Is Xia Huanhuan s treatment of Mi Tao bullying in Little Shede ?

Xia Huanhuan's treatment of Mi Tao in "Little Shede" is bullying.

Bullying refers to unequal bullying and oppression between people, which is not only physical in action, but also exists in verbal attacks, exclusion in interpersonal communication, ridicule and ridicule, etc., all of which belong to bullying, the most common is school bullying.

Although Xia Huanhuan did not beat Mi Tao himself, he encouraged others to isolate Mi Tao at school, squeeze out Mi Tao, and make Mi Tao isolated in the school. Mi Tao felt that she was isolated, and when she made overtures to Xia Huanhuan, Xia Huanhuan not only did not accept it, but also deliberately bumped into it, which was an obvious physical conflict. And in the face of Mi Tao's accusations, he still went his own way and didn't think he was wrong.

Therefore, Xia Huanhuan's treatment of Mi Tao is a manifestation of bullying.

School bullying is very common in life. It's important to recognize that it's not just physical fights, it's also physical injuries that are bullying. Verbally, the psychological damage is even more indelible.

Therefore, I hope that every school, parents, and students themselves can recognize the horror of bullying and refrain from doing anything to bully others.

Xia Huanhuan's behavior towards Mi Tao in "Little Shede" did not belong to bullying in the early stage, but the psychological imbalance between children. But the later behavior is indeed bullying, because she not only bullied Mi Tao herself, but also relied on her good popularity to unite with her classmates to isolate Mi Tao, causing damage to Mi Tao's soul.

Initially, Xia Huanhuan was affected by the family environment, and her parents did not demand too much of her academic performance, and devoted more energy to her talent training. Huanhuan's personality is lively and cheerful, very popular, teachers and classmates like her very much, and she was a child with a great sense of superiority at the beginning, belonging to the type of self-pride.

At first, she and Mi Tao didn't compare each other, so they naturally became good friends, but with the pressure of education, not only Xia Huanhuan was anxious, but her parents were also anxious. Excellent rice peaches will inevitably become someone else's child. is always compared and referenced, which makes Xia Huanhuan, who was proud at the beginning, unable to accept it, she feels that Mi Tao has snatched away the pride that should belong to her.

Therefore, there is bullying behavior later, but children may not be aware of it and need positive guidance from parents and teachers. Fortunately, her teacher in the play treats her very well and can always enlighten her positively.

Xia Huan's bullying and Yan Ziyou's frightening are not as good as Mi Tao's father's victim's guilt theory, which is chilling, and labeling himself and Peaches everywhere, everything is good for peaches. These words pierced the joyful heart like a thorn. After that, the little devil who lived in the heart of joy was completely released.

Xia Huan's bullying and Yan Ziyou's frightening are not as good as Mi Tao's father's victim's guilt theory, which is chilling

Huanhuan originally thought that her efforts would be encouraged by her parents, parents and teachers. Xia Huan's bullying and Yan Ziyou's frightening are not as good as Mi Tao's father's victim's guilt theory is chilling, but she doesn't think that she has won the first place, and her mother Nanmata doesn't seem to be satisfied.

It's understandable to be dissatisfied with the joyful mood. As a result, he finally won the first place, but he was ignored, and no matter who he replaced, he was somewhat dissatisfied. However, no matter how wronged she is, she should not vent her dissatisfaction on Mi Tao.

It is a fact that liking behavior is a form of school bullying. If Huanxi can immediately realize her mistake and take the initiative to apologize to Mi Tao, she is still a good child. But while there are mistakes in rejoicing, what's even more surprising is the guilt of Mi Tao's father's victims!

It's bullying. If Huanhuan just doesn't play with Mi Tao by herself, it is a child's jealousy, and it is understandable that her mother deliberately compares Mi Tao with herself.

But she's not, she doesn't allow others to play with Mi Tao, Mi Tao deliberately bumped into her when she showed goodwill, took over the teacher's task to target Mi Tao, and when Mi Tao said "You can't bully me" without being humble or arrogant, she still looked arrogant, and she didn't feel that she was wrong at all.

Belongs,This time I want to give Mi Tao a big thumbs up.,It seems that participating in cram schools.,English garden party,It's still a positive effect on her character.。

She immediately realized that she was isolated and bullied, and went home to inform her parents.

