Parents are getting older, how can we better be filial to our parents?

Updated on society 2024-07-22
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    When I see your question, I'm actually full of doubts, because what you're describing isn't clear. I don't know if you feel inferior because your parents are old? Or is it because I feel that my parents are old and I have just entered college, so I can't take time to take care of and fulfill my filial piety?

    First of all, father and daughter raise us young, and we raise them old, which is the inheritance of filial piety culture and the fine traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.

    Filial piety has nothing to do with age, as long as you are aware of this problem, it is the best time, and it is the beginning of filial piety.

    When you are not at home, you can call your parents more, and when you go home, you can accompany your parents more and help them do some things.

    Secondly, this question also touched me deeply, and I think it also warns many parents - old age, whether to continue to have a second child.

    While rejoicing, we should also think deeply about the harm of giving birth at an advanced age to a woman's body, and we should also think deeply about whether the child is willing to accept a parent who is so much older than the parents of other children.

    Just like many children, they feel that there is a big age difference between themselves and their parents and children, they have low self-esteem, and then they have a lot of personality problems.

    In the end, accept the reality for whatever the reason, and accept your parents from the bottom of your heart, no matter what they are.

    Everyone has a time when they are old, and every child also has a time when their parents are old, and we should accept it calmly. In each day, it is enough not to miss the day of filial piety.

    I think after the release of the two-child policy for more than ten years, there will be more children facing such a problem, just released the second child in the two years after a lot of 70 to fight for the second child, I am one of them, 42 years old to give birth to two treasures, and so on two treasures when I am 62 years old when I am 20 years old, my husband is 64 years old. The houses of the two babies have been prepared, and they don't want to sell two or three million when they get married, which can be used as a down payment to buy a new house. My husband and I both want to work hard to exercise and maintain our health, and try not to cause trouble to our two babies when we get old.

    Maybe you have met your parents more than ten or even twenty years earlier than others, but doesn't this remind you that you must cherish every day your parents are there?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Give them more company, they don't need material companionship, but need some spiritual support, talk to them more, chat, take them on trips, spend more time with them, but they won't feel lonely.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It is to be able to be with their parents as much as possible, this is the greatest filial piety to them, because what they need most is just companionship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Companionship is definitely the best filial piety, so we must take more time out to go home often to see our parents' filial piety, so as to make their hearts warmer.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is also a very good way to make parents happier, so that they can be more filial to their parents.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In your spare time at work, you can spend more time with your parents, and you should meet your parents' living needs and do your best to help them.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    As a child, you should not make your parents angry, and you should spend more money on your parents, and buy more food and clothes for your parents that they like, which is a way to honor your parents.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Filial piety to parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, especially when parents are getting older, they need our love and filial piety. Here are some suggestions to show filial piety to your parents:

    Companionship and attention: Spend more time with your parents, listen to them, and care about their physical health and mental state. Give them enough attention and care so that they feel warm and caring.

    Take care of daily life: try to solve the difficulties of parents' daily life, such as shopping, housework, cleaning, etc. Help them maintain a tidy living environment and ensure their safety and comfort.

    Medical Care: Pay attention to the health of our parents and ensure that they receive medical care in a timely manner. Accompany them to the hospital to help them administer their medications and have regular health check-ups.

    Financial support: According to your own financial ability, try to help parents solve financial difficulties. It can provide financial support for daily expenses, medical expenses, living security, etc.

    Respect and listen: Respect parents' opinions and decisions, and give them full autonomy. Listen to their stories and experiences, and respect their feelings and values.

    Advocate parent-child relationship: try to cooperate with siblings as much as possible, share responsibilities together, form a parent-child joint force, and take care of parents together.

    In general, filial piety to parents is not only material care and help, but more importantly, emotional companionship and care. Filial piety to parents requires empathy and thoughtfulness, so that they can feel the warmth and happiness of the family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1.Thank you for all you have done for me and I will do everything I can to repay you. 2.

    Parents, you have worked hard, please rest well, I will take care of everything for you. 3.I will visit you often and help you in your life.

    4.You are my eternal spiritual pillar, and I will do everything in my power to protect you. 5.

    I will honor you well, so that you can rely on your old age and be happy and healthy. 6.I am deeply grateful for your love and support for me, and I will always be grateful.

    7.I wish you all a long and healthy life, happiness and happiness. 8.

    I will work hard and earn money to provide better conditions for your old age. 9.Your teachings have made me grow, and I will take them to heart and make you proud of them forever.

    10.Parents, I love you and will never forget your nurturing kindness.

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    1.Thank you for all you have done for me and I will do everything I can to repay you.

    2.Parents, you have worked hard, please rest well, I will take care of everything for you.

    3.I will visit you often and offer you advice and help in your daily life.

    4.You are my eternal spiritual pillar, and I will do everything in my power to protect you.

