What happened to the people who have lived with their in laws for many years?

Some people are obedient and angry with their in-laws, but they still have to swallow their anger. Some people's in-laws know well, so they get along well like a family.

In the end, they were basically divorced. Because the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are under the same roof, there will be more and more conflicts between them, which leads to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife in the end.

They generally end up doing very well, the family is very harmonious, with their in-laws helping them to take care of the children and tidy up the housework, they can work more smoothly and smoothly, and the family lives happier.

I think they will part ways in the end, because there is too much age difference between the in-laws and the younger couple and there is too much generation gap, so getting along together will definitely produce more conflicts and affect the feelings between each other.

If a person with a good personality gets along with his in-laws very happily after many years, it is like a family, and if he has a bad temper, the more conflicts will occur the longer the time passes.

Originally, the family conditions were not bad, but after living together, they were nurtured by their parents-in-law and did not dare to spend money, and they buckled the rope. Cosmetics have changed from imported to domestic, clothes have changed from shopping malls to **, and grocery shopping has changed from organic vegetables in supermarkets to roadside stalls, which is difficult to describe ......in a word

It's not good to live with your in-laws for many years.

It should be very harmonious to be able to live together for many years, and the previous years have been run-in, and the mode of getting along has been established.

has become an enemy in their eyes.

I don't accept living with my parents-in-law.

It is undeniable that a good father-in-law will be of great help to our small family. They can help us with the children, do housework, and even help us with our laundry. Young people are lazy and don't like to cook, so if we have parents around, we can at least be guaranteed three meals a day.

For young people who have to go to work during the day, parents do all of this, which can save us a lot of energy.

However, we have to understand that in addition to being parents-in-law, they are first and foremost the parents of their husbands. Husbands and wives may sometimes quarrel and quarrel before, and if the man is wronged, no matter how good the parents-in-law are, it will be uncomfortable to see it. And if you live together, there are many things between husband and wife that have to take care of their parents, and if they can't communicate well, it will also affect the relationship between husband and wife.

Therefore, I think it is best for Li Yeshen to have a bowl of soup with his parents, and he can live in a community or even across the door, but not under one roof. Living closely, our parents and we can have our own private space and take care of each other.

1. In the long run, living with the in-laws, contradictions are unavoidable, and the in-laws may not say anything if they have just married Zheng, but after a long time, there will definitely be friction, plus after giving birth, the two generations have different parenting concepts, you want to let the child like this, and the mother-in-law wants to let the child be like that, then, quarrels must be rare.

2. Look up and don't look down, it will be very inconvenient to live together, this inconvenience covers the privacy of husband and wife, and the daughter-in-law also hates "mother-in-law comes in directly without knocking on the door", this situation is really embarrassing, although the mother-in-law said that they are all a family, don't see outside, don't be embarrassed, but your heart is diaphragm.

3. Living with his in-laws, a man's sense of responsibility will become smaller and smaller, if you let him take care of the child, he may be the shopkeeper and directly leave the child to his grandparents next to his friends, and even the housework will be done by his parents, and he doesn't worry about anything. Such a man, frankly speaking, will not care too much about the whole family, children, and wife, and will always rely on others when encountering problems, just like a child who will never grow up.

Daughter-in-law: The reason why I don't want to live with my in-laws is that my mother-in-law is too strong.

Xiaohui has been married for two years, and when she got married in the first year, her husband couldn't afford to buy a house, so she lived with her in-laws for a year, 365 days a year.

Xiaohui always felt that her mother-in-law was targeting herself, because of a little thing, she didn't do what her mother-in-law wanted, and her mother-in-law came to accuse, so she told her husband that she would have a child two years later, and the most important thing at present was to save some money to buy a house first, because she married and lived with her in-laws, and she was really tired, and her father-in-law was better, but her mother-in-law was not a fuel-efficient lamp.

My mother-in-law used to do a small business in the vegetable market, she was shrewd and strong, and she took care of all the big and small things in the family, so as to show her status in this family and be the real hostess of this family.

