The story of Shede, what story does Little Shede tell?

After years of preparation, he began his journey. Since he wanted to take all the credit to himself, he decided to go his own way. He started to climb, but it was starting to get a little late.

However, instead of stopping to prepare his camping tent, he continued to climb upwards. Until it was pitch black and the climber couldn't see anything. The night on the mountain was particularly dark, because the moon and stars were just obscured by the clouds.

Even so, he kept moving upward. Just a few feet from the top of the mountain, he slipped and fell. He kept falling, and in this extremely terrifying moment, his life, whether good or bad, kept coming to his mind one by one.

When he thought wholeheartedly, this was the very moment when death was approaching him so quickly. Suddenly, he felt the rope around his waist pull him heavily. He was hung in mid-air...

At this point, he had no choice but to cry out, "O God! Help me!!!

Suddenly, a deep voice from heaven said, "What do you want me to do?" ”

Oh, God! Help me!!! ”

Do you really believe I can save you? ”

Of course I do!! ”

Then cut the rope that binds you around your waist. ”

After a brief silence, the climber decided to continue struggling to hold on to the life-saving rope ...... his handThe next day, search and rescue teams found the body of a mountaineer frozen stiff. His body hung from a rope, and his hands clung to the rope, barely ten feet from the ground.

Much, think to yourself, for example.

If you want to be rich, you have to work.

If you want to eat delicious food, you have to pay money, or go hunting yourself.

If you want your parents to like you, you have to be well-behaved.

Recently, starring Song Jia, Tong Dawei, Jiang Xin, and Li Jiahang, Zhang Guoli specially starred in the TV series "Little Shede", which was officially announced to be broadcast on Dragon TV's ** file on April 11. The play mainly tells the story of Nanli, Xia Junshan and their daughters Xia Huanhuan, Xia Chaochao, Tian Yulan, Yan Peng and son Yan Ziyou and other families around the children's elementary stage, which deeply reflects the different treatment of ordinary Chinese families in children's education. This TV series can be said to be very close to our lives, and it is a true portrayal of the education of children from ordinary families.

Synopsis. Huanhuan's mother, Nan Li, was very anxious about Huanhuan's declining grades, and thought that it was very necessary to enroll her child in cram school, so Huanhuan embarked on the arduous road of tutoring. And the whole family was involved in a lot of things, and finally the couple realized that it was more important to give Huanhuan a happy childhood.

Nan Li's classmate Tian Yulan became suspicious because she was pregnant with her second child, and she was very distrustful of her husband. Therefore, the relationship between the husband and wife is very poor, so Tian Yulan puts the focus of her life on her son Yan Ziyou, which causes Yan Ziyou to often feel too much pressure on himself and often plays an unbalanced role in important competitions. Zhang Xueer, as the homeroom teacher of Huanhuan and Yan Ziyou, often volunteered to tutor the children, but was later reported, and she left the school in discouragement.

Through these people and events, this drama is well connected, fully showing the current situation of contemporary Chinese children's education.

Children's education cannot be neglected, but children's feelings need to be considered.

The things told in this play are all very realistic, and the two families show different opinions on the education of their children. The family pays attention to the quality education of children, but neglects the learning of children's cultural classes. The other mainly focuses on children's cultural education, and wants children to get high scores in prestigious schools.

Both families pay attention to the cultivation of their children, but the focus is different, but they both make the same mistake, that is, they do not consider the feelings of the children at all, and just arrange the children's lives according to their own ideas.

It is said that a long, long time ago, there was a flood in the hometown of a rich man, and the poor people were finally rescued because they had nothing to bring with them. But the rich man filled his whole body with gold and silver treasures, struggled in the water and cried for help to a small boat in the distance. The people in the boat shouted at him and told him to throw away the belongings he was carrying so that he could not sink for a while, so as to buy time for others to row to save him.

But this miser could not afford to throw away his gold and silver treasures. As a result, he finally drowned. If he can give up the heavy burdens on his body, what he will get is life.

So, the Buddha sighed and said: If you are willing to give up, you can only get if you give up.

A story is a story, although there is no way to verify the authenticity, but the story itself tells us a truth about "willingness", "Zuo Biography".

