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As an important part of the marriage process, the bride price has become a mandatory indicator for both men and women before the wedding, and the price of the bride price will vary in different regionsThe bride price of 80,000 yuan does not belong to the scope of a sky-high bride price, and the amount of bride price is appropriate, which mainly depends on the financial situation of each family and the relevant customs of each region.
Before both men and women get married, the man must give the woman a certain bride price, and this bride price is on the one hand to ensure that the man has the ability to give the woman a normal standard of living in the future, and on the other hand, it is also a guarantee to the woman. With the continuous improvement of people's living standards, the price of the bride price is gradually in the first place, and the price of the bride price will be different in various regions. The bride price of 80,000 yuan does not belong to the range of a sky-high bride price, because under the rigid standards in some areas, the lowest bride price** has reached 300,000.
As a representative of the Northeasterners, my little aunt gave a bride price of 500,000 yuan when she got married, plus a house and a car. At the same time, I think there is such a question about how much is the right bride priceIt mainly depends on the economic conditions of the man's family, if the economic conditions are good, you can give more, and if the economic conditions are not good, you can give less. After all, marriage is a happy thing for both parties, don't affect the two people who love each other because of the bride price, and change the amount of the bride price according to some local customs.
The bride price is actually a kind of guarantee for the man to the woman, because after all, marriage is a thing for the girl to marry into a new family and live in this family all the time, so you should give him some financial comfort. The specific amount still depends on yourself, don't be reckless, do what you can, because girls marry you are not your money, I hope that boys can cherish the girl who is willing to marry him.
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It doesn't belong. The bride price is around 50,000 yuan. Because 50,000 is a sum of money that most families can afford.
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The bride price of 80,000 yuan is within the scope of the sky-high bride price, and 30,000 yuan is normal.
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It's not a sky-high bride price, it's a normal range. Different families have different expectations, so how much is appropriate or ask your mother-in-law.
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A penny of bride price is illegal possession of other people's property, and it is a disguised robbery!
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How much is the bride price to be considered a sky-high bride priceI have heard a criterion before, and I think I agree with it, that is, as an ordinary income group, it exceeds its total income in 1 year, or exceeds the average annual income of the local area in 2 years, even if the bride price exceeds the ability to bear, it is considered a sky-high price! But for individuals and families with good economic conditions, millions, tens of millions, as long as they are reasonable, they are not sky-high
In the face of the sky-high bride price, what is the impact of the man and woman who are in this marriage?
There are no sweetness at both ends of sugarcane, and the sweeter the woman who receives the bride price, the more bitter the man becomes, and the problem is that it is more difficult to get married. The bride price is as you like, regardless of reality, so how much cash and how much material will be paid for the dowry! In response to this problem, many lovers' marriages are in constant trouble at the beginning of the plan, how many marriages are canceled in the face of a bride price of 100,000 or 200,000, and how many quarrels occur in the comparison between the calculation of the bride price and the dowry.
What is the purpose of getting married, isn't it just to let people who are happy with each other form their own families, give birth to dolls, and help each other to run towards happy days.
If the precondition for the bride price is to have the man's house and car ready, and there is no mortgage, but the woman is not pulling out a dime, then this marriage will either not succeed, or the marriage will be unbalanced from the beginning. The essence of the problems caused by the sky-high bride price is mostly caused by the woman, who has a high sense of superiority, and she can't come up with a relatively equal value to exchange. In fact, if the bride price is not counted, can the value exchange between the two parties (including feelings and future growth, which is also a kind of value embodiment) be reciprocal?
This party knows it in his heart! Therefore, on the issue of bride price, it is important not to be reasonable and amiable.
In practice, for the sake of the family's face, many local customs have agreed on several grades of bride price standards, the bride price varies with the woman's family's satisfaction with the man, the more satisfied the woman is with the man, the closer the bride price is to the lower limit of the local bride price, and vice versa. Therefore, the level of the bride price depends on the person, and it has nothing to do with the place, if you are not satisfied, the bride price is just a reason for you to regress.
