When my own person dies, why can t I eat the offerings on the table?

Someone has passed away, and the tribute on the table cannot be eaten by the family, which of course cannot be eaten, and this should be said to be for the deceased to eat, not for the living.

I don't think there's anything you can't eat, but it's just a kind of implication that isn't very good, because it's for people who have passed away, so your parents will feel uncomfortable after you eat it.

The customs and requirements of each place are different, and maybe your own family thinks that this thing is not allowed to be eaten by your own people or has a bad influence.

Everyone in their own family can have something to eat. Unless it is the white-headed man who gives the black-headed man some tribute, he cannot eat it. Every place will have its own rules.

When your own people pass away, you don't say that you can't eat the tribute on the table, and your family can't eat it, this may be the custom of your local area.

This is edible, the tributes to the death of our people need to be grabbed, and it is good to grab the tributes.

We don't have such a statement here, and the juniors will say that it is good for the body after eating the things on the table.

Why can I live by myself, and whether I can eat the tribute at work is a habit of this place.

There is no such attention to eating, you can also eat, there is no rule that you can't eat.

When my own person dies, why can't my family eat the offerings on the table? This is your local custom. The customs are different in every place. Maybe that's the custom in your place.

This is the traditional custom, and that's it, and that's it, and now it's good for your family to give it to outsiders.

In fact, for the sacrifices, your own family can also eat, there is nothing to pay attention to.

That. You can't eat anything like that, and you shouldn't think about eating anything like that.

But why is it the best to eat the tribute at work? I don't know much about these customs. Maybe the old people will have some of their sayings.

The tributes offered on the table after the death of one's own family members cannot be eaten by one's own family, because the ancestors must be eaten first.

Chinese have always attached more importance to funeral customs, people believe that people have a soul after death, so there will be a lot of rules for funeral matters. For the deceased, the living are to make offerings to them, so how many offerings should be made to the deceased? What are the five best fruits in the upper grave?

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1. Tributes are generally singular, three or five, and the number of each is also singular, three or five, and the tributes should respect religion, ethnicity, and regional customs, and there are no fixed rules. It is better to sacrifice vegetarian food, fruits, snacks, dried fruits, vegetarian wine and other foods.

2. Offerings to the grave, steamed buns are indispensable, all kinds of fruits. If the deceased is religious, then the religion needs to be respected. If it is an ethnic minority, the beliefs of the minority should be respected. When following the local customs, you should also respect the local customs and habits.

The five best fruits of the upper grave.

When going to the grave or sweeping the grave, many people will bring some fruits as a tribute to the ancestors. Many people want to ask what fruits are more suitable to bring, in fact, some seasonal fruits are more suitable, and the more common 5 kinds of fruits are apples, bananas, oranges, tangerines, cherry tomatoes, etc.

The fruits placed on the grave generally need to be placed in an odd number, and generally 3-5 are more common. Most of the fruits in the grave are brought with seasonal fruits, plus a bouquet of chrysanthemum, but the fruits in the grave are not suitable for any fruit, such as pears, grapes, plums and other fruits are not good.

The placement of fruits on the grave is taboo.

It is best not to choose whole bunches, multi-seeded, hollow fruits, such as pears, grapes, melons, etc. People believe that pear and parting are homophonic, and the ancients believed that separation represents separation, and the meaning is not good. Moreover, it is not only not suitable to bring pears to the grave, but also to visit patients in the hospital.

The items to be placed on the table for the deceased of the elderly include:

1.Offerings: The main offerings on the offering table are fruits, snacks and meat.

These offerings must be placed on the front of the offering table so that the ancestors and deities can easily find them. However, when placing offerings, do not stack them on top of each other so that the ancestors and gods do not recognize them.

2.Incense burner: An incense burner is placed on the offering table and is used to burn incense to worship ancestors and gods. The incense burner should be placed in the front of the offering table and must be kept clean and tidy.

3.Wax table: The wax table is an item used to place candles, and it must be placed on the left side of the table tassel. During the sacrifice, candles are lit to show respect and respect for the ancestors and gods.

4.Wine glasses: Wine glasses are placed on the offering table and used to toast ancestors and gods. The wine glass should be placed on the right side of the serving table. During the sacrifice, wine is poured to show respect and respect for the ancestors and gods.

5.Offerings: Some offerings, such as meat, fish, vegetables, etc., are placed on the offering table for the sacrifice of ancestors and gods. The offering should be placed on the left side of the offering table. During the sacrificial process, the offering of Chaihong jujube offerings is made to show respect and respect for the ancestors and gods.

6.Flowers: Place some flowers on the offering table for sacrifices to ancestors and gods. Flowers should be placed on the right side of the offering table. During the sacrifice, flowers are offered to show respect and respect for the ancestors and gods.

It should be noted that the sacrificial customs of different regions and families may be slightly different, and they can be placed according to local customs and habits.

1. There are two types of hail on the table, one is the incense candle, the other is the offering position, the offering is inside, and the incense candle is outside. This is mainly for the convenience of relatives and friends.

2. There are requirements for placing offerings in the dust, and the requirements for the number are stipulated in the Pai Bantan, that is, it should be three or multiples of three. But it can't be an even number.

3. Put five steamed buns on the table, three below and two Luo together. I found that the steamed buns on the top were taken away by others, so I had to make up for them at any time.

4. The animals can be pigs, cows, sheep, chickens and clothes, etc., which means that the deceased elderly can have no worries about food and clothing.

5. Put some ingots and paper money, which means that the deceased old man can take it away and buy things.

Food to commemorate the deceased can be eaten.

Traditionally, food offerings to the deceased can be taken home and given to children. It is generally believed that offering food can ward off evil spirits and drive away evil spirits.

From another angle, it can be seen that the Chinese people cherish and love food. "On the afternoon of hoeing day, sweat drops are in the soil, who knows that the Chinese food on the plate is hard work." This poem reflects the traditional virtues of the Chinese people who love labor and cherish food.

Paying tribute to the deceased includes burning heads.

Seven, burn three. Seven, burn five.

Seven, burn seven. 7. Burn for 100 days, burn the head week, burn for 3 weeks, etc. Through the memorial service to the deceased, it can increase the contact between relatives, strengthen feelings, promote family harmony and unity, and promote social harmony. Through the ears and eyes of the younger generation to educate the elderly, love the elderly, respect the elderly, "the old, and the old", the formation of a good family style and social atmosphere.

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Precautions: Any item offered must reflect your own respect, not reckless, and lose the majesty of the Buddha and Bodhisattva. Therefore, we are particular about the types of fruits we choose.

Generally, the fruits we often eat, such as apples, bananas, oranges, grapes, pears, watermelons, etc., smell very fragrant, the appearance is beneficial, and they are very good offerings, and they can be used with confidence. However, fruits that do not smell very good, such as durian, are not acceptable to most people, and it is best not to offer them, which are expensive and do not have good benefits.