There is a saying: "If you start with this, you will end with this." That is to say, if you choose a certain point of a person or a thing, you will have to bear the chain reaction brought about by your choice, choose a person's wisdom to accommodate his cunning, choose to slow down a person's courage to accommodate his violence, choose, give up, nothing more than to really know what you want?

But how many people in the red world have not lost themselves alive? Willing, willing, what is it? How?

The world is composed of yin and yang, and living in the world is nothing more than the repetition of giving and taking. Giving up is not only a philosophy of life, but also an art of being a person. Giving and giving are like water and fire, heaven and earth.

It is the same, it is a contradiction that is both opposing and unified, everything is in the giving, in fact, I understand two words: giving. Only when you truly understand and comprehend it, you will also know the simple truth: "Don't be reluctant, give up the small and give the big and give the big" This simple truth.

Giving up is a kind of spirit; Giving up is a kind of comprehension; Giving up is a kind of wisdom and a state of life.

A short story of giving and giving.

Once, a French newspaper conducted a quiz with prizes, in which there was such a topic:

If the Louvre, the largest museum in France, is on fire and the situation only allows one painting to be saved, which one do you save? Many people say they want to save Leonardo da Vinci's heirloom ---Mona Lisa. As a result, among the thousands, the famous writer Bert, who occupies an important place in the history of French cinema, won the gold medal.

His simplicity is "I saved the painting closest to the exit".

Tips:1. The best goal for success is not the one that is most valuable, but the one that is most likely to be achieved. If the goal is not clear, no matter how hard you try, it will be in vain. If you want to succeed, you must work hard, but if you work hard, you will not necessarily succeed.

2 On the road of life, what to give up and what to choose, Senjian is an art in the final analysis. Sometimes, giving up is beautiful.

3 Those who are able to dispose of money at will are not the happiest people, but those who are happy are those who are able to control themselves.

4 Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to transcend! That's life.

There is no small story about Guan Shede.

If you want to read it online, read this one:

I can't find the story of Shede, that's it, but it's very far-fetched:

Some time ago, I read Ni Shuqing's comrade-in-arms's "Three Realms of Willingness", and my comrades-in-arms analyzed the three realms of willingness. First, there is a give-and-take, and if you want to get, you must first give, which is a purposeful and conditional giving; The second is to give up their own gains and losses to do their own things, as for the gains and losses are determined by heaven, not to be disturbed by the world's eye evaluation! Abandon the heart of gain and loss, so that the body and mind can be freed; The third realm is the complacent that welcomes and accepts, the depression that is lost, the ability to perceive gains and losses but not control them.

As the saying goes, not to be happy with things, not to be sad about yourself, probably this is the realm!

I think most people are in the first realm, right? Like myself. I'm a layman, a vulgar person!

I knew I was the one who could never let go! If a person has never had it, he probably won't be able to experience the heart-rending pain of passing, how happy it is when he gets it, how painful it is when he loses, and even doubles the pain! So much so that sometimes I think, since I have gained and is destined to lose, what is the meaning of gaining?

There was a moment when I really wished I had never gotten it!

But in life, there will always be something to get intentionally or unintentionally, and maybe those gains are part of your life. It's like the sunlight that shines into your eyes at dawn, and when you see it, it naturally belongs to you. In this world, what you see, hear, feel, whether it is joy or pain, all belong to you, and you can't refuse!

If there is no common person's heart of gain and loss, perhaps the world will also lose its color! If I can really let go of everything in this world, I will not have the courage and strength to survive! When I saw others struggling in pain between gains and losses, I would even search the cave to persuade them to let go!

It seems ironic to persuade the world to let go because you can't bear the pain you can't let go, right?

Even if you can't pick it up and put it down, it's because you can't do it that you persuade yourself to get closer to the ideal free space. Let yourself try your best to manage positive energy, don't lose your mind in thinking about gains and losses, have less heart of gains and losses, and gain a little ......freedom between gains and losses

Willing to be willing to be willing to be willing to be willing, these two words should be literally understood as having to give! For example, your salary is set on a monthly basis, then it should be calculated according to 30 days a month, that is, to catch up with 31 days, you give a day in vain, I went to work on the 14th of July, and it was 18 days at the end of the month, and as a result, the expenses were calculated according to 17 days! Just give a day in vain!

