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Low-quality socialization is far less than high-quality solitude, and a person who likes to be alone can spend all his leisure time on improving himself. In life, we have carefully found that many excellent people around us have always liked to be alone, you can say that he is not sociable, but you have to admit that they are better than those who talk about friends. Maybe we outsiders seem to be very lonely, but they are not lonely, a person devotes himself to what he likes, studies hard, and lives exquisitely, just so that he can be like a commodity, and constantly improve his value.
People who work hard for themselves like this, can you say that they are lonely? They are the least lonely people. They are the best, worthy of our admiration.
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Ordinary people are afraid of loneliness, of walking alone on the road, of eating alone, and even more of what others think of them. People who can tolerate loneliness always strive to be transparent about their surroundings and people other than themselves, and do not care about what others think of them, and are not afraid of what others say about them. Go in the direction you like and live on your own stage.
The ability to exercise in such a mentality can play a greater role in the development of your future career. The view of not being in the unexpected world, endure loneliness alone. Such talents are truly strong.
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When I first joined the work, I didn't want to join the power war, I didn't want to take sides, and I was isolated by my colleagues in our group, to be honest, when they isolated me, I was frustrated, but it also ignited my fighting spirit, I had to let them know that their isolation had no effect on me, and then they saw that I was happier than them, and they were even more angry. In the end, the unit was reorganized, and I went to a happier group, so I didn't have to think about anything to fight for power, and my life was comfortable. Interestingly, after I left, the people in the previous group were very nice to me because they thought I was harmless.
But I know their ugly faces very well, so I don't have deep friendships. My experience has taught me that people have to have faith and ideas, and maybe they will get a short time by blindly going along with the pollution, but once this pool of sewage is restructured, you are definitely the one that everyone resists. Therefore, people must know their own integrity, have faith, and then look at friends who have no interests around them, if you are sure that you are okay, strengthen your heart.
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Being able to endure the loneliness of being isolated, I think this person must be strong, at least mentally able to resist pressure. The entry "isolation" in life, the most direct picture for us is loneliness and loneliness, most of them like to be alone, do not like to communicate with others, the sense of collective existence is also quite low, and even do not have many friends, often characterized as "alien" by people. But it seems to me that they are the real wise men, wise men in action.
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Those who can endure isolation must be extraordinary. can endure it, which shows that his spiritual strength is very strong. (Some people are isolated because they do evil, and their hearts are so stubborn that they can endure isolation are not discussed in this article, because they are not beneficial to people's growth.)
People are social gregarious beings, and the vast majority of them are willing to be consistent with others in order to gain a sense of belonging and interpersonal security. But there are always a few heroes and brave people, fearless and lonely, isolated and fearless.
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Personally, I think that such people are powerful, because even if the whole world is not with them, they will hold high the torch and move forward unswervingly to pursue the light of life. A person who can endure isolation is a person who transcends the ordinary, a person who has advanced consciousness, a person who has firm beliefs, and a person who is unswerving.
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I'm strong and not afraid of being isolated! When I go to school, I'm always isolated at work, and I love it! I am a woman who loves beauty a lot, my love for clothing makes me have almost no savings in my life, I like clothes that are not repeated every day, and in my own world, I don't care about other people's strange and jealous eyes!
In today's society, many people huddle together and integrate into a circle that does not belong to them, and I am not afraid of being isolated! The beasts are alone, and the sheep and cattle are herds! The more precious the animal, the more unique it is!
I enjoy the feeling of being isolated, being alone, away from right and wrong, away from gangs, which makes my life more exciting! There are people who come to my life and refuse to keep their distance because you are not good enough.
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People who isolate others are controlling, jealous and angry, and self-envy and inferiority.
1. The desire to control.
People who isolate others are reluctant to accept interdependence with others, and they prefer to be in control of the development of everything. They believe that by controlling and eliminating external interference, they can better grasp and influence others, and put themselves in a dominant position in the group.
2. Jealousy and anger.
People who isolate others may feel neglected or disrespected by others, and when faced with this situation, they will express their dissatisfaction and anger by isolating others. This behavior often stems from jealousy and resentment that others are doing better or more than they are.
