Alas, I can t find a suitable job, what should I do?

If you believe me, listen to me patiently, your main thing now is to change your mentality, you are very frizzy and immature, so you can't solve things yourself, and in the end you have to rely on your family, so you need to find experience in society, I also know that you don't like to go to work, but this is a good opportunity to exercise you, through work you can make a lot of friends, exercise your social skills, during this period you will experience a lot of things, you will understand what is going on between people, Give yourself a few years to hone yourself and become mature. I'm about the same age as you, I've done a lot before, I don't like to go to work, I used to think that I was very capable, and I must have no problem doing business, but at that time I encountered a lot of difficulties, and I was very naïve to look at problems, and in the end I still failed, so I tossed from 21 to 25 years old, and I finally admitted defeat, but I just thought why did I fail? It is because of my youth, I have no experience, and I am not afraid of anything because I have the backing of my parents behind me, so I have such an immature move, and I regret losing my job that others envy, and I regret not listening to my parents.

When I was 25 years old, I finally figured it out, I was in contact with all kinds of people every day, and I learned a lot through conversations, how to behave, and how to understand my parents. People's wealth is accumulated over a long period of time, don't look down on it because you earn so much money from your work, you will learn a lot of things and make a lot of friends while accumulating wealth in a long time. I'm 28 now, I've been thinking about it for 3 years and working hard for 3 years, I've thought about it very clearly in these 3 years, my mentality is very good, but I haven't forgotten what I want to do, I also have a certain social foundation now, friends don't make friends for nothing, he can help you to some extent, so I'm very confident now, and within two years I will do what I want.

So don't worry now, men are young even in their 30s, don't be blind anymore, okay? I'm not afraid of a woman, you should be more brave as a man, start your new life now, your mood will be much brighter, put aside all the pressure and previous unhappiness to face your life, remember not to be rough, anxious, it's useless, accumulate your own strength, you will have your own sky in the future. I support you because I used to think a lot like you.

Believe that my parents love you by looking for a job for you, and don't let your parents worry about it anymore.

It is recommended that you calm down, first find your own position, position yourself, see what kind of job you can find in your major, if there is no suitable job, then learn a technology, is it not good if you have a good literary style, write the network**, hehe, don't write, I don't know, it's really difficult, but stick to it and there will be gains.

If you haven't been able to find a job, it can cause you to feel anxious and depressed. Here are some ways to ease your anxiety:

1.Adjust expectations: Detachable tombs can't fully control the outcome, so try to adjust your expectations and accept some uncertainty.

2.Find support for your elderly: Make friends with family, friends or colleagues, share your feelings, and listen to their opinions and suggestions.

4.Find some hobbies: Try something new to take your focus away from anxiety.

6.Seek professional help: If you're feeling excessively anxious or feeling down, you may need to seek professional help.

Clause.

1. Believe that confusion is temporary and normal, and everyone will feel more or less lost in the process of growing up. To get out of this situation, it is recommended to set a goal for yourself according to your own ability and the future needs of the market, that is, planning, and then set some stage goals.

Clause. Second, find your own value, use your strengths, don't be ambitious, high is not low, there is a chance to work, and then choose the job you need, if you do not have a good experience base, the job selectivity will be very little, at this time you must first find employment and then choose a job.

Clause. 3. Anxiety and stress, on the one hand, may come from the surrounding environment, on the other hand, it may be due to internal self-denial, in fact, this is not necessary, the environment is so, and they need a clear self-positioning.

Clause. Fourth, find something to do for yourself, when you don't have a job, don't blindly sleep until noon because of free time, even if it is during the job search, you must maintain a regular schedule, so that you will not hate yourself more because of your laziness, you will be full of enthusiasm because of your diligence and positive energy, in addition to looking for job interviews every day, you will also leave some time to improve yourself and find something to do, so that you will know that you have been improving.

Clause. Fifth, appropriate relaxation, don't push yourself too hard when looking for a job, learn to relax when it's time to relax, you can listen to songs, watch movies, be physically and mentally happy, and you won't think so much about finding a job.

Clause. 6. Talk to friends more, find one or two close friends to talk to each other when you have time, sometimes you have a lot of cranky thoughts, and a warm word from a friend can restore yourself.

First of all, what we have to do is to calm down, this company is not suitable, there is always the next company suitable, don't deliberately belittle yourself, and always maintain your self-confidence, so as to improve the chance of success in the interview, and also make you less negative.

If you can't find a job, you have to keep looking for it, and it is much better to act than not to move, and it will also bring some comfort to yourself.

If you really can't find a suitable one, it is recommended to find a person who is not so suitable first, and continue to look for a suitable job during the period.

Once found, select Hop Hop.

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