What do you think, and what do you think about your views and opinions?

It's been eight years since junior high school – you've just graduated from college, right? Boys and girls in junior high school are only fourteen or fifteen years old, and the next ten years are the period when a person's personality and behavior develop most rapidly. You haven't really been in touch once in eight years, and looking at him from a distance or two doesn't give you an idea of who this person is.

Isn't it too arbitrary to assert that this person is unmatched by anyone you've ever met, based on memories from so many years ago? Moreover, West Night has always believed that two people who love each other should not be too similar, because long-term getting along will gradually bring the interests of the other two people closer together, if they are as similar as two drops of water at the beginning, then the love after that is likely to gradually dry up because of the blandness.

Siye thinks that the reason why you miss this person is mostly because the good impression left back then is still deep, and as for whether you should continue to develop in the future, or whether you should make extra efforts similar to plastic surgery in order to continue to develop, you should first have a deeper understanding of this person before making a decision.

What you can't get is the best, so it's better to leave a dream for yourself, be confident, love yourself, and cherish the people around you more.

Oh, sadly. In fact, whenever we graduate, we will be reluctant to those classmates, but when we arrive in a new environment, we will not feel very lonely when we adapt to everything.

Why delete it, then they will be very chilled. It's good to keep it, even if it's just to keep it.

It's normal not to speak, it's the same for everyone. I'm on QQ now, and I don't even want to talk to my current classmates.

Of course not, the original intention of people wanting money is that money can bring material happiness and can bring spiritual happiness, but generally people who have no money have strong ideas, not that only people who have no money want money, it can only be said that they (we) have not lived a rich life so they are particularly yearning, after which they will also find that there are rich and rich troubles, rich want to be richer, can not fall under others, just work hard to make money, there is little time to do what they like, like Ma Yun, Ren Zhengfei is very nostalgic for the days when there is no moneyTherefore, having money is not equal to a good life, and reuniting with family, friends and colleagues is a good life.

Work is the foundation of life, and money is a tool for circulation.

Money can only make people get fleeting happiness by comparing themselves with each other.

Nowadays, there are some people in society who are far more interested in money than family and friendship, and it can also be said that everything looks at money. In fact, it's good to have enough money, it's important to have thoughts, and enjoy the happiness of family and friendship (online and offline) together. This morning happened to be with my friends, why do people nowadays always complain that life is unfair to them, and the problem lies with them.

If they have the wisdom to deal with it, even if their life is ordinary, they will be happy.

Money and happiness have an inverted U-shaped relationship.

From the perspective of Maslow's needs theory, people are divided into five needs, from low to high, in order of physiological needs, safety needs, social needs, respect needs, and self-actualization. The bottom two layers of needs are to be fed and clothed, whether it is safe, this is the normal life of human beings in ancient times, and now we, especially the post-90s and post-00s, the needs of this generation are no longer physiological, they are all the pursuit of spiritual satisfaction, socialization, respect, social status, self-worth, etc. are the words that this generation focuses on, Mr. Ma Yun said a sentence: I am not interested in money.

In fact, at the height of Mr. Ma, money is really a string of numbers to him, and his current height is the top of the demand pyramid - self-realization. What he is doing now is no longer simply the pursuit of profit, but has risen to the topic of considering human happiness. The kind that can change society and go down in history.

This is a state of life to the extreme, so I think it is good to sleep until you wake up naturally, count the money until your hands cramp, and define it as an ideal pursuit, if you really live this kind of life, believe me, you will not only not be happy after a long time, but you will also be wasted!

To be honest, sleep until you wake up naturally, count the money until your hands cramp. It's a life that everyone wants to live like this, of course, it's a good life in everyone's hearts.

After all, we are not Jack Ma's father, I don't love money, money is not important......

It can only be said that it can only be a good life in our imagination, alas.

Let's talk about the conclusion first, I think about it from the boy's point of view, because I rarely hate others, and the annoying person will be annoying, won't see or even try to cut off the opportunity to meet (such as checking homework, don't think about it, the way home will be changed), and it is impossible to look at each other a few times. So I think it may be your parents or the class teacher or I think I'm affecting your learning, I make it clear, I'm afraid you won't think I'm narcissistic, alas, forget it.

But I hope you can read it all.

My previous grades were also good, originally I and someone in the same class were almost in the top dozens of the grade, I pressed him and he pressed me and the cycle went on and on, but my grades got worse and worse, and I also passed the test in the bottom dozens of grades. In the end, I just hurriedly reviewed it for dozens of days, and I casually walked a book. He went to Tsinghua University.

After college, it was even more wasted, and each time it was just a few days of revision before the exam. I missed one subject, because I had to review four subjects in those two days, and I couldn't stay up that night, so I fell asleep.

