The country has begun to rectify the sky high bride price, do you think it can be done?

I think it can be done, as long as there is a policy to control, I believe that the sky-high bride price can be rectified, although there are all kinds of difficulties, but everyone will still change some ideas, just a period of time to control the bride price, there may be difficulties for the time being, the reasons are as follows:

1. Under the current situation, there is a large difference in the proportion of men and women, and it is calculated that the number of men is 50 million more than that of women. With such a huge disparity in numbers, it is certain that women will be a scarce resource in the future.

2. The speed of social and economic development far exceeds the improvement of people's moral level. Realism in consideration of real life has been more valued, and idealism about love has been hit by reality. People are paying more and more attention to money, which is a sad and unchangeable fact in today's society.

3. The gap between the rich and the poor in the economy and the psychology of comparison that human beings have had since ancient times. It is undeniable that China's economic development is also accompanied by the widening of the social income gap, and the bride price for marriage is becoming larger and larger. The widening gap between the rich and the poor has also made people's comparison psychology expand, and under the influence of comparison psychology, the role of reason is narrowing, and the role of love is weakening.

To tell the truth, the rectification of the sky-high bride price is a good thing, and there are really too many contradictions caused by the bride price problem. But the question is, can this kind of thing be rectified? The standard of remediation is in **?

The so-called clean officials are difficult to cut off family affairs, not to mention that they have not yet started a family. The mother-in-law said: Do you have 100,000?

If you have the money ready, you will get married, and if you don't have money, you will get it. Do you still dare to call the police? You took out the "Opinions" of the Ministry of Civil Affairs and showed it to your mother-in-law, but your mother-in-law felt that it was a pile of waste paper.

What can you do? If you don't have money, others will have money, and to put it mildly, this is a transaction, a market supply and demand.

Moreover, those mothers-in-law who ask for sky-high prices are all asked for by poor sons-in-law. If it is a rich son-in-law, people will not think that this is a sky-high price. This is an indisputable fact, for the former, either the marriage is cold, or the wallet is cold, no matter which, the so-called "Opinions" you don't even want to see at this time.

Don't feel unbalanced, what is the most essential reason for the sky-high bride price? It is a family relationship after marriage, the mother-in-law goes to the son's house to go to her own house, and the mother-in-law goes to the son-in-law's house is someone else's house. The so-called "water spilled by married daughters" has led many people, especially those whose families are not wealthy, to feel that raising daughters is simply losing money, and the remains of patrilineal society want to raise daughters, which eventually leads to an imbalance between men and women.

When a daughter marries in the past, raising her mother-in-law is naturally a filial piety, but raising herself has become a luxury. In this case, it is no wonder that the mother-in-law wants a sky-high bride price. In the final analysis, it is still the issue of "equality between men and women" that has been making a lot of noise in recent years, and it is now estimated that it is already an either/or "polemic."

Baozi doesn't have too many thoughts about this matter, just thinks that "power and responsibility correspond" is good.

The state has begun to rectify the sky-high bride price, and I think it will definitely be done. Since you want to rectify it, there must be a way to deal with those who don't follow the rules. Besides, such a policy is a good measure to follow the people's will and observe the people's will, and I believe that the majority of the people will support it and will be more willing to abide by it.

It is supported by a broad public opinion base, and it makes no sense that it will not succeed.

Recently, the civil affairs department has introduced measures to rectify the sky-high bride price, requiring the bride price to be within a reasonable range. During this period, some areas in Gansu, Hebei, Shandong, Jiangxi and other provinces have successively introduced plans to curb sky-high bride prices. The 20 regions of Henan Jiang Province have become the pioneer experimental areas for the reform of marriage customs.

Once the experimental period has passed, then more perfect policies and measures to restrict the bride price will inevitably be gradually promoted to the whole country and rolled out in an all-round way.

According to ** report: Jiangxi Province Pingxiang Civil Affairs Bureau and other six departments issued a notice on curbing the implementation plan of the bride price to promote marriage and customs, the plan said that the bride price should be carried out according to local conditions, so that the bride price returns to the essence of "rite", and it is recommended that the bride price should not exceed 30,000 yuan. Jimu News reporter learned that many places in China have introduced implementation plans to curb the best bride price.

Experts said that the issue of bride price is more prominent, the voice of the masses in various places is relatively strong, and the introduction of relevant policies has a broad social basis.

In fact, in the people, especially in rural areas, over the years, the custom of sky-high bride price has become more and more intense, but also criticized by the masses, because of the sky-high bride price and can not marry a daughter-in-law of young people are more and more, dare not get married, do not want to get married, can not get married is making some people miss marriage and forced to become single dogs, the long-term accumulation of such a phenomenon is bound to cause instability in the social situation, and the most direct result is to hinder the country's normal population birth. In recent years, the birth rate of the population has been low, and young people's desire to have children has decreased, I am afraid that one of the reasons is the direct result of the sky-high bride price.

