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What is the reason why the woman has lived in her mother's house with her child for nearly half a year? If it is the man's reason or at least the man's reason, then the man can not do it, he has been at fault for half a year and has ignored it, making it clear that he has no feelings for you and the child.

But if it's entirely because of the woman's own reasons, the man may be a little dead-hearted, and if the woman doesn't want to divorce, take the initiative to communicate with the man as soon as possible.

Ask your husband why this is happening. Analyze it calmly. Is there something wrong with you?

Under normal circumstances, it may be that the treatment of her in-laws is not good, which makes her life unsatisfactory. Or the two generations cannot agree on the issue of children's education, it is difficult to communicate, and they are reluctant to go back to their in-laws' house for the sake of their children's education.

The meaning of mother's house:1. A married woman calls her parents' home.

2. Refers to the place where you have worked, studied or lived.

3. Refers to the origin or basis of things.

4. The place you trust the most, the place where you can be unreasonable.

The wife has been living in her mother's house with her children for a long time to see what the situation is: 1. The parents of the mother's family are old and have no siblings to take care of; 2 There are people on her mother's side who she cares about and can't let go of (lovers); 3. Not being valued in the in-law's family or not getting along well with the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; 4 The relationship between husband and wife is not getting along, or she does not feel your love for her. Only by finding out the cause can we find a solution, and I hope you can solve this problem as soon as possible.

My wife has lived in her mother's house for a long time to get used to what kind of life of her mother, and she feels strange about living in her mother-in-law's house at the beginning, afraid of doing something wrong, and afraid of her mother-in-law's irresponsible remarks, so she often lives in her mother's house. The daughter-in-law and her husband should take care of it a little more, and they will get used to it slowly after a long time.

The place where she was born and raised must be comfortable in her mother's house. But in a few years, when the child is older, he will get used to his in-law's house, and he will slowly become his own home, alas, he doesn't want to live in his mother's house for a day.

If there is no conflict between husband and wife, it is the same to live **. If there are always contradictions, then always live in your mother's house, which is not good. If there is a conflict, it will be resolved as soon as possible, and the relationship between the husband and wife will be diluted after a long time.

No matter who you are, understand each other and humble each other. If it's because of the awkwardness of the parents, I think the parents should be less involved in the things between the younger couple, and they will be persuaded for the better. Just let them live their lives well.

It's still uncomfortable to live in my mother-in-law's house, because only my own mother will really feel sorry for my children, even if my mother will nag it, it is out of concern, so I prefer to stay in my mother's house.

In this case, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally not good, or you are often away from home.

Because you didn't come to the door to ask her to come back, she couldn't get off the stage. You came to the door in person and came back.

The in-laws are depressed, and the mother-in-law is at ease.

You may feel more convenient in your own home.

The woman took the child back to her parents' house for half a month, but during this period, the mother-in-law did not go to the woman's mother's house to see the children once, and the woman should feel very angry about this matter. After all, there is a blood relationship between the child and the mother-in-law, and if the mother-in-law has never come to see the child, it can only prove that the mother-in-law is a relatively careless person. The reason why many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts arise in life now is mainly because the daughter-in-law's ideas are too picky, and she always picks the bones in the egg.

No matter what her mother-in-law does, she will feel that her mother is the person who loves her the most. <>

In real life, there are many women who choose to take their children back to their parents' homes with their husbands in a fit of anger after a quarrel, in order to want their husbands to be able to correct their mistakes. After returning to her mother's house, she found that no one from her mother-in-law's family went to the woman's house, so she asked the woman to go home, which would make the woman feel a little embarrassed. In fact, as a woman, having such unreasonable behavior will only hurt the feelings of the husband and wife.

If there is a conflict between the husband and wife, you must solve it yourself at home, and don't go back to your parents' house if you have nothing to do. <>

When women return to their parents' homes, they always like to complain about some of the things they encounter to their mothers. And my mother will use the experience of the past to persuade young people to live well, and my mother will hope that everything must be passable. After all, there are many men who have machismo, and every couple who quarrels with each other is at fault with each other.

The woman's parents will not favor either party, but in order to make their daughter happier, they will directly let her daughter go back to her in-law's house earlier. <>

As the man's parents, if they know that their son and daughter-in-law have quarrels, they can't interfere too much. Because once the father-in-law and mother-in-law intervene in the matter between the son and the daughter-in-law, it will only lead to the quarrel between the young couple becoming more and more serious. Because when many women quarrel with their husbands, they will transfer the conflict to their parents-in-law, regardless of whether their parents-in-law are wrong or not, women will always pick out a lot of reason.

It can be seen from this that your mother-in-law really doesn't care much about you and your children, of course you should be angry, but in addition to being angry, you should find a way to solve this problem.

I don't think I should be angry; I think this situation is normal, there is no need to be angry, since you have returned to your own home, it will be much more reassuring to have your mother to take care of the other party, there is no need to come along.

I don't think you should be angry, you should communicate more with your mother-in-law, communicate more, maybe because you care too much, so you will mind, but you should also consider the problem from the other person's point of view.

Summary. Such situations need to be well communicated. The first thing to do is to clarify the reason for your mother-in-law's concern or reluctance, such as her concern that her grandson or granddaughter will not fit in away from home, or that she is worried that you are busy at your mother's house and not taking care of the affairs of the house.

You can try to communicate openly and honestly with your mother-in-law, understand her position, and bring up your own ideas and needs in the discussion. At the same time, you can also try to seek the assistance of your family and share some responsibilities in housework and childcare to ease the burden on your mother-in-law. Finally, you can also try to make a plan to address your mother-in-law's concerns, such as going home regularly to visit your family, scheduling your time wisely, etc.

Through mutual communication and understanding, it may be possible to find a solution that is acceptable to all.

Such situations need to be well communicated. First of all, it is important to clarify the reasons why your mother-in-law is worried or unlucky, such as whether she is worried that her grandson or granddaughter will not fit in when she leaves the house, or that she is worried that you are busy at your mother's house and are not taking care of the family. You can try to communicate openly and honestly with your mother-in-law, understand her position, and bring up your own ideas and needs in the discussion.

You can also try to seek the help of your family and share some responsibilities in housework and childcare to ease the burden on your mother-in-law. Finally, you can also try to make a plan to address your mother-in-law's concerns, such as going home regularly to visit your family, scheduling your time wisely, etc. Through mutual communication and understanding, it may be possible to find a solution that is acceptable to all.

Can you elaborate on that a little bit more?

This question needs more details, such as the reason why you are bringing the child back to live with your parents, the reason why your mother-in-law is against it, and the relationship between you. In general, the best way to solve this problem is to communicate. You can explain to your mother-in-law why you are bringing the child back to her parents' house, listen to her objections, and try to find a solution that satisfies both parties, after all, the child is also your shared responsibility.

If your relationship is not very good, try asking a family member or a friend to be a mediator to negotiate a solution.