The reason for the sky-high bride price
It's nothing more than two points, the first is that the competition for men to choose a marriage partner is bigger, and women have more choices, if you don't give, someone will be willing to give, such an imbalance between supply and demand is at work; The second is that most men will be more eager to get married after a stable relationship, while women or female family members want to see if there is a better marriage partner, which is relatively less urgent, unless you can come up with very generous conditions to attract the urge to get married, so there is a sky-high bride price.
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For me, it's two or three hundred thousand.
The "sky-high bride price" is often defined as a bride price, which is distinguished from the phenomena in actual life, such as extortion or extortion through marriage leave, and malicious embezzlement of property.
The law can never define the amount of the bride price, because China has a vast territory, different economic development, and different family situations, and the law can only make a principled provision.
From 2013 to 2020, the marriage rate in my country has been continuous. The decline in the marriage rate will directly affect the birth rate of newborns, and will also affect the growth of our population. If the bride price remains high, then China's population growth will inevitably be greatly negatively affected.
Therefore, if you want to increase the birth rate of newborns, the most critical means is to start with the marriage rate of young people. In some areas, the bride price can even reach one million, and the matter of marriage itself has become no longer pure, and has become the main means for many people to accumulate wealth.
In order to improve the social atmosphere of such a high bride price, China promulgated the Civil Code at the beginning of 2021, which stipulates that the bride price cannot be used as a reason to accumulate wealth on the grounds of marriage. After the promulgation of the provisions of the Civil Code, all provinces began to actively implement them.
The Civil Code was not promulgated to challenge traditional folk customs, but to avoid various economic disputes caused by excessive bride price. Therefore, after the "Civil Code" came out, the standards for bride price are not one-size-fits-all, and there will be local quotas and measures in various places. In some areas, the level of economic development is relatively high, and it is normal for the bride price to be relatively high.
Some places are already poor, and if the bride price is not reduced, it is basically a fantasy for many people to marry a wife and have children, so this should be seen according to the development level of different regions.
In order to curry favor with the bride price, the bride price in various places has not been abolished, but it is just for everyone to pay a certain bride price within their means. Not all bride price can be returned, if both the man and the woman have been living together for more than two years, or if the woman is pregnant, the woman can choose not to return the bride price. If the woman uses the bride price for the daily expenses of the two, naturally the bride price should be used as the life of the two, and the man goes to the woman to ask for the bride price, which is a bit unreasonable, so everyone must correctly understand the regulations given by the state.
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**The bride price is not illegal, the law does not clearly stipulate this, only prohibits the extortion of property through marriage. The payment of bride price for marriage is only a folk custom, and there is no mandatory provision, so as long as both parties can reach an agreement, whether to pay the bride price and how much to pay are free to decide. Among them, the Civil Code stipulates that the sky-high bride price is restricted, but the Civil Code does not stipulate the specific amount of the bride price.
Therefore, there is no clear standard for how much the bride price can not exceed in 2021, in Leping City, the bride price ** 5 years ago was 200,000, and in 2020, the bride price **** will be about 400,000, and some villages even need 500,000. This kind of phenomenon is a sky-high bride price, and it is illegal if it is not prohibited.
The bride price is generally appropriate.
The amount of the bride price depends on various factors such as local conditions and the economic status of the parties, but the amount is generally not a small number. The bride price is not a condition of marriage, so the law does not stipulate how much bride price to pay, and it is generally determined by the ability of the man's family to pay.
Sichuan generally starts at 10,000, the average is basically about 30,000 in various places, and the bride price in Guangdong is around 10,000 to 30,000.
Giving bride price money does not represent the depth of feelings, and do not affect the quality of life for the sake of face. It is also good to give an auspicious number, such as 10,001 yuan, representing one in ten thousand, 10,007 yuan, representing ten thousand miles to pick a wife, 21,800 yuan, representing two families together, 100,000 yuan representing perfection, etc., and some areas are asking for a house and a car.
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First of all, the law is the bare minimum of morality. Generally speaking, if he goes beyond the legal standard, he also crosses the bottom line of morality. Although there is no standard for morality, there is often a standard in the law, and the law is for the amount.
