their lovers in this regard. Perhaps, there are some things that the man is more la-and-ra, and the woman is more meticulous in doing things, and the things that are required of the man may also increase. Therefore, the man does not have to dislike the woman for being verbose, after all, the woman is trying to slowly step into the role of wife.

And the woman, don't be too entangled in the details, there are not many careful men, be considerate of your lover. First: two people are intimate and independent.

In love, intimacy is important. Intimacy is important, but you can't ignore personal independence, everyone is first of all an individual, is an intimate lover, don't be attached to someone, don't rely too much, know how to enjoy your own life, have your own circle of friends, but can make them love you more. Two people are intimate and independent, this intimacy shortens the distance between you, so that you believe that the other person is your own one, and only this kind of getting along is the best.

Second: two people should respect each other. There are too many trivial things in life, and there is no right or wrong in many things, and in the worst case, you can maintain the bottom line of reason and not speak ill of each other.

Between two people, you still have to learn to respect each other, you give in, they back down, and this matter is over. Only knowing how to respect each other is a healthy way to get along in love, I hope you can understand. Third:

Two people have to be evenly matched. In a relationship, it is still necessary for two people to progress together in order to keep up with each other's pace, if one party goes too fast and the other party does not keep up, it is very likely to lose each other. Only when two people grow together, have their own unique opinions in their respective fields, and each have their own interests and hobbies, can such two people collide with new sparks, and only equal love can last.

If the relationship starts quickly, it means that you and she are attracted by the characteristics of the other party at a certain moment or the appearance and temperament of the other person, and hurriedly and unreservedly show their likes and loves.

As soon as the emotional love period is over, a series of problems such as contradictions and value gaps, personality gaps, and consumption views caused by insufficient understanding between the two parties will erupt in this period, and over time they will inevitably move towards separation.

At this time, you will say that some people just grow old from the beginning, and most of this situation is that two people grind each other and slowly become suitable for each other, which is a compromise of themselves and feelings. And the other type is that he happened to be so lucky, and he happened to meet the most suitable one among thousands of people, everything is so perfectly matched, but how much is this luck.

We can only wander for half a lifetime, constantly searching to find a relationship that will last a lifetime.

We are all independent angular individuals, and it is because of these edges and corners that the world is so varied and interesting, we can keep our shape, or we can grind them away for the sake of those we love.

Whether a relationship can last depends mainly on whether the three elements are present at the same time. One is to fall in love, the second is to be suitable, and the third is that the fate is deep enough.

If all three of the above aspects are met at the same time, then the relationship will last long, regardless of whether the relationship is fast or slow.

On the contrary, the root cause of a long-lasting relationship must be due to the unsatisfactory of one or more of the above-mentioned elements.

It's not because the relationship is determined too quickly.

Of course, more often than not, we do recommend trying not to settle on a relationship too quickly. It is necessary to meet more often, contact, understand, compare, and carefully evaluate whether both parties are suitable. After comprehensive consideration, the relationship is decided.

This is a more scientific approach.

However, determining whether a relationship is fast or slow is still only one of the many factors that affect whether a relationship lasts, and its impact is negligible, and it is by no means the decisive factor.

You don't have to be afraid of who you will miss out on because of it.

When a person is very anxious to confirm the relationship with you, let you acknowledge him, identify him, fall in love with him, or even marry him, you don't have to be afraid that if you don't agree, you will miss him forever.

A person who really likes you, he will not leave you just because you are a little slower.

When he really likes you, or even identifies you, he will only respect you very much, be willing to take your time with you, and then use his practical actions to let you see his sincerity, and finally really get your heart.

And a person who will only tell you that if you don't agree, then he will leave, he may not like you so much, and even say that he may not like you at all, he wants to solve the problem quickly, but he just has ulterior motives.

For a person like Limb Bridge, even if he really loses it, there is no pity, anyway, he can't give you a good relationship.

This girl is a bit of a problem in itself, and she can't use him as a spare tire like this.

"Spare tire", the original meaning refers to the car to prepare a spare tire, once the wheel puncture or problem, the spare tire is convenient and timely to replace, the car will not break down halfway. "Emotional spare tire" is to give yourself one or more backups in the fate of your feelings like a tire. "Emotional spare tire" generally refers to love, and there are also friendships, such as dinner spare tire, wine spare tire, squad leader spare tire, etc.

There is a kind of man in the world, knowing that it is impossible to be with her, knowing that she does not love herself, but still blindly treats her well, and the woman is willing to accept it, we call it "male spare tire". If only the man is wishful thinking, but the woman has clearly rejected him, and has not listed him as a candidate, nor does he use the man's feelings to help him do things, then this kind of boy cannot be called a spare tire.

The spare tire generally holds the mentality of "waiting", guarding his own wishful thinking, and waiting for the other party's change of mind. I understand that there is no chance at this stage, but I hope that she will know her good in the near future, and finally "a lover will eventually become a family". The spare tire never tires of its duties, and strives to play its functions such as filling in the time gap of the time gap, the porter, and the pipe receiver.

The spare tire fulfills all the obligations that a boyfriend should do, and even more and more. Uninformed people will think that the spare tire is her boyfriend, but when asked, she will be surprised and say that she and the spare tire are just "good friends". The others will soon wake up to the fact that the spare tire is actually just a spare tire, and of course, when the girl draws the line in a straight way, she will not pay attention to how uneasy and embarrassed the spare tire standing next to her is.