Can you accept that your girlfriend has a lot of ex boyfriends?

Does a person's love experience reflect a person's personality and personality? It seems to me that it will be reflected. If a woman is in love very few times and each relationship lasts for a long time, then I think this woman is very loyal to her feelings and takes her feelings very seriously; On the contrary, if a woman changes boyfriends frequently and has the habit of seamless transition, then I think what this woman values in her relationship may not be love.

Of course, judging what a woman is like cannot be completely based on emotional experience, but also on the individual itself.

In people's lives, they will meet so many scumbags and scumbags who make them not believe in love, but they will always meet the "light" that belongs to them to make themselves happy. To be honest, I personally think that it doesn't matter that there are many ex-boyfriends, the important thing is to see what the girlfriend's attitude towards the ex-boyfriend is, if you decisively delete and don't contact, then I won't mind, but if you contact from time to time, and go to your ex-boyfriend as soon as you quarrel with me, then I really will mind. If you are going to step into the next relationship, then make sure that you let go of the previous relationship and love each other with a clean heart, otherwise it is a sign of disrespect for your current boyfriend.

It's not easy to meet someone who really likes and is suitable in the vast sea of people, I am not a very emotional person, so I don't mind a lot of girlfriends and ex-boyfriends, mainly depending on what kind of person my girlfriend is, whether it is my ideal in the world. If I really like her and she likes me too, then I won't deny our relationship because of the past, or I will choose to let go of the past, look at the present, and manage the current relationship. If the reason why girls fall in love more is really because of character problems, then I believe that there is no result between us, and it is good to use time to deny it.

Girls should also keep their eyes open when they are in love, and don't be hurt by some scumbags.

I can accept that my girlfriend has a lot of ex-boyfriends, and there is no need to care about this, as long as I love this woman.

I can't accept that my girlfriend has a lot of ex-boyfriends, and it's acceptable that there are some, but too many words seem to be particularly bad for girls.

OK. Everyone has their own life and their own emotional experiences, so there's no need to worry too much about these things.

I can't accept it, I mind that my girlfriend has a lot of exes. My girlfriend has had a lot of exes before, which shows that my girlfriend is not very focused on love or making friends and is very casual.

On the other hand, there are many boys who go to friends with other people, but in the end they don't come to fruition, which means that there is something wrong with this girlfriend, maybe he is a girl who is not very good.

I think both men and women will mind, when they learn that the other party is an experienced veteran of the love field, they will inevitably feel a little sour in their hearts, and at the same time they are wondering if they will become the next ex of the other party, and when they get along with each other, they will also think about what he or she said to themselves, has he or she said to others before, and whether the same situation will just be a different person, this idea will exist for a long time. So I don't want to have too many exes for my girlfriend.

Maybe I'm an emotional cleaner, I can't see that my object has an ex, let alone a lot of exes, there is no need to get along with such an object, even if you don't mind that he has an ex now, maybe one day you will become his ex! Even if you do manage to come together in the future, it will feel separated!

A: I will not accept it. Because such a woman is obviously unfaithful to her marriage, if I choose to accept it, she may do the same to me, so in order to protect my own heart, I will not choose to accept it.

Unacceptable. It may be complicated for men to see, but I think it's more or less okay at first glance, anyway, it's just a passerby in life.

Definitely won't accept it. Because the man will see the woman as emotionally unfaithful, he will reject the woman.

If a boy knows that his girlfriend has a lot of ex, he must have an idea and will not accept it, under normal circumstances, normal boys are unable to accept their girlfriend and have an ex in their hearts. Unless it's because you don't pay your feelings and girlfriend in this relationship, it's just playing, so you don't care at all, but as long as the guy has a little affection and likes his girlfriend, he will mind his girlfriend's ex. Because boys are also possessive, knowing that their girlfriends have more ex, they will definitely be a little unhappy and even jealous.

For his girlfriend, arguing about Sun You's ex may mean that this girl's concept of love is a little distorted or there must be some poor reputation in the process of falling in love, and boys may feel that they are particularly faceless and unwilling to choose such a girl, afraid that they will not be able to raise their heads in front of their friends, so they will definitely mind. For the girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, he will definitely mind the socks, but he is embarrassed to express it, because if he expresses it, the girlfriend will feel that the other party does not trust him or dislikes him, and his heart will be more uncomfortable. Therefore, in the process of falling in love, boys can only show that they don't care and trust their girlfriends 100%.

And when a guy is in a relationship, he should realize that he is now by his girlfriend's side. You should treat your girlfriend well, don't have a girlfriend, work hard to help your girlfriend if you are sad or have a reason to break up, heal the previous scars, since you mind your girlfriend's ex, don't be your girlfriend's ex again, but treat your girlfriend well, and make yourself the current forever.

I accept that my object has an ex but I don't accept the object, and I still have feelings for my ex, I think the object has an ex, not that the chain is completely imperfect, but a kind of experience that he has experienced this failed love, and then met me is also a kind of fate, as long as he can forget his ex, and sincerely fall in love with me, I think it is also, perfect love, I don't allow my object to tell me for various reasons, I haven't forgotten my ex, I think this kind of thinking is an insult to me, But he went to find the money and stopped falling in love with me.

I can't accept it. Absolutely unacceptable!

Background: We have known each other for more than 4 months, and we have not yet confirmed our relationship, but we are only one confession away. When I was in voice chat last night:

Their high school classmates, after the male college entrance examination, wanted to give up a good school for her and chose to go to a school with her, but she couldn't afford it and refused (she talked about another in the school).

After graduating, the two of them were together again (she said they hadn't been together in high school). Later, because she wanted to stay in Shenzhen and her boyfriend wanted to go home to develop, they parted ways. She said that during this period, the boy did to her what she thought her boyfriend basically did, and he was very good to her.

Later, she also said that other very short relationship histories were all broken up by the other party. Her mother kept urging her to find a boyfriend to marry, but she just didn't want to, feeling that no one else really loved her. So her mother asked her, who would you like to talk to?

She said that if it was this boy, she would. (I felt very uncomfortable hearing this, I didn't understand any psychology myself, and it always made me want to take back my heart).

I was silent at this point, and after a while I asked her, "If he came back to you, would you accept him?" He understood why I was asking this. Explained that it was impossible for him to come back to her, saying that they had different goals, different views, and so on.

In the end, she also said that she didn't feel it anymore. It's just that the boy is really good to her, and he really loves her.

I interrupted her and said that the best answer to that question might be two words: "No!" ”。And she thinks that what she says can't mean the same thing as what I say.

My question is:

I knew she was willing to accept me, but I was upset because she had obviously had this person in her heart all along? (I'm not sure) just watched a ** and thought about it so much, and talked to me for hours. Their memories may be too good to break up peacefully.

Am I being too careful?

One time I was 100% committed, but after listening to what she said, I really felt like I couldn't put it all in.