What does that mean? To put it mildly, it means that I learn things quickly, and when I realize this, I suddenly get tired of it. And there is no "awe" for people who only have a "good grades" label.

Excellent people can gain considerable experience from all the things they have experienced, in other words, if they go to fight monsters together, he opens double or even triple experience coupons; One more thing is to stick to it. Unfortunately, I don't have this one, and whenever I see a trend, it's easy to let go and go the other way. "If I can do 70% in one second, I won't do it in the next second", that's probably how it feels.

I just know that if I want to, I want to go through it, and if I don't want to, I don't want to go through it.

So I personally prefer you to talk to him, not to ask for results, even if it is to write a letter in organizational language, I will write all the things that I remember that he has influenced me, what I have learned, and what kind of world I have seen. You say you don't have any ideas, so it's good to write a rest.

I think it's very dangerous to fall in love during high school, going to high school is a critical juncture for the university entrance examination, and if you don't get it right, you'll miss your life, especially girls are more infatuated with love, and they're easily affected in their studies, don't fall in love in high school, this boy may mean that he affects you, and because of him, your studies are constantly declining, so he doesn't dare to be your study, and then get close to you, he may be for your good! In fact, you should study hard, don't think too much, put your mind on studying, make up for it after class, and you can be together again if you both are admitted to college. That is, he doesn't love you anymore, there are more outstanding boys in college, and I hope you will study hard and strive to be admitted to a good university to find your happiness!

Let's start with a boy's point of view, if a guy really hates or disgusts a person, he will go another way while he is on the same road as you, and there will be no chance for you to meet him at all. And then from your point of view, maybe, it's because you like him, so you will pay attention to everything about him, and you will pay attention to every action he makes to you and other people, but in fact, feelings are very empty, some people are very slow to feelings, some people are very sensitive, some people are very active, and some people are very shy. Sometimes, you need to calm down and relax by yourself, it's yours and yours, it's not yours, and if you think about it every day, you're going to feel uncomfortable.

Really, there are some things that you have to say, as soon as you say them, it's good, you will know the deepest thoughts in your heart, you will be much more comfortable, and many things really need to be said, after all, people are different, it is impossible to be clear about each other's thoughts, and they always have to say it.

From the perspective of a boy, no matter how mature you are during your student years, you will have some pride or comparison in your heart, which boy or girl doesn't want to have a lot of people who pursue themselves? When a guy notices that a girl is constantly looking at him, he may respond out of politeness, but until he shows affection for the girl, all this behavior can be described as chattering.

Although every boy wants to have many girls pursue him, if there is a little sister and a girl who studies well at the same time chasing you, I believe most men will choose the latter, and men want to be excellent and pursue their own people are equally good.

And in high school, everyone's heart is gradually beginning to mature, there will be some comparisons, the landlord and the boys are good students, but when the landlord's academic performance declines, you will gradually break away from that team, plus there may be people who make irresponsible comments, so that your estrangement has a clear explanation.

As a person who has come over, a big brother's persuasion, I hope that the landlord is still mainly academic, and it is not impossible to fall in love, but at this time you need a boy who can make progress with you, not that he progresses and you regress.

I think, first of all, you're doing a great job. If he really thinks that you are not excellent, then make yourself excellent, and secondly, he will no longer have any thoughts about him, so he will be very rational and know what he wants, so I think what you need now is a goal, not whether he cares or not, he is just your classmate, you have done what you should do, so what do other people think of you, his attitude, what does it matter? Right, I'm doing well myself, I'm also very good, this kind of excellence doesn't need to be recognized by others, because there are so many people in the world, and everyone sees you differently, so it's good to be yourself.

When I was young, my ignorant feelings were the purest, and I thought about the least problems, but after all, I don't adapt to the life and reality when I grew up, the past is gone, don't dwell on it too much, it should be a good memory, there will be a lot of better things and people in the future, keep your best side, make yourself better, and it will definitely get better and better, come on.

Feelings are originally an ethereal thing, there is no shining point in their own body will become attractive and liked, feelings are two people's affairs, can not be wronged to please, so it is best to go with the flow, some people are slow to feelings, some people are playing with feelings, and some people are showing off themselves with feelings, you have to carefully see his character, and you can't just because of a little good feeling to invest too much emotion, affecting your future, you can't hide, not your forced can't get.

Everyone has a similar emotional experience in their youth, and when you look back on it when you grow up, you may feel that you were really naïve in the first place. Experience suggests that no matter what the real situation is, there is no need to worry about what he thinks, these do not need to be delved into, just treat it as an emotional exercise for yourself. The most important thing for you now is to get into the university you like, become the best version of yourself, let yourself shine in the crowd, and you can choose from a lot of male gods