It doesn't matter, there is also the August Festival, and in accordance with the relevant provisions of the Labor Law on October 1, it should be double pay, but it is not! At the construction site, no one performs! I started work from July 14th to November 10th, which is 120 days in terms of days!

Because July is big, August is big, September is small, and October is big! During this period, catch up with the three big moons! 18 + 31 + 30 + 31 + 10 = 120 days!

I dedicated three days of volunteer labor! During this period, I took a seven-day break because of something! Also earned four days!

These four days are worth the Double Festival! Equal to two-way balance! So there's no loss!

Ha ha! Someone said, "Suffering is a blessing!"

The salary in this project is not high compared to elsewhere! Because the epidemic has been delayed for several months! Which bureau will work in mid-July this year!

It doesn't matter how much you earn, it's more important than anything else that you can work! It is more important than anything else that people can live in good health! "There is a give-and-take! , willing to give! "Everything is opposites and unity, and it is balanced by yin and yang! "If anyone owes you, heaven will pay you back! Let it be! Let it all be! As the saying goes:

It's hard to find a foot in life! There are some things you want but you can't, and some things you don't ask for but come to you! That's fate!

Everything, people and things are determined by "fate"! Your subjective mind can't decide! Give up everything, and you will get all the grinding birds!

Fate comes and goes, fate is like water! Cherish all people and things determined by fate! "There is a give-and-take!

Look down on everything! Drop it all! Live easily and naturally!

Love is in the fragrance of ink! On November 8, 2020, Jixian Welfare Tun! 23:06!

A few days ago, the leader asked Xiao Jia to tear down a piece of the old office and bring it to my new office.

When it comes to calligraphy, I'm a complete layman and don't know anything about it. In this painting, I can recognize the two big characters "Shede" in the middle. The two columns of small characters on both sides are cursive, dragon flying and phoenix dancing, I can't recognize a few at all. On the red seal, it is engraved with seal characters, and I don't recognize it.

The text panel was framed in reddish-brown wood, and the paper wrapped around the corners was still there. When I was in the old shop, I didn't really notice where the painting was hanging. Maybe the old store area is too big!

Xiao Jia leaned the text against the wall, and I said, "Is this word a little discolored?" You see, the color of the word "de" is obviously much lighter than the word "she"!

Xiao Jia said: Hey, it's really true!

Why don't we find a pen and ink to describe the word "de"?! It's just two big characters, the color is not the same, it's ugly! Hang it up after you have drawn it. Xiao Xie on the side also came over to see it, so he suggested.

I said, "Yes!" It's not good to look at it like this. But let's describe it, I'm afraid that the original charm of the word will be changed, and it will be even more ugly! Forget it, let's leave it as it is!

The text panel hung on the wall like that. I looked at it every day, and slowly I got used to it.

Yesterday, the boss came back from out of town, paced me and stood there with his hands behind his back to read the letter. I told him that I and Xiao Jia and Xiao Xie wanted to use pen and ink to describe the word "De", and the boss couldn't cry or laugh: Thank you for not depicting it, or you will really destroy this character!

He said that the true meaning of this painting lies in this: to be willing to give, and to give to have to give. Small reluctance, big reluctance, reluctance.

We must always attach more importance to "giving" and "gain" to light. This character fully illustrates this point, and the word "she" is deliberately written in thick and colorful, and the word "de" is much more understated. This person, sooner or later, you must remember that giving up will always be greater than "gain" and more important than "gain"!

This is true for being a person, and it is also true for doing business!

I woke up and was enlightened, and suddenly I realized that I was ashamed and ashamed! Thanks to the fact that I didn't depict the word "de", otherwise, it would be as simple as destroying more than just a word.

Send the boss away, look at the words again, and reminisce about the boss's words, and have a special taste in my heart. When I see Xiao Jia and Xiao Xie, I must tell them the meaning of the word "willingness" from the boss.

When I said the word "willing", I remembered the joke I made on the day Xiao Jia sent the word. He said that the leader gave him a ** call and said that he would let him bring the word "willing" from the old store to the new store. He didn't understand it for a while, and thought to himself:

What is this "willing son"? Why haven't I seen it in the old store? It took a while to understand the meaning:

Oh, it turned out to be the word "willing"!