Falling in love with a woman who is five years older than oneself, will that end well?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-14
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Age has nothing to do with love, I know someone has found a lady who is more than a decade older than him, and the two are still living happily.

    What I suggest you seriously consider is whether you are looking for her just because she is more supple and considerate, and easy to get along with.

    Falling in love is fighting for each other, marriage is interdependent, this relationship determines that people who cannot tolerate each other may not be able to go to the end, so the starting point is the most important, you don't fall in love with her just because she is a good person, because often people can't tell the difference between friendship and love. The difference is that love can have results, while friendship never has results.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Age is not a problem, but it depends on whether you are sincere. And it's going to be a lot of trouble.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There will be. Don't think so, age? What age are they? It's not fair to him or her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love knows no boundaries, and if you both truly love each other, you will feel that you are the happiest people in the world. That's the good thing for you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, the most important thing is that you really love each other. Height is not a distance, age is not an issue. Have faith in your future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, believe in yourself, but it's better not to be involved in other things, if not, I'm too talkative

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nothing either. Age is not an issue.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, as long as you truly love each other, age is not an issue.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There must be, but as long as you believe in love, don't care about everything.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now as long as there is love, age is not a problem, there are many things like this in reality, fate! Believe in true love! Everything will be fine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's possible, why can't it? As long as you have feelings for her, it's fine.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As long as you feel that you are happy, as long as you have the possibility of being together, there is nothing to say about good or bad results, things are man-made, and people will win the day!

    Got it???

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    From your question, it can be seen that you have begun to hesitate, it is also a good thing for the other party to separate early, she who is divorced and has children, can not be hurt again, what she needs is a mature man who can strengthen his beliefs and be determined to be together who loves her and loves her children! You are still young, and you have not yet understood it, so you have to take on such a responsibility, I suggest that you forget it, now is just the beginning, and there are problems that you can't expect and can't solve. If she hides her actual age, previous marriages and even a child in order to be with you.

    Then I suggest you leave her, at least she's dishonest. Honesty is the essence of human beings.

    Secondly: the woman has a daughter, this parenting problem must be faced, you ask yourself if you can really accept it in your heart? Can you really treat her as if she were your own child?

    Is this answer deep down in your heart? Again: Marriage is a matter of two families, have you consulted your family?

    What is the attitude of your parents. If there is a chorus of opposition, how will you handle the relationship?

    I have a female friend 83 years, divorced for many years, has a daughter, beautiful figure is also good, she went out to travel last year and met a man, is in the same city as a fitness coach, 94 years, sunny and handsome, they soon got together, friends wholeheartedly into this relationship, this fitness coach at the beginning was also enthusiastic about my friend, did not spend my friend's money, give us the feeling that they may come together, friends seem young, they walk together very well, get along for half a year after the conflict comes out.

    Young man, you are still too young. Facing a woman who is 11 years older than you, married, and has children, you are too young, whether it is age, experience, or emotion, you are not on the same level as the other party, so when she starts with lies and deception, you can not extricate yourself from knowing each other for only one month. The authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear.

    What would you think if you were to step out of the circle and it happened to your friend?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it will come to fruition, because this child is a stumbling block between you and the woman.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There will be results. Because love knows no age, if you really love each other, this age is not a problem at all.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Of course there will be results, as long as you can tolerate her and accept everything from her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There will be results, don't worry, love boldly, don't be timid, happiness is to work your own.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It won't work out, if it's just a divorce, it's okay, but now there is a child, and this child may be the estrangement between you, and I suggest you really don't go on.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no absolute answer, and everyone is different. A boy falls in love with a woman who is five years older than him and has children, there may be a lot of "noise" from the outside world, including blessings and opposition, the key is to depend on what the person concerned does, if the man and the woman love each other enough, even if there are big difficulties ahead, they will carry it over, and there will be good results.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, there will be results, as long as you are good to her child, good to her, and warm her with your love, she will definitely live with you with all her heart.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A man marries a man who is older than himself.

    For a woman of four or five years old, this does require a certain amount of courage, because it will be questioned by those around you. After all, most Chinese still don't recognize that women are bigger than men.

    But whether it is good or not, we really have to start from ourselves. My opinion is that if the two have a good relationship, they don't have to care about the age difference at all. Older women will have relatively stronger experience and life experience, which may make you live very comfortably, and you don't have to worry too much about life.

    For example, French Prime Minister Emmanuel Macron married a mother-level wife and was her teacher, and as a result, he had a brilliant political future.

    So, if it's true love, let it go, even if it's big.

    It doesn't hurt to be four or five years old.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    First of all, it depends on whether the woman is married for the second time, with or without children, if she is still the first marriage, five years older, a woman will become an older mother when she reaches the age of 35, and the risk is very high, if the man has a child, he doesn't care about the child, he just needs to find a companion, then it doesn't hurt to be five years older!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think everything in the world has to be divided into two to see, some people think that marrying a woman older than themselves is not good for fear of being laughed at by others, I think the age of marrying a woman is not the most important, the most important thing should be whether you really like her, if so, then you do it regardless of what others say.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    In today's society, age is no longer a generation gap, if you want to marry a woman who is five years older than yourself, as long as you live happily, other people's gossip is a cloud of the past for you, and you feel good about it, it is really good.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    As long as you love a woman who is 5 years apart, it doesn't matter, and the woman is also experienced and more sensible, which is good.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you really like each other and love each other, the difference in age doesn't mean anything.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not good, because if you ask that, it means that you are not firm yourself, so how can you resist external pressure.

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