Xiaohui and her husband, as juniors, are sometimes unaccustomed to her approach, and will complain and complain a few words, but the mother-in-law can't allow others to speak, and immediately interrupts you, saying that you are stubborn, and firmly that she is right, and also educates Xiaohui as a person who has come over, saying that if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, you are still too young, and you will not consider the things comprehensively, and when I speak in the future, you will listen.

People have tempers, Xiaohui swallowed her anger and suppressed her temper for more than a year, she was afraid that she would tear her face if she continued to live with her in-laws, so during the New Year, she discussed with her husband and said that you also paid a year-end bonus, plus my salary, we can buy a house with a down payment, it doesn't matter if the house is small, even if it is a one-bedroom apartment, I don't complain, because I really don't want to live with my in-laws.

In this way, Xiaohui and her husband moved out, and on the day they moved out, Xiaohui was very relaxed.

It's a complicated question.

If you can accept it, that's fine. After all, there is so much social pressure now, if both parties are single, then it is normal to live with their parents after marriage, and for parents, they also want their children to be able to start a family.

However, if you can't accept it, then think carefully! After all, after getting married, you will have to face a lot of real problems.

First of all, there is the economic issue. Although young people are very busy with work now, as long as you have the heart and work hard, it is not difficult to earn a good income. So, in this case, you can completely let your parents come and live with you, and in this way, it can also reduce your burden.

However, you should pay attention to one thing, that is, you must give all the savings of the family to your parents, because, only in this way, they will be relieved to take care of your life.

Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. I believe many people know that since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a very difficult problem to deal with. As women, they especially want their husbands to be on their side, so when their mother-in-law has a conflict with them, they will feel wronged.

At this time, if you choose to complain to your husband, then he will think that you are hypocritical, and even think that you don't know the general situation. On the contrary, if you choose not to care about these things, but take the initiative to coax your mother-in-law, she may understand you sensitively, and even have some good feelings for you.

The third is married life. You know, marriage is the grave of love. Once you enter into marriage, the relationship between husband and wife can easily fade.

And at this time, if you don't have children, then your relationship may still last. But if you have children, there may be a lot of conflicts between you. For example, the education of the child, or the child's upbringing.

At this time, if you can't communicate well, then, the relationship between you is likely to break down. Of course, this is also a bad outcome. But if you can communicate well with your husband, perhaps, he will change his attitude towards you.

Fourth, it is disrespectful to the elders. You know, we are taught from a young age to honor our parents and respect our elders. However, when you get married, you and your partner don't understand this truth, and even behave disrespectfully with your elders.

Just imagine, such a family, do you think it will have a good development?

Don't accept, it's okay in the short term, it's not okay to live permanently, because there are differences in living habits, values, work and rest time, etc., especially if you have children, there are more contradictions, so it's not filial piety.

First of all, living separately, distance produces beauty. There are also some young people who also have the view that it is better to live separately. The reason is also very simple, that is, distance produces beauty, and it has little to do with filial piety.

Some netizens also shared their stories, and she also thinks that it is better to live separately. Especially with children, the opinions of the two generations are not consistent about the education of children, and sometimes there are quarrels. Now that we are separated, distance produces beauty, and we do our own things, which is good.

I have to say that this is indeed the case, for families with children, many young people who live with their in-laws are because they have different views on the matter of educating their children, and the longer they live together, the more conflicts they have, and in the end they may become enemies. And living apart, distance produces beauty, and it will be better for each other.

Secondly, living with in-laws is also a challenge for the couple's relationship. If you want to be harmonious as a husband and wife, don't live with your parents. Like both parents, smart parents don't live with their children.

Of course, not living with the parents does not mean that they are not filial, the husband and wife are not married to whom, it is two people who love each other to form an independent new family, each family has only one hostess, whether it is in-laws or parents-in-law live together, more is the old man crossing the line to admit that he is the master of the new family, if so, it is bound to affect the harmony of the whole family.

Moreover, if the blind mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, there are likely to be two situations, one is the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fight, and the other is that one party has to swallow his anger. And both of these are disadvantages for the whole family.

Therefore, whether to live with your in-laws after marriage, the answer is really obvious, and it has little to do with filial piety.