Confess to a guy and get a reply that we d better be friends first

Hehe, let's be friends first! You are not familiar enough, and you need time to double-examine whether he is the right fit for you. Give each other more time to get acquainted with each other, so that you can move on to the next step of development, and if you are not, you can say goodbye.

But judging from his text messages, he is a person who pays a lot of attention to personal space, if you can adapt to it, go for it, and if you like to always be with the person you like to do this and that, it's better to let it go.

You're stupid. Girl. Can't you see it.

He had been hurt in the past. So you have to take it slowly. Help him come out of the shadows.

Be friends first. Don't talk about sensitive topics. Be friends first and care about care.

Can't be too sticky. The girl should be a little bad, and he will like it more. It would be even better if there was a bit of humor.

No one is stupid. Love doesn't have to be spoken. Got it.

Exposure for some time. It depends on the situation. Remember that love cannot be forced.

Otherwise, friends wouldn't be able to do it.

Maybe you haven't reached his standards yet, but he also has a bit of a crush on you.

Everyone has their own ideas, maybe he just wants to develop slowly, but it doesn't matter what he means, he has to try his best to pursue the person he likes, love is not all sudden, both sides. You should work hard and believe in yourself!

In my boy's opinion, it's 100% boring for you

After the boy confessed, he replied, "Let's be friends first", and he ignored me, what did he think? Girls generally say that being friends is equivalent to rejecting you, but some boys just think that they are really friends, and then they find out that this woman is hot and cold, and they don't pay attention to him at all, and then they may be disheartened, he may not change his goal, he is just hiding in his heart, and suddenly disappearing is just because he is too embarrassed, or he is tired, and he deliberately avoids you.

Those girls who reject you like the life of being chased by you, but in fact, she is very irritated that you chase her, but as soon as you disappear, he will feel that it is good to be chased, and now no one will chase or a little lonely, she will feel that you have given up, and then no one will chase, it will feel special, awkward, but he doesn't want to be with you.

Women are emotionally changeable, in fact, they just don't want you to chase others, and they don't want to be with you, they just want to monopolize your love, but if it disappears, he may regret it, but he can't be with you, because you haven't cultivated a relationship, and you may not understand it at all.

As long as the boy with normal emotional intelligence can understand, after the confession, the girl says what it means to be friends. If the boy doesn't contact, isn't he just dead? was rejected, and still had to be stalked, do girls like such boys?

I think this boy did the right thing, and after confessing and being rejected by the girl, cold treatment is the best way. If the girl doesn't contact the boy, then don't contact at all. If the girl realizes that the boy is important to her and takes the initiative to contact the boy, then the opportunity to catch her will come.

The subject should be the girl.,Now I still care about the psychology of the boy.,Doesn't it mean that you have him in your heart? If you can't put it down, take the initiative and give him a hint.

Men and women have different judgments on love and friendship, which leads to the opposite of words and deeds in the future, especially for people who are not very familiar with each other.

I think he just enjoys the confession process, but he doesn't really like you, so I think such people must stay away, you will not have a good result, otherwise you can only hurt yourself.

Actually, it probably doesn't mean that way to you. The other is that there is a possibility that they are trying to get away with it. confessed to you, did you ignore others? If you are interested in boys, you can take the initiative, after all, the relationship is two.

Since you're all like this, then the other party should think that it's no longer a joke and there's no need to waste time on you.

Summary. In a situation like this, whether you have confessed outside or not. Since the other party said to be friends first, the woman must be able to.

When a guy has a crush on you, but says to be friends first, what should a girl do? Confessed.

In a situation like this, whether you have confessed outside or not. Since the other party said to be friends first, the woman must be able to.

If you say no, I will be boyfriend and girlfriend with you, does it seem that the woman is too busy with the man, if the man doesn't like the woman very much. Or, if there are any other concerns, isn't the woman's approach a pressure for the man?

If the woman doesn't agree to be friends, in fact, this is not very personal, so what the woman can do now is to agree to be friends.

Then wait quietly. Let's see what the man does in the later stage.

Thank you. So how do you say being friends?

It was the man and the woman who proposed it, so let's be friends first, right?

You can follow the man's meaning and just say yes.

Or say okay. I said I'll do what you want. I said yes. They're friends.

In fact, the key to this question is not how you promise him to be an ordinary friend. It's that you agree to be ordinary friends with him, and you see what he tells you.

Many girls will encounter such a problem, the boy who knows him on a blind date feels good, so he tries to get along, obviously the two people have the same conditions, but after a few months, the boy has become cold?

This is because in the process of getting along with the two, the girl is too passive!

The passivity here does not mean that girls don't do anything, but because girls' behaviors and ideas are too stereotypical!

For example, if a guy talks to you and you reply, he talks about daily life, you also talk about daily life, and he says that he tells you to eat, and you go to eat. The girl doesn't seem to have anything wrong, and always wants to make the relationship stable and perfect.

But it is the constant repetition of this too conventional daily routine that will make the guy slowly lose interest in you and feel a little tired.

For example, if you go to the same restaurant every time you eat, it is a fixed taste of the meal, and no one competes with you, and the meal is not delayed or advanced, and you will not feel bored after a long time.

Therefore, in the early stage of the relationship, girls should not maintain a relationship for the sake of maintaining a relationship, but learn to increase the fun of the relationship, not so well-behaved, and not so submissive.

You can say no once in a while when a guy asks you out, tell him that you have already asked someone to ask you out, or after a guy has given you flowers a few times, you can say that they want chocolate next time.

This flexible way of interaction between men and women makes it very easy to enhance the relationship between two people!

If a guy you've known for a while says he likes it and wants to fall in love

Usually at this time, girls have a crush on boys, but they feel a little fast

What should girls do at this time?

You should ask that guy, do you really like me and want to fall in love with me? Boys usually say yes.

At this time, you have to tell him: I am an insecure person, I think that if a man really likes someone, he will spend time and money for her, and now you have skipped this stage directly, I feel insecure and want to see your sincerity

If he says that you are material, you can reply to him: You can spend time, but you say that I am material, you are not even willing to spend time on me, let alone money, I can't feel your sincerity, so your liking is just talking.

I think you can completely refuse to confess to a boy you've known for a short time. After all, you are not familiar with each other, you can tell him that the two of them can talk about it first to see if there is a topic, whether the three views are compatible, and it is not too late to think about being together at that time.

Girls should know how to respect and love themselves, first reverse the rejection, if he really likes you, he will definitely express it a second time. Use time to see if a man is sincere to you.

Personally, I think that if you have a crush on a boy, you can promise him to get along, and if you don't have a crush on a boy, you can reject him directly and tell him not to pester you in the future.