Some people may say that "there is a policy at the top, and there is a countermeasure at the bottom", and this is certainly not wrong. It is true that there will be some people who do not believe in evil and continue to insist on their ** bride price. But once the local restrictions on the bride price policy are introduced, there is no impermeable wall, once you are reported to have violated the policy, then the corresponding follow-up punishment measures will follow, and the announcement of the results of the punishment will not only need to be corrected by the parties, but also will have a warning and deterrent effect on other people who have a fluke mentality.

As long as the whole society is actively participating in the action of rectifying the sky-high bride price, it is not far off for the wedding bride price to return to its "rite" essence in the future.

I think it can be done, as long as the country has the confidence to rectify, the problem of sky-high bride price will be solved, after all, this is a matter that conforms to the will of the people, the main reasons are as follows:

First of all, the sky-high bride price is a bad habit, many people are very uncomfortable, especially in the vast rural areas, many people's family conditions are still very bad, to marry a daughter-in-law need to pay the sky-high bride price, it is completely a blind comparison behavior, many families will be in debt after marriage, the country chooses to govern this problem, is in line with the people's will, I think it will be able to succeed.

Second, many families who raise daughters regard their daughters as a tool for accumulating wealth, which is essentially disrespectful to women, and the country's governance of this sky-high bride price is a measure to eliminate inequality between men and women, with a broad mass base, the people are vigorously welcomed, with a mass base, the elimination of sky-high bride price will be successful.

Third, the bride price itself is a symbolic etiquette, which has been passed down since ancient times, and there is no problem with retaining itself, and now the main problem is that the bride price is getting higher and higher, which has exceeded the capacity of many families, and has obviously become an unreasonable thing.

**Bride price makes many daughter-in-law families miserable, and the family is unlikely to be happy after marriage, the country at this time to rectify the sky-high bride price, is a very appropriate measure, the people are very welcome, so I think it will be successful.

Nowadays, many rural areas have the custom of collecting bride price, the so-called bride price is the bride price that the man pays to the woman a certain amount of bride price, in fact, there are many places that do not agree with this custom of asking for a bride price! What are the requirements of the Marriage Law for bride price? Who should the bride price belong to, or should the other party be asked to return the bride price after the divorce?

Now let's find out what the new marriage law has about the bride price? Let's take a look!

1. Who will the bride price belong to after marriage?

The bride price is essentially a gift for the purpose of marriage. In other words, the marriage has been registered in accordance with the law, and the bride price should belong to the woman.

It is important to note that there is no special agreement, and the bride price is personal property before marriage.

The Marriage Law clearly stipulates that only the property acquired during the marriage relationship may be the joint property of the husband and wife, and the bride price is generally obtained before marriage, and according to the provisions of the Marriage Law, the pre-marital property of one party or the property determined in the gift contract to belong to only the husband or wife belongs to the personal property of the husband and wife.

2. What are the conditions for the return of the bride price?

Judicial Interpretation II of the Marriage Law stipulates that the return of the bride price shall be subject to the following circumstances:

1) The man and the woman have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) If a man and a woman go through the marriage registration formalities but do not live together, they may request the return of the bride price in the divorce proceedings;

3) If the payment is made before marriage and causes the payer to have difficulties in life, the bride price may also be returned in the divorce proceedings.

In judicial practice, the return of the bride price cannot be requested in the following circumstances:

1) The man and the woman have lived together for more than two years without going through the marriage registration formalities.

2) The two parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities and have lived together for less than two years, but have children.

3) The bride price received has been used for living together.

3. What evidence is required for a lawsuit for the return of the bride price?

1) Proof that both the man and the woman were in a state of marriage negotiation at that time.

It can be reflected through the chat records of communication tools such as text messages and WeChat between the two parties, or the engagement ceremony and wedding photos have been held, indicating that both parties have the intention to talk about marriage.

2) Evidence that the property was paid.

If the key money is paid by bank transfer, then the bank transfer details must be provided; If you are buying a house or a car, you can provide proof of your own financial contribution, because according to our daily life experience, registering a large amount of property in someone else's name is generally used as a bride price.

3) Proof that the payment of the bride price is a local custom.

In fact, a place is a custom, and this is just a local habit that does not represent anything! The marriage law on the bride price is also very clear, this is only a gift for the purpose of marriage, belongs to the pre-marital property, owned by the woman, the marriage law on the bride price also said that if you do not live together after marriage, you can ask for the return of the bride price! What are the provisions of the new Marriage Law on bride price?

Do you understand?