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It's easy to say, and it can be done in a moment.
But there shouldn't be many people who really do it for the rest of their lives!!
We all hope that we can do it, and there are many factors in the realization of society now, and sometimes it is not that we do not believe in ourselves and do not believe in love, but some irresistible reasons have to make us face the reality!!
I can't guarantee that I can do it myself, but I can only say that I will try my best to maintain my feelings!!
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Love needs to be cared for, but two people need to work together. Believe in love, believe in yourself, before you are hurt, you are so open-minded, after being hurt, you will be afraid, too painful, and dare not mention the wound. But many people say that time is the best medicine, and it will get better slowly, and yes, it will get better slowly.
So when you are together, you must love each other well, manage it well, and believe in love no matter what. There is always such a person in the world who will really never leave you.
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I believe I can do it.
As long as the other party is good to me.
Is there money.
Is there a house.
Is there a car?
I will stick with him until the end.
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There are many people who think about how good love is before they have love, but until they really have it, it seems that everything has become different, in fact, love is not only to believe in themselves, but also to believe in each other, only two people understand each other, trust each other, is true love.
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The most important thing is to believe in Him.
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This has to be mutual, and it depends on the individual, anyway, I'm the kind of person who wants to see others be good to me before I can be good to others.
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When you are a child, you will be insecure if you lack love, and when you grow up, you will not believe in love or marriage, and it will be difficult to fall in love with others in this case.
First: Perfect your personality first.
Love can be done by one's own nature, or it can be romantic, but in the face of marriage, we need to be a rational person.
So don't copy what you did when you were in love into your married life.
In marriage, you need to perfect each other's personalities.
If one person has a stubborn personality, the other person will learn to tolerate it at the right time, and even if they quarrel, they can reconcile in time;
One person is sensitive and fragile, the other person is thick-skinned, and going out will also make the other person feel a sufficient sense of security.
However, if the personalities of both parties are too similar, such as being more self-assertive, when dealing with contradictions or encountering problems, it is equivalent to missing a solution, or even-for-tat.
In intimate relationships, most of the people only see each other, not themselves.
Therefore, the sense of need is very high, and I can't extricate myself from negative emotions, accusations, and complaints, and I ignore the importance of doing my best.
If you want to better adapt to your new married life, you have to try to adjust yourself a little.
Although it is said that you should not lose yourself in marriage, you must also remember that in marriage, you cannot be stubborn about yourself. When you are in love, you will respond to each other's needs.
Because during the love period, all you see is the other party's advantages, and after the love is over, it is the process of accepting the other party's shortcomings, which needs to be tolerated.
Looking at the world, how can there be a perfect partner and a perfect marriage, some are just wise and foolish with one eye closed, with the calmness and calmness of the hills and valleys in the chest, and the ability to make trade-offs will balance the common ground while reserving differences, so that the marriage seems to be quiet and unharmed for many years.
We always marry the good of a person, and the truth is that we have to live with the bad of a person.
Second: Be sure to do it with love.
It's lucky to get married for love!
When you get into marriage, you will understand that if there is no love, you will live a miserable life.
If you think about it, two people who are not related by blood, whether male or female, want to establish a long-term and stable relationship, except through love, there seems to be no other way.
If the purpose of your marriage is to say that I don't love you in the first place, I got married when the time came.
At that time, I really didn't know if you delayed others, or if you hurt yourself.
Never marry for the sake of getting married, take responsibility for yourself and your marriage partner.
At any time, love should be the premise of marriage, don't enter marriage without love, otherwise when you meet love after getting married, you may be upset.
If it's not suitable, it's the best, there are no two people who are born right, they are two people running in and growing together, and you don't even want to run in if you don't pretend to be a big person.
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I still have a cautiously optimistic attitude towards marriage and love:1Believe in true love.
Sincere feelings and love still exist, but they are difficult to find and maintain in modern society. People now have more choices and a greater sense of self than ever before, but true love is still one of life's most precious experiences to discover and cherish. 2.
Marriage is more pragmatic. Modern marriage has become more pragmatic, and people marry more about the matching of life conditions and rational needs, rather than just emotional factors. This makes the marriage more stable and also leaves room for extramarital affairs, and the two need to be balanced in reality.
3.Greater sense of freedom. Modern people are more self-conscious, no longer automatically accept the restrictions of traditional marriage concepts, and pay more attention to personal freedom and development.
The pressure of life in modern society is increasing, and the pressure of busy work and survival is easy to disintegrate feelings and affect the quality of marriage. But the more the relationship and marriage are maintained in the face of adversity, the more prominent its value will be, which requires the joint efforts of both parties. 5.
The mindset needs to be calm. In the modern environment, marriage and relationships need to be faced with a calm mind. Neither too dx, nor too desperate, maintain positive confidence and open thinking.
Life has its own ups and downs, and relationships need to go through hardships and then mature, which needs to be experienced and dealt with with a calm attitude. So, in general, despite the complexity of the modern social environment, sincere feelings and stable marriage are still worth pursuing. It requires a more pragmatic attitude, a stronger sense of tolerance, and a more relaxed attitude to explore and face.
Under the right conditions, marriage and love are still important ways to achieve happiness in life and the meaning of life in Chunxunshan, and this will not change. The key is to have a correct understanding and reasonable expectations of relationships and marriages.
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