How should children honor their parents, and how should they honor their parents as children?

Actually, I think it's more about the company of my two girls. My sister is seven years older than me, and my sister and I both chose to return to our hometown, a small county town on the 18th tier, after graduation. My sister's husband is an orphan, so they go home as soon as they rest, and they go home for dinner almost every night, and although my parents talk about it, every time they come home, my parents cook a lot of delicious food.

My dad told me every day that I was still bothering them at home after graduation, but they still wanted me to stay at home and work and take me to and from work every day. My sister used to buy jewelry for my mom and cigarettes and alcohol for my dad, and I just had an internship with no pay, and I didn't buy anything for them. But it's not about how much money my parents want to spend on them, it's that as long as my sister and I are around them, they're happy.

So, when you have time, go home and spend more time with your parents, spoil your parents, rely on them, and they will really be happy.

This problem is too big, I don't think to make my parents angry, but I have to stick to my own principles, I can't compromise casually, the balance is difficult to master, in short, try to make them happy, give some money if you lack money, if you want to accompany, then accompany more, each family has its own difficulties, and you may not be able to do what others say, so it still depends on how you choose.

The first is to be obedient, the second is spiritual comfort, and the last is financial support. After all, most people now have a retirement salary, so they are not very interested in money.

The most important thing as a child is to be by their parents' side, but now for various reasons, everyone has no way to effectively accompany their parents and honor their parents. For example, due to the epidemic, it is very troublesome for us to go anywhere, and it is likely that everyone is busy with work, so it will also affect everyone to take care of their parents. In fact, parents do not want their children to be by their side every day, what parents want most is that their children can take themselves to heart and give themselves a voice or call **** at ordinary times.

When we are not busy, we must accompany our parents, and don't feel very troublesome because our parents have more things, and we are unwilling to stay by our parents' side, which will make our parents feel very sad.

We should also communicate more with our parents, most of the elderly, they are actually relatively lonely, if you can often call your parents, it will also make your parents feel more comfortable. Usually help parents to do more housework, such as helping parents to beat their backs, or rubbing their shoulders, which will also make parents feel that their children are very filial, and will also make parents happy. When we were young, our parents stayed with us as much as possible and took care of us, and we couldn't often use the excuse that we were busy with work when we were older and didn't go home to accompany our parents.

During the New Year's holidays, parents may miss their children more, and everyone can go home as much as possible. If you often need to work outside, you can actually choose to bring your parents to live with you, and there may be some quarrels in ordinary times, but I think most of them are love. And like many girls, if they live alone outside, there will be some dangers, and with the company of their parents, it will be safer.

When I have nothing to do, I often go home to see my parents.

When people are older, they like to be lively, and they like to see their children come to see them often. It is not uncommon for children to feel that their parents like to be quiet when they are older, so try not to go back and disturb them. In fact, this idea is wrong, as the elderly like to see their children often come back to see themselves, which not only makes outsiders feel that their children are very filial, but also can meet their own inner needs for family affection.

When people are old, they want to see the family gather together and be happy. My mother-in-law lives alone, and she always wants her children to come back and have a meal with her. Every old man's requirements are not high, they don't need any glory and wealth, as long as the family is simple and lives together quietly, so they often go home to see their parents when they are fine.

2. Take your parents for a walk.

It is not easy for people to live in this life, when they are young, they have physical strength and money, but they have no time, and when they are old, they have time, but they have no ability.

In the traditional standard of filial piety to parents, it is not only reflected in the frequent visit to the home, but also in return and love. We must treat our parents with heart, and this is what qualified children are. Take more time to see your parents, talk more with your parents, and go home more to help your parents.

Honor your parents, start with the little things around us!