What does it mean to despise first and then compare hearts?

Despise first and then compare the heart, this may be that he found out that the comparison is wrong, and then give you a heart, it may mean this.

This sentence probably means that first you express great contempt for your behavior without you knowing, and then through your explanation, he feels that your point of view is very reasonable and agrees.

At the beginning, we didn't want to do anything, and only read the sage books, but now we find that many sage books are useless after reading, we can't learn what we want to learn, we can't do what we want to do, our minds are imprisoned, our souls are bound, our original dreams and ambitions are now reduced to unrealistic fantasies, and we not only fail to achieve the results we want, but lose our original courage and self-confidence. We are completely assimilated into reality and our surroundings, we no longer have our own ideas, and we are completely integrated into "society". In the past, I wanted to change the status quo of education in China, so that every child can learn truly and happily, find their own life goals, and realize their own life values, so that children will no longer be confused, no longer hate learning, hate schools and teachers, and no longer be trapped by learning.

But now I slowly find myself withdrawing, without the original pride and ambition, because I can't get rid of the pressure and pain of study and employment, how can I have the ability to help others? I suddenly felt ridiculous and pathetic.

I happened to see a news that Hou Qunfeng, a college student from Hunan Province, took a year off from school to travel around the world, and I was particularly shocked, but I envied and admired his courage and determination even more. I asked myself what I had? Why do I feel pathetic now?

First of all, I don't have the breadth of knowledge that I should have, and I don't have confidence in my professional knowledge, let alone knowledge in other disciplines. Secondly, I don't have outstanding abilities and talents, others can sing, dance, host, speak, musical instruments, etc., but what about me? None of them are professional, and none of them can handle them; In the end, I don't have a prominent family background and interpersonal relationships, and I don't have an innate advantage in appearance, so all in all, I am a me without any capital and characteristics, without any competitiveness and advantages. The only thing that can be relied on is luck and real hard work, and the watering of sweat may not necessarily get sweet fruits, but I must move forward, I must grit my teeth and go on, because I live in this world, there is no reason not to struggle, and I am not qualified to complain.

The meaning of this sentence may be that I despised this person at first, but then I slowly liked this person.

Isn't it, it means that I despise you for your behavior, but I still like you as a person, even if you do very badly, I still like you.

If you feel that you are not inferior, there is no need to have social fear, and there is no need to be afraid, others are not as terrible as you think, and society is not as bad as you think, our life is very beautiful now, face them bravely, and every day is very happy.

If you take the test first and then compare your heart, you may think that the other party is not Lu Taiyi.

It shows that your relationship is very close. There are often small pranks. Making small jokes often doesn't really get angry.

I think this mentality is going to change over time.

I don't understand, what do such people think? Respect and respect for a person, don't have any contempt, that's good.