In marriage, does a woman have a place in her husband s heart, and which manifestations do you know?

Marriage is like a mirror, it can reflect the true appearance of the relationship. If marriage is a pot of vegetables, then affection is the adjustment of married life; If marriage is a lily, then affection is the green leaf of the lily. In marriage, affection cannot be missing.

With love as a help, married life can be better managed. Rabindranath Tagore said: If you love her, let this love surround her like sunshine, and give him whatever he wants.

Life is long, and it can be a bright road, or it can be difficult. It is only because of love that the hearts of men and women can be twisted into a rope and withstand the challenges of the storm. In marriage, whether a woman has a high status in her husband's heart, just look at these 4 performances!

01 Does a man help with housework?

Most men have a patriarchal mindset and often think that all the affairs of the family are managed by women. But when a man really likes a woman, he will understand the hardships of women and will take the initiative to help women do housework when he has free time. It is precisely because of his deep love, because of his understanding, that women can have a relatively high influence in married life.

Conversely, a man who never does housework has a very high status as a woman in his heart.

02 Do men do things with women?

If a woman's influence in daily life is very high, then men will consult with beautiful women when they encounter problems. Although this is a very common performance, it fully reflects the concept of fairness. If it is in a family, women can't do anything, everything is done through the boys.

It was clear that no one in the married woman respected her advice.

03 Men are vivid and immobile and actively pay attention to women

The status of women depends on how much men actively pay attention to women at every turn. When a woman is uncomfortable, the man takes care of her; When a woman is unhappy, the man comforts her. When a man has such a major performance, it means that the importance of married women is still very good.

If a man only cares about himself every day and never actively pays attention to a woman, then the woman must be unhappy in her marriage.

04 Whether a boy will lose his temper with a woman

In fact, depending on whether a man will lose his temper with a woman, it is best to know a woman's influence in the family. If a woman has a high status, then the man will treat her very well, and even if he has a fire in his heart, he will not lose his temper with his own woman at home. But if a woman's status is low and a man is wronged outside, even if he has nothing to do with the woman at all, he will send all his liver fire to the woman after returning home.

Emotional message: Marriage is like a mirror, it can reflect the true appearance of feelings. Some true love is fake, some feelings lie a lot, and some love is beautiful and passionate.

If a man really loves a woman, then the status of such a woman must be unshakable in the man's heart, he pampers her, spoils her, respects her, and gives him the happiest thing in the world.

It depends on her husband's usual attitude towards her, for example, whether he will ask her opinion when he wants to decide something, and whether he will consult her about what to do when something happens at home.

In marriage, the husband is willing to report his whereabouts to his wife at any time, giving his wife a great sense of security, and at the same time keeping a distance from other women, and is usually willing to communicate with his wife in time to take the children to play. This kind of performance means that the wife has a place in the husband's heart.

In marriage, if a husband always cares about his wife's emotions and feelings, and two people can always choose to tolerate when they quarrel, then it means that the woman has a place in her husband's heart.

We all know that the economic foundation determines the all-round development of the person, and it seems difficult for people who understand the economic level of the family to speak, which reflects the necessity of the wallet. If a man gets married and puts himself in a wallet, it means that he has many restrictions on the use of money, and he may make fun of his brother, but he doesn't care, and he persistently maintains your security salary, which is not only your duty, but also your deep love. Because you love you, you want to have more of a sense of belonging, so you are more politically separate.

Sometimes you want to know how kind a man treats herself, and you can't see how good he is to you in general, and how he treats him when she is upset. If you're in a good mood, it's not easy for you to be too bad. You can worry about getting into that kind of argument, just like changing people, all kinds of front paws and paws.

If a man loves you deeply and deeply, he will not bully you during an argument, but will try to argue with you as little as possible. Even if he would say a few words sometimes, he would immediately bow to me. It's not for him to be true.

No, but he cherishes your emotions more, so I'm willing to be happy with you. This is not a humiliation. In turn, it is a kind of inclusion and love.

Every woman wants her man to become her own tree, to prevent the rain and the wind, and to make herself happy under the tree, but many men can't do this, causing a kind of inconvenience to the woman, but it adds wind and rain to the woman. Someone who truly loves you, serves you, loves you, and solves your problems. He does everything he can to develop his level so that he can have more assets to bring you pleasure, you just have to do it yourself.

I, this kind of man loves you very much.

In addition to the bits and pieces of rice and oil, there are also men's families, and men's parents get along very well. After all, it's also generations. The basic concepts of logical thinking and the way of behaving will be very different.

In addition to this, the mother-in-law is the nemesis. Disagreements will inevitably arise. A man who truly loves you and knows how to protect you in front of his family.

He knows that you are married to this family because this person is the only person you rely on. If he doesn't treat you well and doesn't protect you, then stay at home. It's hard to stand up.

1.See if there's anything that takes you to meet his friends and parents.

2.Will they be willing to spend money on you.

3.Will you think about your future?

4.Will I want to marry you.

For example, see if he has taken what you said to heart, whether he has taken the initiative to reject the women around him for you, and whether he has taken the initiative to report your itinerary to you.

Look at his attitude towards you when he gets angry. The performance of spending money on you can show whether he loves you or not, and whether you are important in his mind?

The nine major manifestations of the limbs are pure and have the history of Sun Kai early:

1.Think you've never been wrong, it's always you who is wrong.

