Is the culprit of the Bao Dai marriage unscrupulous?

In the minds of some readers, Mrs. Wang is the one who stirred up the "Bao Dai marriage", the reason is, of course, that Mrs. Wang didn't like Lin Daiyu very much from beginning to end, and Mrs. Wang liked Baochai.

However, Mrs. Wang likes Baochai and dislikes Daiyu, how much does it have to do with the final achievement of "Jinyu Friendship" and the "Baodai Marriage"?

Clause. 1. In the era of "the life of parents and the words of matchmakers", Mrs. Wang's love for Baochai is not only natural, but also reasonable.

Clause. Second, not only Mrs. Wang, but Jia's mother also likes Baochai, and in the thirty-fifth time, Jia's mother praised Baochai in public, "The four girls in our family are not as good as Baochai."

Clause. 3. It is impossible for Mrs. Jia and Mrs. Wang to tolerate the "private affairs" of their children between Bao Dai, and Jia's mother's "lies" are to clearly point out that the "private affairs" of children are "thieves" who violate the royal law.

Clause. Fourth, the decision-maker of Jia Baoyu's marriage is Master Jia Zheng, and Mrs. Wang must "obey her husband". Unless Mother Jia and Jia Zheng's mother and son don't look down on Lin Daiyu at all, if Mother Jia and Jia Zheng's mother and son are optimistic about the "Bao Dai marriage", Mrs. Wang does not have the energy to stir up the "Bao Dai marriage".

In short, Mrs. Wang should want to promote a "golden and jade relationship", but accusing Mrs. Wang of "stirring up" Bao Dai is nothing at all. Because there is no one in Jiafu except Bao Dai herself who wants to really promote the "Bao Dai marriage", and only Aunt Xue and Bao Chai have expressed sympathy for "Bao Dai Love" in the fifty-seventh episode.

What really "stirred up" Bao Dai was the entire feudal family headed by Jia's mother and Jia Zheng's mother and son, and it was a feudal arranged marriage system of "the order of the parents and the words of the matchmaker". In the process of finally achieving the "golden and jade good relationship" and stirring up the yellow "Bao Dai marriage", Mrs. Wang, as the old lady Jia Zheng who must be "obeyed", and Mrs. Wang, Sister Feng, as the daughter-in-law and granddaughter-in-law of Jia's mother, daughter-in-law and granddaughter-in-law, who must put filial piety first, can only be obedient, and can only help beat the side drum for the decision-making of Jia's mother and Jia Zheng's mother and son, and implement it in place.

In terms of expressing the main plot of the common tragedy of love and marriage of Bao Daichai and the three people in "A Dream of Red Mansions", the 62 Yue Opera movie is in line with the logic of the plot development of the original work, and it is also in line with the great leader's views on the significance of the anti-feudal marriage in "A Dream of Red Mansions" and his evaluation of the characters in "A Dream of Red Mansions".

However, the 87 version, which has been replayed thousands of times in 30 years, deliberately deleted the key turning plot of the 35th episode of the original work, when Jia Mu publicly praised Xue Baochai, in the development of the main plot of Bao Daichai's love and marriage tragedy.

After being simplified and popularized (entertained) by the 87 version, Jia's mother supported the "Bao Dai Marriage" to the end and became the "original" plot of the "Mother-in-law War" palace fight plot, which fundamentally does not conform to the plot development logic of the first 80 episodes of the original work, does not conform to the social reality of feudal arranged marriages more than 200 years ago, and does not conform to the status and role of Mrs. Wang Feng and Sister Feng in Jiafu.

I think so. Because Mrs. Wang cares more about the long-term development of Jiafu in the future, she thinks that Xue Baochai can play the role of hostess.

It was caused by Mrs. Wang, Mrs. Wang didn't like Lin Daiyu, Lin Daiyu was too strong, Jia Baoyu listened to her more, and Mrs. Wang felt uncomfortable seeing her son so humble. Lin Daiyu is too clear, Mrs. Wang doesn't like her character, Lin Daiyu has no eyesight, and Mrs. Wang dislikes her and can't look at words.

I think the culprit who disturbed Huang Baodai's marriage was Mrs. Wang, because Mrs. Wang wanted Baoyu and Xue Baochai to get married.

Of course yes, because Mrs. Wang doesn't like Lin Daiyu at all, because Lin Daiyu is soft and weak, so she will stir up the marriage of Bao Dai.

