Can you learn the wisdom of dealing with people by studying the Three Kingdoms all your life?

Naturally, Liu Bei is a classic example, although he is from a poor background, he is not a big family, but a declining royal family, but he is very famous in the four seas, no matter who he goes to, he can finally win the monarch to go out of the city to greet him, which is all due to Liu Bei's usual behavior.

Yes, we all know that there are many deceitful links in the Three Kingdoms. Studying this work allows us to learn how to do things and how to speak in dealing with people.

It is definitely something that can be learned, because there are so many strategies and a lot of scheming in the Three Kingdoms.

1.Rationally control your own emotions and overcome all setbacks with an optimistic attitude.

2.To be an honest person will you gain the trust and respect of others.

3.Keep a humble attitude and imitate scum, otherwise others will look down on you.

4.Be good at listening to other people's opinions.

5.It is necessary to recognize the friends and villains around you.

6.We must have a vision and pattern, and don't lose big things because of small profits.

1. Don't be rash.

2. Don't lie, don't lose your trust, and treat people with sincerity.

3. Don't be arrogant.

4. Be ambitious and far-sighted.

5. Be good at listening to the right opinions.

6. Look at the people around you.

So, no matter what time it is, survival of the fittest. Therefore, taking the initiative to repent and adapt to the environment is often a miracle that can protect you and bring unexpected results.

Yes, there are these six: hide your strength; Don't think too smart about yourself and think too stupid about others; There must be a way out of all things; There is no suspicion in employing people, and there is no need to suspect people; Don't get into overt arguments with others; Duo Min talks about listening to other people's opinions, but he doesn't have to listen to them all.

1. Be a rational person, and don't be rash. When something bad happens, think twice before you act, don't make a wrong move on impulse, and regret it for the rest of your life.

2. Not conceited, not arrogant. There are mountains outside the mountains, there are people outside the people, don't be too proud, always introspect, and at the same time discover the strengths of others.

3. Serve people with integrity and treat people with integrity. Don't cheat, don't lose trust in others, in order to go stable and long-term.

4. Be good at listening to others' opinions. Be humble and listen to the reminders of others.

5. Know how to distinguish the good and bad friends around you. Don't just listen to sweet words, but also be able to tell which one is a sugar-coated cannonball.

6. Zhongjube should be ambitious and idealistic. Don't just see the person in front of you, don't just see what happened quietly at the current level, take a long-term view, cherish the friends around you who also have ideals, maybe one day you can achieve a great career.

One. Unrighteousness.

When Liu Bei's power was not strong in the early days, he was able to bend and stretch to outsiders and endure humiliation. The result is success.

Two. Don't lie, don't lose your trust, and treat people sincerely.

During the Battle of Chibi, Zhuge Liang resolutely agreed to "borrow arrows from grass boats" in order to successfully unite Wu to resist Cao, and successfully completed it, laying a solid foundation for the success of the Battle of Chibi Digging Blind.

Three. Don't be arrogant.

The "Chu and Han Rivalry" between Xiang Yu and Liu Bang for the throne lasted for five years, and due to Xiang Yu's arrogance and conceit, he slowly turned from strong to weak in these five years, and finally ended up killing Wujiang.

Four. Be ambitious and ambitious.

When Liu Bang was in exile back then, if it weren't for his previous vision, he made a lot of friends and had a deep brotherly relationship, and he would have had the Shu Han regime.

Five. Be good at listening to the right opinions.

When Xiang Yu was competing with Liu Bang for the throne, his father Fan Zeng had advised him many times to kill Liu Bang, but it was precisely because Xiang Yu did not listen to the correct opinions that he ended up like this.

Six. Look at the people around you.

Lu Bu, the general of the hexagram in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, recognized Dong Zhuo as his father, but finally killed Dong Zhuo. So we should all be able to see the people around us. After all, in the face of interests, there are no real friends, and there are no real enemies.