It's a pity that I would have set my heart on the bright moon, but the bright moon shines on the ditch.

Belongs, Mi Tao's father heard his daughter say that the so-called bullying is not to play with his daughter and not talk to her, so he immediately breathed a sigh of relief and said: Then you don't bother with him. She didn't think it was interesting, it wouldn't be like that.

Nan Li's approach is very bad for the baby's character building. Although Huanhuan originally had poor grades and didn't need to work, at least she had a good personality, and she was also a naïve and ignorant soft and cute Bai Fumei. In this way, her mind will become narrow-minded, and she will become another Tian Yulan when she grows up.

Mi Tao was angry: Why are you bullying me, it's because other people's parents help their own children!

I think the root cause of the breakdown of their relationship is because of their family background. Because Huanhuan's family is very rich, and Mi Tao's family has no money, Mi Tao has low self-esteem, so it is easy to have contradictions.

The fundamental reason is that the parents of the two families always talk about each other's advantages in front of their children and always belittle their own children, so the two children are hurt in their hearts.

Xia Huanhuan's treatment of Mi Tao is not bullying, because the two of them have different values, so there will be contradictions.

Forget it, it belongs to social violence in bullying, Xia Huanhuan doesn't let other classmates play with Mi Tao, and isolates Mi Tao together.

I think that Xia Huanhuan's treatment of Mi Tao is bullying, so I really feel very angry when I see this scene, I don't know why such a young girl has such a bad mind.

This is considered campus violence, but this is cold violence on campus, and being isolated and excluded by classmates will make the isolated person feel lonely and inferior, which will make the isolated person have a very serious psychological shadow.

It is considered school violence, because her behavior has caused a very bad mental and psychological impact on others.

No one in the play pointed out that this was bullying, and they didn't even mention the isolation of the group, and everyone downplayed the matter as "don't play with Mi Tao and don't be friends with Mi Tao", and Huanhuan apologized not to recognize that his behavior was wrong, but to keep the doll.

The cold violence on campus itself is not taken seriously by the society, coupled with the attitude of the characters in the play to downplay this behavior, many viewers don't realize that this is bullying, and even accuse Mi Tao of doing it first, so Huanhuan is very pitiful.

Calculate. Because isolating classmates will cause great psychological harm to classmates, and it is a kind of cold violence on campus.

I think that's school violence. To be more precise, students engaging in small groups to exclude and isolate their classmates is a kind of soft violence on campus.

Calculate. If you persuade other students to isolate your classmates together, even if it is school violence, it will also cause harm to the isolated classmates.

I think that isolating classmates is a kind of campus violence, specifically campus cold violence, because this method has the same effect as violence, and it will make the students' hearts and minds have a shadow.

Cold violence is also a kind of violence, which can cause the isolated person to have autism and low self-esteem, and damage the health of others.

In "Little Shede", Huanhuan is the princess who is held in the palm of her hand by Nan Li and Xia Junshan, she doesn't need to be sensible, she doesn't need to worry about money, she doesn't need to study hard, she just needs to live happily.

But Mi Tao is a Cinderella from a poor background, she not only needs to study hard to give back to her parents, but also worries about her livelihood every day, and she has to learn to be sensible.

Although there is a big gap between the rich and the poor between Mi Tao and Huanhuan, they are very good friends and often study and play together. I thought that Mi Tao and Huanhuan would be better forever, but I didn't expect that with the development of the plot, the friendship between the two had a crisis.

Mi Tao felt that the gap between herself and Huanhuan was too big, so she began to take the initiative to distance herself from Huanhuan. And Huanhuan also had a strong jealousy because Nan Li compared her with Mi Tao everywhere.

At the same time, in the latest plot, Huanhuan not only united with his classmates to isolate Mi Tao, but also pushed Mi Tao down, completely breaking Mi Tao's heart.

When Nan Li and Xia Junshan learned that Huanhuan deliberately targeted Mi Tao and united with their classmates to isolate Mi Tao, they were very disappointed with Huanhuan. Nan Li and Xia Junshan hope that Huanhuan will go to school the next day and take the initiative to apologize to Mi Tao.

Unexpectedly, Huanhuan not only thought that he had done nothing wrong, but also took this opportunity to express his dissatisfaction with Nan Li. In Huanhuan's opinion, Nan Li prefers Mi Tao, after all, Nan Li always praises Mi Tao in front of Huanhuan.

