If you don t suffer from others, don t persuade others to be good

Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering. From ZhuangziThe earthly world

Thinking is not to feel from the perspective of others, or not to experience other people's experiences, so do not persuade others to be generous and do good. In your own life, you can only be strict with yourself, don't just stand on your own moral high ground and demand others.

If you have not experienced some of the sufferings that others have experienced, you should not easily persuade others, because you don't know how many wounds others have experienced, and if you have experienced the sufferings that others have experienced, you may not be as good as others.

There is never empathy in this world, only self-knowledge.

What others see is only on the surface, and they will never feel the inner emotions, so if you haven't really experienced other people's lives, you should never try to blame and judge.

The biggest problem in human nature is that many people always stand in their own perspective, regard themselves as moral standards, and have a mysterious sense of superiority.

Attempts to judge and accuse others.

Never forget that the more people who accuse others with their own moral standards, the more stupid and ignorant they are, and never stand in your own perspective and speculate about other people's world with your own narrow cognition, you are not qualified.

Without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be kind, which means that if you have not experienced the pain experienced by others, do not speak without any basis to persuade others to be generous.

In life, people who are most afraid of this kind of self-righteousness and stand on the moral high ground to persuade others to be kind, there are always some people who are the best at being generous to others and expressing their compassion. When encountering conflicts, indiscriminately, they blindly persuade others to be more tolerant and not to care too much, without really considering the feelings of the person concerned. This kind of compassion is not kindness from the heart, but a kind of "hypocrisy".

The correct and complete sentence is: Do not persuade others to be good without suffering others.

The general idea is not to speculate on other people's world with your own cognition, there is never empathy in this world, only cold and warm self-knowledge, who will feel pain if the knife is inserted into someone's body.

What others see is only on the surface, and you will never feel the inner emotions if you don't tremble, so if you haven't really experienced other people's lives, never try to blame and judge.

The biggest problem in human nature is that many people always stand in their own perspective, regard themselves as moral standards, and have a mysterious sense of superiority.

Delusional judgment and accusation of others, even complacent, self-righteous feel that they are saints.

Principles of life

Being a man first lives oneself and manages one's mouth is the most important thing to do. To put it bluntly, no one is qualified to instruct others on how to live their scattered days, because the rent is because you have not experienced the suffering of others, how to persuade others to be good.

You can't convince others to accept your own ideas, because everyone's life experience is different, and no one has the right to let others agree with their own views, you can tolerate other people's thoughts. We can try to understand the rights and wrongs of others, but we should not impose our own ideas and opinions on others. Don't try to persuade others at will, because what you think is only what you think, and it doesn't mean that what you are doing is right.

As the saying goes, "Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering", which is manifested in life, that is, there is a kind of person who is self-righteous and always stands on the moral high ground to persuade others to be kind. When encountering any dispute, he indiscriminately persuaded the weaker party to be more tolerant, and he never really considered the feelings of the parties. This brother shows that he is not kind from the heart, but a kind of "hypocrisy".

Don't go through the suffering of others, don't persuade others to be kind. If you suffer from others, you may not be good at others. This means that if you have not experienced the suffering that others have experienced, you are not qualified to persuade others to be kind. If you have experienced the pain that others have experienced, you may not be as good as others.

You haven't walked the path that others have walked, you haven't suffered from others, and you never know how painful it is to stick a knife in someone else. Indiscriminately, blindly trying to persuade the weaker party to be more tolerant, he never really considered the feelings of the parties.

If you haven't experienced the suffering of others, don't persuade others to be generous and how to behave. Because the impact of experience on a person is enormous.

1, don't persuade others to be kind through the suffering of others, who are you if you are not in the spring of the next year, no one will kidnap me morally.

2. Don't persuade others to be kind through the suffering of others, and don't understand a person through the screen.

3. Don't persuade others to be kind through the suffering of others, don't stand and talk without backache, don't do to others what you don't want to do to others, just do your own thing, that is, do what you want to do.

4. Don't persuade others to be kind to others, stand at the highest point of morality and ask others to stay away from him, and he is easy to hurt you by mistake.

5. Don't persuade others to be kind through the suffering of others! I hate people who don't know anything the most, and they come to carry out moral kidnapping!

6. Don't go through the suffering of others and don't persuade others to be kind, right? If you don't understand anything, you will persuade others to be generous, and I will default to you, you are a brainless and heartless orphan. If you don't understand, you can understand, someone will not let you understand if you press your hand?

Someone else's real life for several years is over if I don't understand it?

7, don't persuade others to be kind through the suffering of others, don't easily kidnap morally with your mouth open, as Guo Degang said, stay away from this kind of person, otherwise she will be killed by lightning and will easily affect herself.

If I were faced with such a man, I would definitely choose to divorce. Because these things he did were grossly irresponsible for marriage.

First of all, if he has someone outside, he already means that he doesn't love you, and secondly, his behavior is irresponsible, and he is also abusive, which is intolerable. Women should think more about themselves and should not be tied up in marriage because of their children.

Because the child grows up in such a loveless family, the impact on him is also very great. Therefore, there is no need to continue the marriage where the two parties have no feelings, so we will not try to persuade reconciliation. If you really feel unhappy, you still have to be brave enough to leave, and then negotiate the child's belonging.

After all, there is still a long way to go in a lifetime, and you must not lose yourself in this marriage and affect the rest of your life. So I hope to be able to think carefully and be brave enough to walk the path I want to take.

Don't persuade others to be kind without others suffering. Others who have not experienced what you have suffered cannot understand what you have suffered. Only those who have experienced it can appreciate the suffering.

A man turned out to be an alcoholic and irresponsible. I also abused you domestically. Whether it's for the sake of the child or not, there's no need to put up with it.

Growing up in such a family environment is not good for a child's future. You can choose to divorce and leave him with the children.

If you don't suffer from others, don't persuade others to be good If you go through other people's suffering, you may not have other goodness These two sentences mean that if you don't understand the cause and effect of things, don't just persuade others to be generous For many things you don't understand, wait and see what happens.