2.I never admit my mistakes, and I feel that you are forced to make mistakes.

3.Don't explain, let you laugh at what you think about it.

4.He doesn't ask for forgiveness, he doesn't care if you love it.

5.When you quarrel with the Cold War, I know that you are crying, but I still can't coax you.

6.It was obvious that the two people had paid, but he only saw his own. Perpendicular type.

7.Treat family and friends as more important than you, regard work as very important, and only you are not important to him.

8.Your feelings are more important than yours, and you can only grieve yourself.

9.You never know how to tolerate, in front of him, you can only be mature, patient, and can only grow all the time.

01 When the mother-in-law leaks the relationship with the daughter-in-law, will he stand up to maintain you?

Before getting married, many women still think that married life is too simple. I think that as long as we are honest with each other, it will not be difficult to be intimate with each other and know each other in our future lives. But after they entered the marriage, they found that there were still many people between themselves and their husbands.

The most important one is her husband's mother, the old woman. Two women who are not related to each other and are separated by an era are in the same room, and they can't get close to each other overnight. No matter how perfect a woman is, it is inevitable that there will be disputes with her mother-in-law, which can also show how sincere a man is to you.

The man who loves you will always try to reason with his mother and do his best to maintain his wife's influence and self-esteem. He was willing to take all his mother's anger on himself. He also knows that his mother will always tolerate her son, but she will not forgive her daughter-in-law.

Therefore, when a wise man faces the competition between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he understands "protecting his wife". It will bear the anger of its mother alone and maintain the wife it loves deeply, which is enough to show its sincerity.

02 After a quarrel, is he willing to "lower his head" and coax you to be happy

Whether it is love or marriage, there will always be disputes. Arguments do not equal discord between husband and wife, just look at what men will do after an argument. That ignorant boy will be cold and violent with you after a quarrel, and use family cold violence to force you to tolerate and give in.

He said again and again that I love you, but what he was most concerned about was always the outcome of the dispute. But this man who loves you with all his heart will actively bow his head after the quarrel and try his best to make you happy. A bouquet of roses, a nondescript ridicule, as long as he is willing, these are all reasons for your forgiveness.

03 After the baby is born, is he willing to have the courage to take on part of the housework

The vast majority of marital conflicts also start from the period from the wife's pregnancy to childbirth. Especially when you have just given birth, women are physically weak, and taking care of children has to take care of housework, which is really unbearable. So what is your husband doing when we are at home with our tired bodies tidying up the housework?

This person is lying on the sofa watching TV series, and he will still actively help out. When you are at home during the holidays, will you actively clean up your housework and clean up?

If these boys don't do it, and they still prefer to throw the baby to you to take care of, and they are free and easy to socialize outside, then it means that you don't have much influence in his heart. When you meet a man, you don't just want to hear what he says to you when you're in love, but also see if he will settle for the next best thing after you give birth.

Emotional Message:Marriage is like a mirror, no matter how many hides there are when you fall in love, you will be here to make fun of the ugliness in front of the mirror. Every false affection and lie will be confirmed and exposed one by one.

If your current marriage belongs to the latter type, and you meet a good husband who wants to protect you, spoil you, and love you, then please cherish it. After all, not every woman can have the same good luck as you.

If a woman loves her husband very much, takes care of her husband very thoughtfully, repents of worshipping her husband in particular, and always affirms her husband, then in the mind of his wife's stupid front hall, his position is unusually high.

The way we get along, the way we express our language, our attitude towards each other, the way we speak, some of our communication and interaction with each other.

How high your status is in his heart, just look at his attitude when he is in "danger". If he is desperate to protect you, then in his eyes, you are more important than himself. See if he will hand over his monthly salary to you for safekeeping As the old saying goes:

Brothers, settle accounts.

1. He has never been wrong, it is you who is wrong;

2. He never admits his mistakes, and the mistakes he makes are all forced by you;

3. He doesn't explain, how do you think and think;

4. He doesn't ask for forgiveness, how do you love it;

5. Knowing that you are crying, he just doesn't care about you;

6, obviously the two people pay, he only sees himself;

7. Family and friends are the most important, work is the most important, only you are not important;

8. His mood is the most important, you can only grieve yourself;

9. If you don't know how to tolerate, you can only mature in front of him;

Many mothers see these 9 and say that they have all nine of them, which is what they experience when they get along with their husbands.

After getting married, there is no secret between two people, and they may not be able to fully accept each other's shortcomings, so they need a run-in period, and many people have not read this run-in period, and there are problems in the relationship between the two people.

In addition, after marriage, they face problems such as having children, getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, especially women face huge life changes before and after childbirth, huge changes in body hormone levels, and emotional instability, everything is a test of the marriage relationship. If both sides do not have enough problem-solving skills, insufficient communication, and insufficient mutual tolerance, conflicts are likely to accumulate more and more.

The change in one person's attitude towards another person, in the all-weather relationship, can not be hidden at all, and the husband's dissatisfaction with his wife, all kinds of indifference, has become a blunt knife and cold violence, which is difficult for women to accept.

Doesn't matter. I don't pay attention to any of your actions and behaviors.

Even when you tell him it's uncomfortable.

He still didn't care.

If you don't feel well, go to the hospital.

Or rather. Drink plenty of hot water.

Or rather, it's your hypocrisy.

Or just oh oh.

There's no place for it.