However, Nan Li did not take the initiative to praise Huanhuan. Even Xia Junshan's manuscript socks group, who have always loved Huanhuan, treated Mi Tao very well, ignoring Huanhuan's feelings.

So, Huanhuan began to be jealous of Mi Tao, united with his classmates to isolate Mi Tao, and even directly pushed Mi Tao down. Moreover, after Huan Hao went home, he also contradicted his parents, hoping that his parents would raise rice peaches.

Nan Li saw that Huanhuan had no intention of repenting, so she decided to confiscate all of Huanhuan's dolls, and even dragged Huanhuan to apologize to Mi Tao. Huanhuan didn't want her doll to be confiscated, so she promised Nan Li to apologize to Mi Tao.

Although Jian Ran Huanhuan apologized to Mi Tao, she was not reconciled at all, and she didn't feel that she had done wrong, so she just apologized and ran away.

And Nan Li saw that Mi Tao was in such a poor environment, and she was still studying hard and working for her parents. Mi Tao's excellence and sensibility made Nan Li begin to reflect on her own way of educating Huanhuan.

In Nan Li's opinion, she and Xia Junshan's education of Huanhuan was too loose, and they had always focused on Huanhuan's personal wishes, so that Huanhuan had developed a habit of laziness.

So, Nan Li began to educate Huanhuan in Tian Yulan's way, hoping that Huanhuan could be strict with herself. However, Xia Junshan did not agree with Nan Li's education method, he felt that Nan Li's education method had brought a lot of pressure to Huanhuan.

However, Nan Li thought that the reason why Huanhuan became what she is now was completely spoiled by Xia Junshan. The two had a fierce quarrel because of Huanhuan's education. Subsequently, Xia Junshan filed for divorce in a fit of anger.

In fact, this is the status quo of this society, and it is easy to have such contradictions between husband and wife and friends.

I think Nan Li is a little anxious for quick success, Xia Junshan is still more rational, more neutral in education, and knows what children need and how to educate.

I think this must be the parents' focus on their children, and there is no correct way to deal with it, the husband and wife can not understand each other well, can not tolerate each other, of course, Huanhuan's approach to Mi Tao is not right, parents should pay more attention to quality education.

Huanhuan was forced by Nan Li to apologize to Mi Tao, so I think Huanhuan still didn't realize her mistake, just to complete the task of apologizing, and then ran away, Huanhuan still insisted on her original idea in her heart.

realized, because her apology was quite sincere. And her apology is also very good.

Huanhuan faced her mother's questioning, she didn't realize her problem, but blindly thought that everything she did was an external factor, when Huanhuan was happy, she could be happy with others, and when she was unhappy, she isolated others, obviously a spoiled child.

I think that if I can apologize, I can still realize my mistake, otherwise she would not apologize

Isolating classmates is school violence.

What is school violence In daily life, I believe that many people have heard of school violence to a greater or lesser extent, but once it appears, it can have a serious impact on the psychology of students. School violence mainly includes physical violence and psychological violence. Among them, co-opting classmates and directly isolating Mi Tao is mental violence.

What is isolationIsolation is actually a kind of behavior, which is mainly to mentally hit the other party, exert pressure on the other party, and at the same time give him a kind of mental pressure through the exclusion of others. It has to be said that this kind of behavior is very bad and often brings more harm than physical violence. And some of Huanhuan's behaviors isolated Mi Tao, which is actually a particularly cruel situation.

After all, Mi Tao is still a minor, and her mind is not very mature. If he is isolated at this time, he is particularly vulnerable, which affects his overall physical and mental health.

What is this isolated behavior From my personal point of view, this isolated behavior is very serious, but some people have found that it does not belong to school violence, mainly because it is very difficult to obtain evidence. But this behavior does take a serious toll on our heroes.

In real life, there will be many such families, parents, children, and education methods. I think the drama "Little Shede" is very educational. Parents with children, I think everyone can go and see it, and they will definitely feel a lot.

In this play, most of them are veteran actors, and their acting skills are very good, which is amazing. If I have to say the best, I think Jiang Xin's acting skills really moved me. Because she has never been a mother, I think it's amazing to be able to interpret her mother with such an image.

Especially the scene of her crying, which often infects me. I like her performance very much, she is real and not pretentious, vivid and does not lose depth, and she is a very powerful actor.