Is it because a woman is unhappy in her marriage because she is not ruthless enough?

It is indeed because he is not ruthless enough, he always has expectations for men, but he will be disappointed again and again, thus making his marriage unhappy.

I don't think it's the main reason, it's because the other half I chose at the beginning was not good enough and didn't see the quality of the other half, so I was unhappy in my marriage.

Of course, but it's not all, some women are not because they are not ruthless, but because they are powerless about their own life status and cannot do without each other, such as those who have been subjected to domestic violence. Some women don't divorce because they are weak, which is not ruthless, because they are often reluctant to have children.

A woman's biggest weakness is soft-heartedness. Once a woman is married, she is especially dedicated, sacrificing her time and energy to give it all to her husband and children, as well as to the family. Everything is built by her own hands and has paid a lot, even if the man betrays her and hurts her, he can't bear to leave, he can only endure humiliation, so women are unfortunate in marriage because they are not ruthless enough to cut through the mess quickly.

Personally, I don't think so, many times a woman is unhappy in marriage depends entirely on what kind of person she meets, and if she meets someone who doesn't love herself, she will definitely not be happy.

Right! The so-called women are not ruthless and their status is unstable. In marriage, you must have your own rules, don't blindly tolerate it, this will only make others think that you are a bully, and when you suddenly have something to insist on yourself, they will only think that you have changed.

<> "Unhappy Women in Marriage Have Characteristics.

Love to complain. There will be no normal communication, and complaining will only increase family conflicts, and the problem will not be solved.

I don't like to dress up. I usually don't pay attention to my personal image, I don't wear makeup or maintenance, and I become a yellow-faced woman.

Stay-at-home wife. Doing laundry, cooking, cleaning, taking care of children, being a full-time wife, and also a cheap nanny.

There is no Qi Zao work.

Economic status determines the status of the family, there is no job, no income, and there is no voice in the family.

There is no financial power.

Without financial power, what you say at home doesn't count, and it is more effective to manage money in your own hands than to manage a man.

Negligent body management.

A fat destroys everything, men are visual creatures, you don't like fat yourself, let alone men?

There is no circle of its own.

There is no circle of friends, there is no circle of communication and progress, and slowly living a family is everything.

Reach out to the people. Reaching out to ask for money to live a life, asking for money is low, and there is no confidence.

Sit down under. I want to choose my own high branches and dismantle them, and I don't dare to resist, and if I am angry, I will bear it by myself and become a support.

Not assertive. has no own opinions, obeys her husband and mother-in-law in everything, becomes a vassal of the family, and has no sense of participation.

I am too dependent on men, I am too sensitive in my heart, and I don't have an independent career.

If you don't care about yourself, don't give yourself an independent life, and don't treat yourself better, it's easy for such a woman not to believe.

Because there is no bottom line of one's own, no principles of one's own, and no independence at all, these three reasons basically make women unhappy in marriage.

In fact, some studies have shown that the factors that affect the relationship between husband and wife are, firstly, loyalty, secondly, sexuality, and thirdly, the distribution of housework.

The most terrible thing about getting married is that I once dreamed of marrying a man who spoiled me as my daughter, but when I got married, I found that my husband was the one who was spoiled by me, and I became a veritable new "bride".

In their eyes, a clean and tidy home is inherently tidy, clothes will be washed by themselves when they are put in the washing machine, and if there is nothing left at home, or they can't find it, they just need to scream at their wives. My daily tasks are to go to work, go home to eat, play with my mobile phone, and sleep.

Why is the general happiness of Chinese women low? The unfinished chores are actually the main reason.

Working hard during the day, and having a mountain of housework after work, who will be happy?

I once heard a sentence that the vast majority of Chinese women have to experience one or all of these four misfortunes in their lifetime: mother-style mate selection, nanny-style wife, widowed parenting, and widowhood marriage.

Among them, the two misfortunes of "mother-style mate selection" and "nanny-style wife" are caused by the fact that men never share the housework.

In fact, what marriage will become depends on you in the final analysis. After all, the husband is your choice, and the marriage is your own.

Women should not blindly wronged themselves, and should solve problems immediately when they arise.

Don't do all the housework by yourself and blame the other person for not doing anything.

Don't deprive the other party of his right to do housework just because he can't do housework, no one is born to do housework, you are not, and of course your husband is not.