    5.I will honor you well, so that you can rely on your old age and be happy and healthy.

    6.I am deeply grateful for your love and support for me, and I will always be grateful.

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    7.I wish you all a long and healthy life, happiness and happiness.

    8.I will work hard and earn money to provide better conditions for your old age.

    9.Your teachings have made me grow, and I will take them to heart and make you proud forever.

    10.Parents, I love you and will never forget your nurturing kindness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When the parents are old, they should accompany Yu to take him to enlighten them, be with them more, chat, do housework, as children, usually work is very busy, parents are very lonely, and companionship is the best filial piety.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    During the pandemic, students were taking classes online. My younger brother used his father's mobile phone to play games and rushed into more than 30,000 pieces. My younger brother is a second child, ten years younger than me, in the fourth grade.

    Dad will be of retirement age in a few years. It's the first time for me, and I think my dad is a lot older. Anyone who knows a little bit about mobile phones will find out about it immediately.

    Dad was a long, long time later, he was a little dimly aware that he had forgotten the password of mobile banking, and came to ask me to help him check the balance of the bank card, and only found out after checking. It's really outrageous to see so many 4399 game payouts, especially when I asked my brother, he still didn't admit it. Dad's income is not much, more than 30,000 yuan is almost a year's income of Dad, and after working hard for a year, I am reluctant to buy a good clothes and shoes, so my brother is washed away between the game and the digging.

    In this way, he was not beaten. Afterwards, when Dad mentioned that the money was a pity, he still said that with the 30,000 yuan, he could decorate the small yard at home. I was very sad after listening to the key tuantuan.

    I also regret how good it is to buy a tablet, how good it is to eat a meal, how good it is to travel, how good it is to buy clothes. Dad listened to what I said, and said that he wanted to buy it directly, and he could buy it now. I laughed and said, just kidding.

    Dad was thinking about this family and us. Although he regretted it, he was more worried about his younger brother's study, afraid that he would not be right-minded and ignorant. Hold back your anger and reason with him.

    Parents are old, and they will really be helpless in the face of this era. But even if he is helpless, he will desperately want to be our strongest backing.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    1.Enhance communication. Communicate with your parents.

    Everyone's time is precious, but communicating with your parents not only deepens their bond with each other, but also makes them feel that you care. Not only will this strengthen the cohesion of the family, but it will also allow parents to better understand your thoughts and life experiences.

    Even if you're not around your parents, you can communicate with them through **or **chat. When you hear their buzzing voices and see their faces, the distance between you is not so far anymore. At the same time, you can also learn about their life and physical condition.

    3.Go home often. Go home to see your parents whenever possible.

    Although there is a lot of pressure from work and study, we should also go home to see our parents as much as possible. Not only does this make our parents feel loved and respected, but it also gives us an idea of their lives and physical condition. If you can't get home, you can also invite your parents to visit you and give them a comfortable environment for them to have a great time.

    4.Accompany parents. Accompany parents to do something.

    Some parents may have physical discomfort or elderly issues and need some help and care. We can ask them about their needs and try to meet their needs as much as possible, go for a walk, go shopping, watch a movie, or do some chores together. This will not only alleviate their loneliness, but also enhance the interaction and communication between us.

    5.Caring and loving. Give parents attention and love.

    Whether it is in daily life or on the occasion of festivals, we should give more attention and love to our parents. On parents' birthdays or holidays, we can express our gratitude by sending a gift or writing a thank you note. These small gestures can make parents feel our care and love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This situation is not very normal, because your boyfriend's mother is a little too dependent on him and expects to be a little too much. While filial piety to your parents is a virtue, it doesn't mean that your boyfriend has to sacrifice your relationship and development for the sake of his mother's needs.

    Your boyfriend should seek balance between you and not ignore your feelings and needs just to meet his mom's needs. His mother also needs to understand that her son is an adult and needs his own space and independence, and that you are also his important partner and needs to be respected and cared for.

    It is advisable for you and your boyfriend to have an in-depth conversation with Toshi-eda to clarify your relationship and future plans. You can express your feelings and concerns to him, while also respecting his views and family culture. If you can't come to a consensus, you may want to think again about whether your relationship is worth continuing.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1.Respect parents: Respect parents' opinions and decisions, and don't easily refute or challenge their authority.

    2.Caring for the parents' chakra: Caring for the physical health and living conditions of the parents, communicating with them often to understand their needs and ideas. Celebration.

    3.Financial support: Provide financial support to parents as much as possible to help them with life's problems.

    4.Time companionship: Duan Chaxin tries to spend as much time as possible with his parents, participate in their lives, and let them feel your love and companionship.

    5.Learn filial piety: learn how to be filial to your parents, understand the knowledge and concept of filial piety in traditional culture, and integrate it into your own life.

    6.Thanksgiving: Be grateful for the nurturing grace of your parents and do your best to repay their love and dedication.

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