3. Low self-esteem. Some people feel different from others because of their low self-esteem, and they try to isolate others as a result. It is a response they make in search of self-affirmation and unfrustration, and they want to make themselves more special and prominent by excluding others.
Isolate someone else's cultural background.
In some cultures, isolating others can be seen as a form of politeness. For example, in some Japanese companies, not having lunch with outsiders is considered part of the profession. As a result, the act of isolating others can sometimes be related to cultural context.
Whatever the reason, the act of isolating others has gone beyond normal social interactions, and it not only further reinforces an individual's feelings of loneliness, but also negatively affects the psyche of others. Therefore, we need to recognize the harmfulness of this kind of behavior and hope that everyone can cherish the interaction and interaction with each other.
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People who can tolerate loneliness are excellent people. It has been said that highly intelligent people like to be alone. Because all the results of high IQ behavior should be produced after careful consideration.
They don't take the initiative to socialize, in fact, it is right and reasonable to think carefully from their point of view.
Because in their eyes, a lot of social interaction is basically meaningless and ineffective socialization, except for just getting together to buffer loneliness, almost nothing can be accomplished, and no practical help can be done. Therefore, they will not socialize, let alone let others always use themselves, ask for themselves, and will not lead to a continuous outflow of talent and knowledge, and they themselves will not gain anything.
In addition, people with high IQ lack a certain amount of patience in communication due to their high IQ, so they can hardly always tolerate situations such as others not understanding or slow understanding, so they would rather walk fast on their own than walk steadily together.
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For some people, loneliness is a beauty difference.
Only when a person can he see the true appearance of this vast world, and he will experience the wonderful feeling of the unity of all things, do you say he needs to be patient? No, you don't.
I don't think loneliness is something to be ended with, at least partially.
Of course, if for a person who likes to be lively, loneliness is terrible.
For this kind of person, I think the inner strength is not enough to overcome his yearning for social interaction and community.
So, what you need is not to guess at the question, but to ask yourself what kind of person you really are.
Because, when you see your soul clearly, you will walk more casually on the road of life.
Walking at will, on the contrary, you can harvest your own hopes in life and obtain everything you desire.
There's nothing wrong with being alone, and there's nothing wrong with liking it or rejecting it, it's just a way of life, and if you feel that loneliness makes you feel good, then you don't have to put up with it.
If you feel that the loneliness is unbearable for you, you don't have to endure it, and it is also a good choice to meet more friends and lay out your own life.
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I think there are two kinds of people, one is to say that the one who can endure the pain is the special patient, if she is in pain, even if she has money or no money, she has to endure the torture of the pain, see those patients with cancer pain, face the risk of surgery, and at the same time have to undergo chemotherapy and the painful process of **.
The other is that the person who can endure loneliness is the elderly, if there is an old wife to accompany it, if it is okay, if the other half is gone, then he and she are very lonely, at this time, even if there is a child to accompany her spirit, it is also very lonely and lonely. I have seen a lot of old people who have lost their other half, looking particularly pitiful, their self-care ability is also poor, and they have to do what they want to do, if someone is by his side every day, then she will not seem so lonely, but the objective fact is that only patience can endure loneliness.
So whether it's illness or loneliness, it's unbearable.
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The vast majority of people are, because it can enhance their psychology and ability to deal with things! Whoever can endure loneliness will become king!
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Jealous, macho and feminist.
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Wicked people, who are not right-minded, stay away from them. I have seen two such people, and their daughters-in-law have commented on them like this, and they have failed in life.
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People who like to isolate others are not very healthy in their minds in general.
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Insecure and domineering people at the same time.
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If you have been lonely for a long time, you don't want too many people around you to come and go, and in the end, the few people who are identified by yourself will live like this.
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Knowing that what you gain is what you lose, that good things may not be able to accompany you forever, that disappointment and despair are close, and that they are never close to hope.
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Because a lot of people like to reuse relationships, a person won't be taken advantage of. And free.
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I'm afraid of being isolated.
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