It's not that Mrs. Wang is messing up, but that the two of them have no fate, and finally because of the development of the family, Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu got married. It is also fate.

Of course yes, because she doesn't like Lin Daiyu very much, so he often intervenes in the relationship between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu and destroys the relationship between the two of them.

Yes, because she prefers Xue Baochai as her daughter-in-law, she feels that Lin Daiyu's health is very bad, and she also has a grudge against her mother Jia Min.

Because she thinks Daiyu is easier to control, and Baochai is too smart, which has a great impact on her status in the mansion. is not to betray Mrs. Wang, but to have his own selfishness, for his own future life.

Wang Xifeng likes Lin Daiyu more than Xue Baochai, and the relationship between the two of them is also closer, and Mrs. Wang's behavior makes Wang Xifeng cold, on the other hand, she is also worried that Xue Baochai will rob her of her housekeeping after marrying Baoyu, so she supports Baodai even more.

Because the Jiafu was already in a serious financial crisis at that time, it naturally needed a person with a relatively thick family background, and did not betray Mrs. Wang, but Mrs. Wang thought so.

is because Wang Xifeng likes the two of them very much, and the highest person in the Rong Mansion at that time also likes him very much. Yes, because Wang Xifeng and Mrs. Wang are related.

Wang Xifeng watched Jia Baoyu grow up since she was a child, and she also liked Jia Baoyu very much, so when Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu wanted to get married, Wang Xifeng always supported her, she completely betrayed Mrs. Wang, after all, Mrs. Wang didn't like Lin Daiyu.

This is because Wang Xifeng feels that Baoyu and Daiyu really love each other, and she likes the two of them very much, so she will support their marriage. It's not that she betrayed Madame Wang.

Because Wang Xifeng felt that Jia Baoyu liked Lin Daiyu, she was pushing the boat down the river, not completely betraying Mrs. Wang, but planning for her future.

Personally, I think the reason why Wang Xifeng supports the marriage of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is probably because he is also optimistic about the relationship between them, not because he betrayed Mrs. Wang.

No. Wang Xifeng is a very smart person, she knew that the ancestor liked Lin Daiyu, so she echoed such a suggestion, in order to make the ancestor happy.

It's not, the marriage between him and this person is not much related to her, Lin Daiyu was very favored by Jia's mother at that time, and in order to please Jia's mother, she was very good to Lin Daiyu.

I don't think it's sincere, but it's false and wronged, in order not to offend any of them, so as to make myself a good person.

First of all, Wang Xifeng's actions must have her own purpose and are in line with her interests. She advocated for Bao Dai's marriage, although it directly contributed to Bao Dai's love, but it was not openly supported. It's just a joke, and even if Mrs. Wang knows, she can't do anything.

If Jia's mother knew that she would be happy, Wang Xifeng's joke, the input-output rate of return is good, she is naturally willing to implement it, send Jia's mother favors, and make Jia's mother happy.

Secondly, Lin Daiyu's marriage to Jia Baoyu is more in line with Wang Xifeng's actual interests. The reason why Wang Xifeng can manage the Rongguo Mansion is that Jia Zhu died suddenly, and Li Kun became a widow and could not take care of the house, so Wang Xifeng and Jia Lian were seconded to the housekeepers of the Rongguo Mansion.

Although Wang Xifeng is the eldest grandson's daughter-in-law of Rongguo Mansion, Jia pardoned the lord, and the Rongguo Mansion was inherited by Jia Zheng. The management of Rongguo Mansion is in the hands of Mrs. Wang, and if Li Kun does not have a problem, Wang Xifeng will not be able to go to Mrs. Wang's house to take care of the house.

If Jia Baoyu marries Bao's second grandmother, Wang Xifeng is bound to hand over power. That's when she's going to lose everything.

Lin Daiyu's advantage is that she is not in good health and has no energy to take care of the house for a long time, Wang Xifeng is likely to be in charge of Rongguo Mansion all the time, which is the greatest benefit for her.

In the end, Lin Daiyu's advantage over Wang Xifeng became a disadvantage when replaced by Xue Baochai.

This is her cleverness, because even if she is unwilling, the matter will not change because of one of her opinions, so it is better for him to obey Madame Wang's heart to make Madame Wang look up to her.

Because I don't want to destroy the two lovers who are in love, I can't bear to break up the two poor children.