The proportional provisions are determined by taking into account the three aspects of reasonableness and legality. To be clear, the law does not include the concept of "bride price" as illegal, and the concept of bride price is still included in the current legal provisions, and the bride price is allowed to be returned in certain circumstances. However, this does not mean that the law supports the payment of a bride price for marriage, so there is no provision in the current law on the positive amount and proportion of the bride price, and I am only talking about a reference.
Regarding people's livelihood, there are two ratios that often appear in the law, that is, 20% and 30%. 1.When a couple divorces, the spouse who does not directly raise the child needs to pay alimony to the other parent, which is 20-30% of the monthly salary.
2.The parties may agree that one party shall pay the other party a deposit guarantee, and if the party who pays the deposit to the other party fails to perform the agreed debt, it shall not have the right to demand the return of the deposit; If the party receiving the deposit fails to perform the agreed debt, it shall return the deposit twice. Among them, the amount of the deposit shall not exceed 20% of the amount of the subject matter of the main contract.
3.If the liquidated damages agreed upon by the parties exceed 30% of the losses caused, it can generally be determined that the liquidated damages are "excessively higher than the losses caused" as provided for in the Contract Law, and the liquidated damages may be appropriately adjusted. In other words, the maximum penalty is not more than 30% of the loss, and it cannot be higher.
4.The salary of the worker during the probationary period shall not be less than 80% of the minimum wage for the same position in the employer or the salary of the banquet agreed in the labor contract, and shall not be lower than the minimum wage standard of the place where the employer is located. In other words, the salary during the probationary period can only be 20% lower than that of regular employees, and it cannot be more, and more is not enough to live.
5.If the employee causes economic losses to the employer due to his own reasons, the employer may require the employee to compensate for the economic losses in accordance with the provisions of the labor contract. Compensation for economic losses may be deducted from the employee's salary.
However, the monthly deduction shall not exceed 20% of the employee's salary for that month. If the remaining part of the salary after deduction is lower than the local monthly minimum wage, it will be paid according to the minimum wage. That is to say, when an employee makes a serious mistake and causes the company to lose, the company can deduct money from the salary, but it cannot deduct more than 20% every month, and the employee will starve to death if the deduction is too much.
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Hello, I don't think this is illegal, the bride price is related to local customs. Where a party requests the return of a bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances: the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; Payments made before marriage and cause hardship to the payer.
I can accept the range of 100,000 yuan.
The most important reason for the phenomenon of "sky-high bride price" is because of poverty, hoping to improve the living conditions of the family by marrying a daughter.
Ways to deal with the bride price.
1. Weigh economic strength.
When asked for a high bride price, the man should not compromise with all the doubts, but should consider his family's financial situation. Although it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law now, you should not accept a bride price beyond your ability without a bottom line. If you borrow money everywhere or take risks and use illegal means to barely get enough for the bride price, such a marriage is also full of dangers.
2. Actively communicate and negotiate.
In the face of a bride price beyond the scope of bearing, the man can first communicate with the woman and listen to her opinion, if the two truly love each other, the bride price can be negotiated. Moreover, most parents will think about the happiness of their children, consider the actual situation and make adjustments, and will not forcibly break up the loving little couple.
3. Show sincerity in marriage.
For many parents of young girls, asking for a bride price is sincerity, and as for the amount of the bride price and even how long it takes to pay off, these can be negotiated according to the actual situation. How does the man show his sincerity? You can't just talk about money, and you can't rely on your parents all the time.
It is necessary to "move with affection", and to prove with practical actions that it has the ability to bring happiness to the woman.
If you want to save enough money for the bride price, in addition to relying on your parents, the accumulation of funds is very important, and forcing yourself to save money is a very practical method. After deducting expenses, the remaining money can be invested in Yicai Finance, so that their wealth can maintain a stable and considerable growth.
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If the family has 1.8 million, 200,000 is not much, if the man's family conditions are not good, 200,000 is more, the woman wants the bride price is not fixed, you can't compare it because of how much other people want to get married, one point less is not good, after all, marriage is to live, and for the sake of the happiness of the two, you can't hurt the feelings of the two because of money, and everything is based on the scope of ability.
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